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Forum: Political Issues 10-20-2017, 09:09 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,324
Posted By beentheredonethis
This was exactly my situation. As a female. ...

This was exactly my situation. As a female. Supporting my ex.
Forum: General Chat 06-16-2017, 03:03 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,402
Posted By beentheredonethis
I added my step children to my benefits because...

I added my step children to my benefits because their mother claimed she (a nurse) didn't have any benefits through her job. The girls never made a claim once.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-16-2017, 02:36 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 944
Posted By beentheredonethis
RRSP withdrawals are used as they are included in...

RRSP withdrawals are used as they are included in line 150.
My husband has had my CCB income also added to his line 150 (he's the lower income earner in our house) and it is a benefit for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2016, 03:52 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 3,702
Posted By beentheredonethis
Having been in this very situation, having had...

Having been in this very situation, having had the CAMH contact CAS, both CAS and a judge denied a request for supervised visitation.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-22-2015, 01:51 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 309
Posted By beentheredonethis
I was able to achieve this. My custody, access...

I was able to achieve this. My custody, access and restraining order was dealt with at an uncontested trial, and the Financial Settlement was dealt with 7 months later by motion.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-21-2015, 01:59 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,723
Posted By beentheredonethis
Your husband and mine have the same ex and...

Your husband and mine have the same ex and children I see.

I feel your pain and have little to offer, but please point me in the direction of the case law you speak of. I've tried searching it,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2015, 01:38 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,469
Posted By beentheredonethis
Based on a recent experience, even if you have it...

Based on a recent experience, even if you have it writing, that he agreed to a lower amount, your ex could still be on the hook for retro child support.
Good luck.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-02-2015, 11:44 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,463
Posted By beentheredonethis
As a person currently involved in a case where...

As a person currently involved in a case where parental alienation is an ongoing issue...I hear you. Any time one parent makes false allegations of anything against another parent it isn't beneficial...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-26-2015, 02:29 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,463
Posted By beentheredonethis
The Geadah case is London. I was sad to read this...

The Geadah case is London. I was sad to read this case. My kids go to school with their kids
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2015, 09:54 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,593
Posted By beentheredonethis
Thank you Serene. You have given me food for...

Thank you Serene. You have given me food for thought.

I appreciate your advice.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2015, 06:48 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,593
Posted By beentheredonethis
I went to court. A trial in fact. I was awarded...

I went to court. A trial in fact. I was awarded the following:
The respondent will provide the applicant with his notice of assessment beginning in 2012. The respondent will inform the applicant...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2015, 03:41 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,593
Posted By beentheredonethis
@berner - he expected to contribute his RESP...

@berner - he expected to contribute his RESP contributions....which is why he has continued to put money into their jointly held RESP since they separated.
It was all they EVER agreed to do to help...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2015, 02:54 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,593
Posted By beentheredonethis
well apparently. and even if it means that there...

well apparently. and even if it means that there are 3 other kids living on the streets and eating at the food bank to make it happen.
it's the right of the child.

I am not begrudging child...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2015, 02:12 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,593
Posted By beentheredonethis
Yes, it's part of the reason I work very hard to...

Yes, it's part of the reason I work very hard to remain employed here.

The discount is not deep ;) but there is one, but it doesn't touch residence cost.

As for dad paying 1/3...I understand...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2015, 12:48 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,092
Posted By beentheredonethis
we run parallel lives it seems. 20 months on...

we run parallel lives it seems. 20 months on disability and dad's a deadbeat.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2015, 12:46 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,593
Posted By beentheredonethis
@mcdreamy - she hasn't been accepted yet - we...

@mcdreamy - she hasn't been accepted yet - we will certainly be proud of her when the time comes.
I will be equally proud of her when she shows us how she plans to pay for her portion.

And given...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2015, 12:43 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,593
Posted By beentheredonethis
Our budget is maxed to the hilt. Yes we have...

Our budget is maxed to the hilt. Yes we have cell phones, but no home. Basic cable.

I struggle with the whole argument of we live like paupers to provide a lavish lifestyle, but I get it...it...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2015, 12:14 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,092
Posted By beentheredonethis
Oh that was kind. We are hoping for FRO...

Oh that was kind.
We are hoping for FRO registration after court is done.
the less contact the better
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2015, 11:10 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,092
Posted By beentheredonethis
Yes he paid at 80 while making 20 and for 20 when...

Yes he paid at 80 while making 20 and for 20 when he went back up ...it just didn't quite work out evenly...make sense?
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2015, 11:02 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,593
Posted By beentheredonethis
Mom just completed a college program. dad has...

Mom just completed a college program.
dad has highschool education only. never had an opportunity to pursue further as they had the oldest child quite young

Child has indicated she won't apply...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2015, 10:13 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,092
Posted By beentheredonethis
my husband's went from 80 to 20 - he adjusted it...

my husband's went from 80 to 20 - he adjusted it accordingly and is now being dinged for arrears
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2015, 10:06 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,593
Posted By beentheredonethis
University - the what ifs - case law help please!

my partner is currently in court with his ex. They never had a separation agreement, things only got ugly when he and I got married.

Anywho. The two of them had never thought, nor had the...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-30-2015, 09:21 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,092
Posted By beentheredonethis
It would depend if you have a written agreement...

It would depend if you have a written agreement or not.
If you do, you should be paying retrospectively (ie based on last year's income)
If you do not, you pay based on your current earnings and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-17-2015, 11:49 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,287
Posted By beentheredonethis
Serene I don't know you but respect you a lot. ...

Serene I don't know you but respect you a lot. Word for word we live parallel lives (except the ebola part...that's incredible)
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-17-2015, 10:53 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,287
Posted By beentheredonethis
Serene I'm the same problem second wife. With...

Serene I'm the same problem second wife. With problem step siblings and a half brother
damn us for living a happy life.
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