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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-29-2021, 12:51 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 418
Posted By alongjourney
Words of wisdom when dealing with someone high...

Words of wisdom when dealing with someone high conflict?
When facing a choice, take the path of least effort. The result will be the same: they'll blame you and will be unhappy so might as well save...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-15-2021, 10:33 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 915
Posted By alongjourney
I sure hope they aren't common because it's a bit...

I sure hope they aren't common because it's a bit like hell to say the least. I really won the lottery :eek:

But sadly they are out there, so I'm weary of saying "50-50 is best!" because I used...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-15-2021, 08:42 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 915
Posted By alongjourney
I respectfully disagree. My kids are in a...

I respectfully disagree. My kids are in a similar boat with their mom and there's no way in hell I'd force them to talk to her daily. I try to have them maintain a relationship but there's only so...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-15-2021, 08:36 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 926
Posted By alongjourney
Yup, I'm getting screwed as well. 3 lawyers,...

Yup, I'm getting screwed as well. 3 lawyers, CAS, criminal court, she's delaying everything and wants lifetime spousal. So unless we agree on CS (child custody issue..) and SS (which we cannot...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2021, 11:18 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 386
Posted By alongjourney
Exclamation You can be an observer at a virtual hearing! (zoom trial)

Not many seem aware of that so I figured that I'd post about it. I highly recommend observing a few trials before heading to court:

Members of the public can request access to be a public...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-23-2020, 09:28 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 584
Posted By alongjourney
How old are the kids? Is that for a custody...

How old are the kids? Is that for a custody assessment or for a "voice of the child" representation or whatever it's called?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-20-2020, 02:35 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 508
Posted By alongjourney
#2: no, it doesn't include it. Not sure...

#2: no, it doesn't include it.

Not sure about the others
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-02-2020, 05:47 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 538
Posted By alongjourney
I'm a bit in the same boat but my situation was...

I'm a bit in the same boat but my situation was more complicated due to no-contact order and mental illness.. I was told that even after 18 months, it's not a done deal. He can do that just to...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-07-2020, 09:48 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,202
Posted By alongjourney
What? So she would get her half that she is...

What? So she would get her half that she is entitle to, in addition to his half? So he basically loses his half of the equity? :confused:
Forum: Divorce Support 03-07-2020, 09:22 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 3,120
Posted By alongjourney
Cover your ass. Record and document. Make sure...

Cover your ass. Record and document. Make sure you have proof. Is she aware you want a divorce? Things will likely escalate...

Kids first. She likely would not hesitate to throw you under the...
Forum: Domestic Violence 03-07-2020, 09:20 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,577
Posted By alongjourney
Likely a really costly mistake. Do not let...

Likely a really costly mistake. Do not let anything slip through. She assaults you? Call the cops. Make sure you have proof, might be worth having an audio recorder at all time on you when she is...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-13-2020, 11:40 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,406
Posted By alongjourney
Don't give up on your future.. go through the...

Don't give up on your future.. go through the book. Other sections will also shed a lot of light. You'll also understand why you did what you did. It will take you a few months to truly grasp what...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-13-2020, 12:56 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 2,346
Posted By alongjourney
ok so selling the place until the financials are...

ok so selling the place until the financials are resolved is a no go. I don't want me and the kids to end up in the street.. with no access to the money!
Forum: Divorce Support 02-13-2020, 12:52 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,406
Posted By alongjourney
I'm not a psychologist and BPD/NPD may not be...

I'm not a psychologist and BPD/NPD may not be present but in line with the other suggestions you have received, you may want to buy this book and give it a read. It will help you understand a few...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-12-2020, 05:02 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,406
Posted By alongjourney
Yes, because there seems to be a lot of blame.

Yes, because there seems to be a lot of blame.
Forum: Divorce Support 02-12-2020, 03:48 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,406
Posted By alongjourney
Welcome to the club. Things took a serious...

Welcome to the club. Things took a serious downturn for me when she realized she wasn't getting what she felt entitled to. We went from visiting houses together with the kids to her being charged...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-12-2020, 03:22 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 853
Posted By alongjourney
Based on my thread, anyone can stall for however...

Based on my thread, anyone can stall for however long they want, no one gets penalized and the one that wants to move things forward gets screwed.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-12-2020, 01:14 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 2,346
Posted By alongjourney
But even if they force the sale of the house,...

But even if they force the sale of the house, would the money be held in trust and no one can touch it until the net family property equalization has been done? or it's 50-50 until then?
Forum: Financial Issues 02-12-2020, 10:51 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,083
Posted By alongjourney
Correct, no court order for purchase of house. ...

Correct, no court order for purchase of house. Only for appraisal. Mediation that was scheduled is now postponed at her request. So yes, things aren't going anywhere. :confused::

The...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-09-2020, 01:47 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,083
Posted By alongjourney
Fair enough, I guess it will have to be current...

Fair enough, I guess it will have to be current market value.

But it still pisses me off that I wasn't able to buy her off well before due to her behavior that caused delays and criminal court...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-08-2020, 06:09 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,162
Posted By alongjourney
Not sure how a peace bond works because in my...

Not sure how a peace bond works because in my case it ended up with criminal charges (death threats..) but make sure to document everything, report as needed and don't let anything through if you...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-08-2020, 01:07 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 3,706
Posted By alongjourney
I'll chime in, hoping that it helps others...

I'll chime in, hoping that it helps others because these situations truly suck:

I see it a bit differently and that is likely based on my situation: only once the kids had no real access to the...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-08-2020, 12:28 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,083
Posted By alongjourney
So she can drag the process for as long as she...

So she can drag the process for as long as she wants yet still be entitled to present value of the house?

The intent of the appraisal (per court order) is to provide a fait value so that I can...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-08-2020, 01:36 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,083
Posted By alongjourney
Question Matrimonial home value: separation vs later date?

I'm getting some opposite opinion from two lawyers and can't find what I need on canlii so I figured that I might as well post here..

Situation:
Joint ownership of the house. Separated late...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-07-2020, 05:46 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 876
Posted By alongjourney
Nothing happens at a case conference, unless both...

Nothing happens at a case conference, unless both parties agree.. so don't expect much. Then move onto the next steps 3 months later or whenever there is availability. If one party is angry and...
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