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Forum: Financial Issues 07-07-2018, 04:57 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 199
Posted By Berner_Faith
I would have to disagree... some kids might be...

I would have to disagree... some kids might be ready at 18 and being mature enough to be able to go to post secondary is one thing but knowing what you want to do with the next 50 years of your...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-07-2018, 11:34 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 199
Posted By Berner_Faith
I actually agree with this... I took a program...

I actually agree with this... I took a program that I regret now and itís totally opposite than the field I ended up in... itís hard at 18 to know exactly what you want to do for the rest of your...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-06-2018, 07:58 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 646
Posted By Berner_Faith
Iím not divorced and my husband pays full support...

Iím not divorced and my husband pays full support to his ex but I would much rather an involved father than CS... my husband works long hours when his kids are with their mom but he reduces his hours...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-02-2018, 06:04 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 754
Posted By Berner_Faith
For what itís worth... my husbandís ex was...

For what itís worth... my husbandís ex was adamant they have in their agreement that he must take the kids to their activities on his time... his lawyer told him just to leave it in because it was an...
Forum: Introductions 06-29-2018, 12:57 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 351
Posted By Berner_Faith
Seems like you created this situation yourself by...

Seems like you created this situation yourself by not responding to her first filing and now youíre not paying child support. That looks very bad on you and you will have a hard time convincing a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2018, 01:48 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 268
Posted By Berner_Faith
Help with what? What are you trying to accomplish...

Help with what? What are you trying to accomplish with this video?


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2018, 01:47 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 668
Posted By Berner_Faith
Even bonuses should be reported on the tax return...

Even bonuses should be reported on the tax return somewhere, sometimes as other income... but I agree you need to see proof of that bonus... does the bonus happen often? Is it usually a big amount? ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2018, 10:23 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 668
Posted By Berner_Faith
Bonuses are most likely included in line 150... I...

Bonuses are most likely included in line 150... I would use line 150 and back out the bonuses received... that will include the base salary and overtime.


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Forum: Financial Issues 06-27-2018, 05:13 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 269
Posted By Berner_Faith
My thoughts however this wasnít really her...

My thoughts however this wasnít really her decision when the company restructured and she is losing her position. Her option would be to move 3 hours away to the other location the company is but...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-25-2018, 07:55 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 269
Posted By Berner_Faith
Job Change

This is something currently happening with a co worker of mine. Our company is doing some restructuring and eliminating her position all together. They have offered to either pay her a severance or...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-20-2018, 05:45 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 241
Posted By Berner_Faith
Clearly the wife accepted the appraised value and...

Clearly the wife accepted the appraised value and went forth with the separation. The husband was under no obligation to get a second opinion if the wife was accepting of the value. If the wife had...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2018, 07:40 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 279
Posted By Berner_Faith
What has he provided so far? What are you...

What has he provided so far?
What are you trying to equalize?
RRSPs? Savings? Most financial disclosure like you are asking about is for support purposes. Full tax returns, any and all write offs,...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-18-2018, 07:51 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 989
Posted By Berner_Faith
So this begs the question why your income was so...

So this begs the question why your income was so much less... thatís a huge drop in income... my husbands income fluctuates since he is commission based but only by a few thousand which doesnít...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-18-2018, 06:21 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 989
Posted By Berner_Faith
Bit does FRO do annual adjustments or only...

Bit does FRO do annual adjustments or only enforce whatís in the order?

You should pay something for June... estimate her income and pay that amount... if it should be more she will provide...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-16-2018, 10:42 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 479
Posted By Berner_Faith
To me 7 days would be Friday to Friday or...

To me 7 days would be Friday to Friday or Saturday to Saturday, something like that... if it doesnít specify pick up time then thatís something that has to be agreed upon but it should go the same...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-16-2018, 09:09 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,224
Posted By Berner_Faith
No need to get defensive in every post. YOU...

No need to get defensive in every post. YOU mentioned your partner so naturally people are going to comment on that, if you didnít want that to happen then leave that detail out.

You can file for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-14-2018, 07:52 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 440
Posted By Berner_Faith
Is it possible you two are not on good terms...

Is it possible you two are not on good terms because neither of you are flexible?

If you have no plans why say no just to say no? That doesnít necessarily seem beneficial to the kids. Itís very...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-13-2018, 07:27 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 648
Posted By Berner_Faith
Sure you can but without an agreement even after...

Sure you can but without an agreement even after the divorce she can come back on you and request whatever she wants. Iím not sure what youíre not understanding from the posters here. You are setting...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-12-2018, 03:13 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 989
Posted By Berner_Faith
Well if money is exchanging hands both ways then...

Well if money is exchanging hands both ways then if you stop paying her she will stop paying you so really you are no further ahead. I honestly wouldnít even expect that overpayment back but thatís...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-12-2018, 01:59 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 989
Posted By Berner_Faith
If she is paying you... how are you paying her?...

If she is paying you... how are you paying her? or are you paying her full CS and in turn sheís paying you back full CS?


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Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2018, 07:25 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 648
Posted By Berner_Faith
As long as the inheritance hasnít been mingled in...

As long as the inheritance hasnít been mingled in family assets she canít touch that. Any money used for family assets or in joint accounts becomes subject to equalization.

I am sure your house...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-04-2018, 07:18 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 181
Posted By Berner_Faith
Basically CS should be paid based on current...

Basically CS should be paid based on current income, however most people use the annual adjustment method which is seems like you do. If thatís the case when you get his 2018 taxes and NOA then all...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-04-2018, 07:13 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 183
Posted By Berner_Faith
What is said activity? If itís a summer activity...

What is said activity? If itís a summer activity the schedule is most likely available by now.

As mentioned above, you donít have to pay if you didnít agree but if she wants your contribution...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-01-2018, 05:58 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 472
Posted By Berner_Faith
How far is aunts house from your house? Go for...

How far is aunts house from your house? Go for dinner and take the kids back to your place for pick up... honestly you are both creating unnecessary drama... him for not wanting to pick up at aunts...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-30-2018, 07:08 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 2,083
Posted By Berner_Faith
I agree with Kate that it shouldnít be the child...

I agree with Kate that it shouldnít be the child forced into a long distance relationship... you should be able to get to your child quickly, you should be attending school functions and extra...
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