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Forum: General Chat 10-13-2016, 09:24 PM
Replies: 70
Views: 4,204
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Are men going MGTOW after divorce?

Gentlemen, I'm curious as to where you are post divorce.

I've recently been exposed to a lot of MGTOW content (men going their own way, just google and youtube it)

Has your faith in women...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-13-2016, 08:38 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 656
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Thanks, we were married for less than 4 years.

Thanks, we were married for less than 4 years.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-13-2016, 08:20 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 656
Posted By dadthatshadenough
My ex wife had another child and wants support

So 4 yrs after our divorce, my ex meets another guy, and had another child last month.

It was a simple break, everything was split down the middle, she bought me out of the house and we share...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-27-2014, 07:22 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 561
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Is there a text app that blocks/forward texts to email?

My Ex is still harassing me via text. Its all nonsese, self serving, or has little to nothing to do with our daughter.

I've been using Auto SMS (Lite) with an auto reply message to every text...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-24-2014, 10:37 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,377
Posted By dadthatshadenough
13 year olds play video games. Thats life. ...

13 year olds play video games. Thats life. Accept it.
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-02-2013, 01:42 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 4,525
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Good points. My ex gave me the 3rd degree...

Good points.

My ex gave me the 3rd degree about introducing my g/f to our daughter, so to set her at ease I told my ex the rundown on my g/f to cool her jets. My g/f was an elementary school...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-02-2013, 12:22 PM
Replies: 59
Views: 4,525
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Background check on Ex's boyfriend

With 9/10 child sex offenders being male, has anyone ever done a background check on their Ex's b/f to make sure they aren't a criminal or sex offender?

My ex announced she wants to go down south...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-20-2013, 08:50 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 5,466
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Thanks so much everyone, these replies have all...

Thanks so much everyone, these replies have all been very helpful.
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-15-2013, 09:45 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 5,466
Posted By dadthatshadenough
How do you handle a smothering, judgement & critical ex?

So I have a shared parenting plan and have enjoyed some great times with my daughter, now 4 1/2. Things in life have gotten better.

The exwife is a constant hassle. By hassle, its not a thorn in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-10-2013, 09:00 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,263
Posted By dadthatshadenough
When I was living in the matrimonial home and...

When I was living in the matrimonial home and separated I often picked up my daughter early from daycare just to spend time with her. My lawyers advice was just send a text to my Stbx as I was at...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-02-2013, 12:10 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 708
Posted By dadthatshadenough
The book is awesome, I got the audio version off...

The book is awesome, I got the audio version off of itunes. James reads it himself, choosing yourself is so simple yet many of us overlook it.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-02-2013, 10:30 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 708
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Very helpful blog on dealing with crappy people

I've struggled with my exwife. I find myself reading this blog from time to time to remind me of how to deal with her nonsense.
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Forum: Parenting Issues 06-12-2013, 12:37 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 634
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Communications with Ex (Skype, email etc)

So...I've got a very acrimonious ex-wife. She uses our daughter as a way to try to "talk" to me. When I say talk, I mean, to bring up old $hit about why I left her. It starts out about our daughter,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-11-2013, 02:30 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,034
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Any advice when the ex makes disparaging comments?

Like most of you, there is probably some language in your separation agreement that deals with the other parent making disparaging comments about you to your kids.

My daughter is 4 now and has...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-30-2013, 11:31 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,370
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Thanks everyone, thats been very helpful to hear...

Thanks everyone, thats been very helpful to hear other peoples experiences.

FYI I met a monk the other day and had a big take away..

70% of what they do is train their mind, and a HUGE part...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-30-2013, 10:52 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,370
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Got shared parenting, my daughters mum is just evil, guys how do you handle this?

Its been a while, and I still owe an explaination on how I got shared custody from my Ex after being stuck in the matrimonial home for over a year.

The distilled story is, stay in the house,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2012, 08:24 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,414
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Looks like Demi Moore, now let's see a real...

Looks like Demi Moore, now let's see a real picture lol
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2012, 02:44 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,414
Posted By dadthatshadenough
lol...Yes, and yes. But IMHO a big expensive...

lol...Yes, and yes. But IMHO a big expensive house is a colossal waste of money even if you can afford it.

PS is this a dating site now? Should I be asking for a PM with your picture?

PPS I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2012, 02:00 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,414
Posted By dadthatshadenough
I hear what you are saying, but I forgot to...

I hear what you are saying, but I forgot to mention, it is rural(ish) but about 90% of the homes listed for sale in the school zone I currently live in are estate homes in the $1.5m- $10m range, I am...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-25-2012, 08:38 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,414
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Shared parenting, where to buy my house now?

This has been a really bad 10 month journey, and I finally feel like I am about to emerge from the end of the tunnel. There were times I couldn't even see the light at the end to be honest...

We...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-26-2012, 10:38 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,628
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Is it better for the Father to be the Respondent, or Applicant?

The stbx is totally unreasonable, its been 6 months under the same roof and all I am doing is wasting money on my lawyer to respond to bs letters. The stbx is threatening to go to court.

I agree...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2012, 02:31 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,845
Posted By dadthatshadenough
24-7 recording eh? Although I haven't needed to,...

24-7 recording eh? Although I haven't needed to, it might be a good idea at this point.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-11-2012, 09:21 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,845
Posted By dadthatshadenough
A court date hasn't been set yet, and yes I am...

A court date hasn't been set yet, and yes I am totally tired of this living arrangement, its not doing anyone any good.

I use my phone as a recording device if I need it.

All of her claims...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-11-2012, 09:01 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,845
Posted By dadthatshadenough
My STBX is trying to paint a picture of a history of violence

I learned about this information last week from a reliable source.

Quick background for those that haven't read my other posts. Still in house but live in a different room, involved daily with my...
Forum: General Chat 04-07-2012, 08:58 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,456
Posted By dadthatshadenough
Interesting comments from all, I was overwhelming...

Interesting comments from all, I was overwhelming expecting most divorcees to be from a firstborn/firstborn marriage.

Here is the book I was talking about, very interesting read: Growing up...
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