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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-24-2009, 12:36 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 611
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
I think that it would be very difficult for a...

I think that it would be very difficult for a judge to set any schedule that you would agree to with respect to the son for visitation since you appear to think that because you are nursing then dad...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-23-2009, 02:22 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,027
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
If you have both worked for the majority of the...

If you have both worked for the majority of the relationship or if she has worked the better part of the end of the relationship the courts may rule for support but not as high as it would be if she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2009, 09:59 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 635
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
There is no need for any lawyer interaction since...

There is no need for any lawyer interaction since any request for divorce that is not consented to can be granted after a 1 year waiting period without the other parties consent/signature. Seeing as...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-18-2009, 09:55 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 837
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
Thank you "Mess" for that, it was well stated and...

Thank you "Mess" for that, it was well stated and I felt the honesty I believe it holds for alot of men.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2009, 09:49 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 992
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
We had been legally advised by our lawyer to...

We had been legally advised by our lawyer to record all conversations without their knowledge, which we did, and we did submit as exhibits both transcribed and actual tape recordings (to demonstrate...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2009, 09:44 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,429
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
There are no known true stats or percentages for...

There are no known true stats or percentages for these kinds of things.
If you feel that you have put together a good argument that the additional time in a greater benefit to the children in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2009, 01:31 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,429
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
Welcome to family law. Yes FL has provision for...

Welcome to family law. Yes FL has provision for it, but unless your ex is willing to say yes, and just go along without a court order perhaps just a written agreement between you then you will need...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2009, 12:21 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,429
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
If you assume that the two evenings per week @...

If you assume that the two evenings per week @ the equivalent of 1 full day(52 days/year) plus the 3 days every other week end (78 days/year) plus the extended vacation days (28 days/year) averages...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2009, 08:00 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,468
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
This is the KEY point to take from all of this. ...

This is the KEY point to take from all of this.
The courts don't care why; they are looking for a solution.
Keep your replies simple and do not stoop or appear to be stooping to the level of the...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-17-2009, 07:49 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 664
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
Not knowing any details, you could suggest...

Not knowing any details, you could suggest mediation and go it alone, you know your case the best and I know allot of people that have done well with their own cases. Since mediation has a third...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2009, 07:45 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,429
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
I think, not 100% sure, that you would not meet...

I think, not 100% sure, that you would not meet the 40% cut off rule.
The other side may argue that the two evenings a week equate to only ONE full day plus the alternating week ends is roughly 37%,...
Forum: Common Law Issues 09-17-2009, 07:39 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 3,529
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f11/common-law-...

http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f11/common-law-miths-dispelled-4160/

This is a link to a previous post I submitted that should help with some of the issues surrounding CL and entitlement.
Best...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2009, 07:29 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 992
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
MaggieT has great advise I also suggest to keep a...

MaggieT has great advise I also suggest to keep a diary of your contact with the daughter and interactions with her mother. Make sure to be meticulous with dates times and conversations. These are...
Forum: Common Law Issues 07-17-2009, 03:48 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,999
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
BillM has good advice, stay involved, keep a...

BillM has good advice, stay involved, keep a diary of all communications and contact with the ex and the kids. You are in a great position both physically (close to all the kids daily activities and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-17-2009, 03:39 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,085
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
The general rule is that once the child reaches...

The general rule is that once the child reaches the age of majority and is no longer in school or has with drawn from the care of the custodial parent, (living onthier own, or self supportive), the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-17-2009, 03:27 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,142
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
My experience is having a year put into writing...

My experience is having a year put into writing is a great thing.
Outline what dates you would like to offer given the distance you might have to be creative.

If there is a clear outline of the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-17-2009, 03:10 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 802
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
I agree, your husband is doing the right thing,...

I agree, your husband is doing the right thing, keep detailed notes on the denials and any costs you have paid and continue to pay.
Seek for the 50/50 based on the very young age and as mentioned...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-22-2009, 08:14 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,020
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
I agree that both the custodial and non-custodial...

I agree that both the custodial and non-custodial parents should be held at the same standard. And not to sound like I am in agreement of a ruling to not in some manner "punish" the custodial parent...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-21-2009, 06:16 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 9,904
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
talk to your lawyer about getting an order to...

talk to your lawyer about getting an order to stop any attempts to have you removed from the home. They can provide an order to allow you sole possession of the home until the matters of assets are...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-21-2009, 06:11 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,806
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
Anka, you have the same rights as any married...

Anka, you have the same rights as any married couple.
You do not need to leave the home as this is your home too.
It is his obligation as the partner that is employed to provide support for the...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-21-2009, 06:03 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 5,628
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
Stubbs, and all the others posting on the...

Stubbs, and all the others posting on the financial burden and the obvious unfairness of the calculations. You are not along, and I know that's not going to ease the financial burden that you have,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-09-2009, 01:45 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,007
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
The protocol is to seek to have the order varied...

The protocol is to seek to have the order varied relative to your present income.
You could start the motion to vary prior to the lay off (to avoid arrears) and ask that the courts set the dates for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-09-2009, 01:38 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 956
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
If she has established a "status quo" and you can...

If she has established a "status quo" and you can demonstrate it to the courts you may be successful in having the actual order amended to include the new status quo access arrangement. Courts do...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-09-2009, 01:33 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 3,124
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
As a general rule it is possible that the...

As a general rule it is possible that the non-biological parent who stood in the place of a parent, "loco parentis", could be ordered to pay child support.

Usually it is when they have acted in...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-09-2009, 06:33 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 2,215
Posted By FL_Needs_To_Change
You've hit the nail on the head with this...

You've hit the nail on the head with this statement!
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