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Forum: Financial Issues 02-17-2016, 10:43 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 458
Posted By nfc4ever
my wife works for a bank, and a mortgage broker...

my wife works for a bank, and a mortgage broker was able to do better on a 5 year variable than her staff rate. We're at prime -0.95 on a 5 year variable.

I actually think that manulife one is a...
Forum: Reference 02-12-2016, 04:15 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 10,836
Posted By nfc4ever
what would happen in the above example if the...

what would happen in the above example if the child were to receive grants in excess of their share of the education? i.e. if they were to get the full 10,000 in grant money? Would it accordingly...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-12-2016, 04:04 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 961
Posted By nfc4ever
This looks like the professional association...

This looks like the professional association saying "57% of litigants don't have a lawyer - we should lower that ratio and make more money for our members"

some cities for LAO mediation now...
Forum: General Chat 02-12-2016, 03:41 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,304
Posted By nfc4ever
It may help if you have someone who can help. I...

It may help if you have someone who can help. I tried to use the counsellor through our EAP at work. For me it was totally useless, so I got a psychologist who has an understanding of family law....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-09-2016, 08:05 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 863
Posted By nfc4ever
Off topic question within this thread, but if the...

Off topic question within this thread, but if the case is from 2016, why can I not find a J. Gray among the list of Ontario Judges. I can only find a Lionel Gray and a Douglas Gray

deputy judges:...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-22-2016, 03:06 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 658
Posted By nfc4ever
I tried looking at it in Canlii, as I have a...

I tried looking at it in Canlii, as I have a similar issue, however almost all of the cases I've seen the courts impute income to the paying spouse.

With the spouse having stopped working during...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2016, 02:04 AM
Replies: 103
Views: 3,702
Posted By nfc4ever
My brother in law often denies his ex's access to...

My brother in law often denies his ex's access to their son whenever she's in a full on bipolar episode. The exception is when she has a parent of family member who can provide supervision. He does...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-20-2016, 03:40 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 392
Posted By nfc4ever
The second lawyer might also be telling you stuff...

The second lawyer might also be telling you stuff to get you to drop the first lawyer and take them on as your new lawyer. Its easy to poke holes at someone else's work, until you're the one doing...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-19-2016, 11:07 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 740
Posted By nfc4ever
My brother in law won full custody of his son...

My brother in law won full custody of his son with the ability to deny access to his bipolar ex when she's having a manic episode.

It took about three years to get to that point. He had to...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-14-2016, 03:11 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,353
Posted By nfc4ever
Why do people keep putting out that the OP has...

Why do people keep putting out that the OP has mismanaged his money. He has a new significant other, and also has to provide a roof and necessities for her two children who live part time with him....
Forum: Financial Issues 01-11-2016, 01:35 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,037
Posted By nfc4ever
Is that you and the ex, or you and your child...

Is that you and the ex, or you and your child communicating via your text on your ex's cell phone. If its the latter I'd be careful as there's no expectation of privacy that your ex might read the...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-06-2016, 06:46 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,100
Posted By nfc4ever
There is no equity. Men don't participate in...

There is no equity.

Men don't participate in Men's rights. Women naturally organize into support networks better since us men are busy pi$$ing on each other to show dominance. Hence, no strong...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-06-2016, 06:24 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 640
Posted By nfc4ever
The LSUC referral service automatically comes...

The LSUC referral service automatically comes with a 30 min conversation with the lawyer.

You have a couple of options in terms of lawyers: traditional and collaborative. Collaborative are...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-04-2016, 06:40 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 361
Posted By nfc4ever
Financial Disclosure or a fishing trip?

I have round 2 of mediation coming up next month.

I know that the attorney general's website indicates that "You have a right to complete and honest information about your spouse’s financial...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-30-2015, 10:15 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,428
Posted By nfc4ever
@filthy1 - the numbers I put forth is what I'd be...

@filthy1 - the numbers I put forth is what I'd be paying, not the kid. University residence can be pricier than living off campus. Also since the other parent is bearing a portion of the living...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-30-2015, 09:25 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,428
Posted By nfc4ever
Hi Filthy: There are two scenarios at play...

Hi Filthy:

There are two scenarios at play here

#1 Your child goes to a local university and lives at home with the other parent.

you would then still pay full table support and a portion of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-29-2015, 05:38 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 607
Posted By nfc4ever
I can just see that backfiring. The ex could just...

I can just see that backfiring. The ex could just decide not to show, and call the cops saying that Nomad didn't return the kids per our agreement.

The halfway point is the better option IMHO. If...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-29-2015, 05:22 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,162
Posted By nfc4ever
Hi Polly - I think that what we are trying to...

Hi Polly - I think that what we are trying to understand is did the ex wrote down,"buy a bottle of 500mg melatonin" or was it more like I give Johnny 250mg, and Suzy gets 650mg

If you could get...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-29-2015, 03:32 PM
Replies: 46
Views: 3,162
Posted By nfc4ever
I used to use it myself when I was working shift....

I used to use it myself when I was working shift. It helped when transitioning from Nights to Days and back.

I'd never give it to a child though. I only have the belief of trying to limit...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-25-2015, 12:38 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 644
Posted By nfc4ever
There might be a few options: - obtain bank...

There might be a few options:
- obtain bank statements, you can look for obvious things like a transfer to the Bank of Switzerland. Your ex will likely try and dodge this
- check computer browser...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-24-2015, 01:09 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 2,356
Posted By nfc4ever
@YD23 - sounds like you had a great Christmas...

@YD23 - sounds like you had a great Christmas day. Definitely sounds like you and your son had a great day.

Sitting at my father's house. This was supposed to be the time when my daughter was...
Forum: General Chat 12-18-2015, 03:15 PM
Replies: 27
Ugh
Views: 2,404
Posted By nfc4ever
Rockscan - I hope that things get better. ...

Rockscan - I hope that things get better.

From his perspective, they're his kids and since its the holidays he's likely wishing that he could see them. Obviously the rejection from his own...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-17-2015, 01:03 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 307
Posted By nfc4ever
What they are likely trying to do is look for...

What they are likely trying to do is look for expenses that may not be expenses for child support sake. For example there are a lot of cases where mileage gets included into income for CS...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-16-2015, 04:22 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 347
Posted By nfc4ever
From SCHEDULE I: FEDERAL CHILD SUPPORT TABLES -...

From SCHEDULE I: FEDERAL CHILD SUPPORT TABLES - Children Come First: A Report to Parliament Reviewing the Provisions and Operation of the Federal Child Support Guidelines - Volume 2...
Forum: Introductions 12-13-2015, 09:51 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,500
Posted By nfc4ever
Mafia - you might be well served if there is...

Mafia - you might be well served if there is someone whom you can speak with. Though the words were uttered as a result of extreme emotional stress, there's obviously a concern when someone hears...
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