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Forum: Financial Issues 03-07-2016, 01:08 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 847
Posted By JCL
Let's hope you're correct Stripes! His salary...

Let's hope you're correct Stripes! His salary has gone up, he sold the property he owned, the vehicle he owned outright, and now owns no property and has a $400/month car payment. I'm just trying...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-06-2016, 10:54 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 847
Posted By JCL
Motion To Dismiss due to no change in circumstance?

Just got served (actually papers were put in my mailbox; is that legal?) with Family Law Application to Change Child Support. If our original papers were signed once child was already away attending...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-05-2016, 08:51 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,061
Posted By JCL
No, we aren't in a position to talk rationally to...

No, we aren't in a position to talk rationally to one another, unfortunately. The adult children both live with me; one is in university locally and plans to attend medical school, and the other...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-05-2016, 06:08 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,061
Posted By JCL
Thanks Rockscan; can I private message you to ask...

Thanks Rockscan; can I private message you to ask a few more specifics?
Forum: Financial Issues 03-05-2016, 01:46 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,061
Posted By JCL
Who has the 'burden of proof?'

Hi folks,

Just went through CSR (Child Support Resolution) meeting with ex, as ex does not have a lawyer and wishes to take me to court to have child support reduced when child is away at...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-11-2015, 11:48 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,605
Posted By JCL
Yes, Arabian is correct. Son attended for 1.5...

Yes, Arabian is correct. Son attended for 1.5 years at US college, honors student, NCAA athlete, when father decided to quit paying. Other child attends local Canadian university, also honors...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-11-2015, 01:28 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,605
Posted By JCL
Child Support Resolution Program

Wondering if anybody has any experience with this program? My order has been improperly written by my lawyer and is not enforceable by MEP, and my lawyer is refusing to file an application to vary...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-30-2015, 09:47 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,372
Posted By JCL
I've emailed my lawyer to see what she advises;...

I've emailed my lawyer to see what she advises; it's quite frustrating that since both kids live with me, I'm the only one that would ever be initiating Section 7 expenses, and we had a known huge...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-30-2015, 04:47 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,372
Posted By JCL
Mep

So, I've been working with MEP to see what I can indeed have enforced and what I cannot. They will enforce the child support and a flat rate Section 7 for sports costs that was listed in the order. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-31-2015, 12:18 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,139
Posted By JCL
Hi there. In my agreement, we looked at our...

Hi there. In my agreement, we looked at our expense history for our kids' activities, figured out what my ex's proportionate amount of that monthly expense total was, and put that exact dollar amount...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-20-2015, 10:46 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,372
Posted By JCL
Well forum friends...happy to report some...

Well forum friends...happy to report some positive news!

Contacted MEP for the 2nd time (1st person told me that I required a new court order, but didn't seek too much clarification from me, and I...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2015, 11:13 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,372
Posted By JCL
We did both agree, and as I've written before...

We did both agree, and as I've written before this was years in the making and I have emails to back much of it up. Unfortunately, I think his mind was elsewhere (extramarital affair) so he wasn't...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2015, 11:01 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,372
Posted By JCL
Divorce Judgment says that we split Section 7...

Divorce Judgment says that we split Section 7 expenses on a pro-rata basis, and then lists the 2 percentages. Asks for reasonable notice and other party's agreement before incurring. Person can't...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2015, 10:54 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,372
Posted By JCL
Yes, it's on my "to do" list to call MEP...

Yes, it's on my "to do" list to call MEP tomorrow. I sent an email to the ex today (after no communication since he decided to quit paying months ago) explaining that this will be moving forward to...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2015, 06:54 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,372
Posted By JCL
Thanks for the information; much appreciated!

Thanks for the information; much appreciated!
Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2015, 05:34 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,372
Posted By JCL
Whew...thanks for that info! You kind of...

Whew...thanks for that info! You kind of confirmed my worst fears...that I need to complete an affidavit for my lawyer essentially proving the Farden Factors, get a court order detailing the arrears...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2015, 03:11 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 4,372
Posted By JCL
Section 7 Expenses Post-Secondary College Tuition

Hi folks,

Looking for some collective wisdom, so I'm trying to start a new thread. I'm in the process of registering with MEP and want to know if anyone can answer some of my questions.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-12-2015, 11:56 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,528
Posted By JCL
We actually applied the scholarship funds to the...

We actually applied the scholarship funds to the overall total cost, and then split it into thirds.
Yes, in my opinion he is responsible for his share and has made an incredibly arbitrary decision...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-07-2015, 12:38 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,528
Posted By JCL
Ironically, he is a teacher so one would assume a...

Ironically, he is a teacher so one would assume a caring nature and a true interest in kids, especially his own? He actually teaches in an institutional setting, where kids are there for only about 3...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-06-2015, 02:34 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,528
Posted By JCL
They aren't estranged, but certainly aren't close...

They aren't estranged, but certainly aren't close and really never have been. Ex was quite emotionally/physically absent during the kids' childhood. We separated briefly when the kids started school...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-06-2015, 04:18 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,528
Posted By JCL
Yes, we decided to send him during our separation...

Yes, we decided to send him during our separation and he had been preparing to be recruited during our marriage. I have emails detailing our conversations about the cost, emails that the ex initiated...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-06-2015, 02:21 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,528
Posted By JCL
I agree that the cost is expensive. He can't...

I agree that the cost is expensive. He can't however play the sport at the level he can in the States. My argument is based primarily on Farden vs Farden where he seems to meet all 8 of the criteria?
Forum: Financial Issues 04-03-2015, 03:34 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,528
Posted By JCL
Yes, he's on the honor roll and pays 1/3 of his...

Yes, he's on the honor roll and pays 1/3 of his tuition through student loans. In my opinion, our son has fulfilled all of his obligations.

We haven't exchanged full financials; we are both...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-03-2015, 01:18 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,528
Posted By JCL
Okay I will definitely persevere with MEP. So,...

Okay I will definitely persevere with MEP. So, just to clarify, the court date would be to get the court order? Then I provide MEP with the court order when I get it. I'm a bit concerned that the...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-03-2015, 12:58 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,528
Posted By JCL
Thanks Arabian for the reply. I don't think...

Thanks Arabian for the reply. I don't think she's booked a date, so I will contact her after the long weekend. I'll start with the MEP registration this weekend. Ugh...thanks.
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