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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 05:28 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 149
Posted By rockscan
Your ex is not going to lose custody and you are...

Your ex is not going to lose custody and you are hanging onto things you shouldnít. You are not healthy. You have been through a fight and now donít know how to separate yourself from that fight. You...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 05:24 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 34
Posted By rockscan
She can still get support even if she is dropping...

She can still get support even if she is dropping out because she re-enrolls. If she has had several years of this I would file to stop support as she is not in a meaningful program of study and no...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 11:51 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 149
Posted By rockscan
So what if your ex doesnt like 50/50. So what if...

So what if your ex doesnt like 50/50. So what if you think she wonít agree. None of this matters. You are trying to predict the future and make a decision in advance. You reached an agreement on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 10:21 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 99
Posted By rockscan
Your argument is that she has had an additional...

Your argument is that she has had an additional two years to complete a high school education she should have completed by now. She is not in a program of study with a reasonable chance of employment...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:45 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 99
Posted By rockscan
Nope. They just have to prove she is in a full...

Nope. They just have to prove she is in a full time program of study.

After she turns 18 the privacy laws kick in.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-20-2020, 10:06 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 152
Posted By rockscan
4 and 6 are unenforceable. Take those out. ...

4 and 6 are unenforceable. Take those out.

Remember an offer is what you want to settle the issue before trial. It doesnt have to be an order or worded that way. It is an offerói will give you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-20-2020, 10:03 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 99
Posted By rockscan
The only thing you can ask for is school...

The only thing you can ask for is school enrollment.

Your 20 yo kid doesnít have to give you anything but proof she is in school.

As for the others, go directly to the source. Forget your ex.
Forum: Divorce Support 02-20-2020, 05:06 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 469
Posted By rockscan
Its over...we hope

Today my husband found out his ex had a big party to celebrate the end of the case and has been telling everyone she won and was vindicated. His ďspyĒ called her out on it and was brow beaten for...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2020, 03:49 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 76
Posted By rockscan
What is the big deal with him picking them up...

What is the big deal with him picking them up early? Is ten minutes a hill to die on?

You could simply tell him that you donít have an issue with him picking up early but could he message you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-20-2020, 12:06 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 152
Posted By rockscan
Your offer will be straight forward as it only...

Your offer will be straight forward as it only involves cs for three remaining kids.

Plus you only need to offer what you are willing to pay. It can be similar to minutes of settlement or simply...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-20-2020, 09:57 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 172
Posted By rockscan
If your kids are under 18 you can get information...

If your kids are under 18 you can get information from the school. Call and speak to the principal and ask for their report cards. If you get grief, go to the superintendent. Once they turn 18 you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2020, 08:12 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 172
Posted By rockscan
You can file it but if she refuses to provide it...

You can file it but if she refuses to provide it wonít look good on her.

In your affidavit outline that she hasnt provided any up to date information showing full time enrollment.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2020, 07:41 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 172
Posted By rockscan
You are filing to have support stopped. You can...

You are filing to have support stopped. You can provide all of that but the other side needs to prove she is still entitled to support.

Have they provided proof of enrollment? Transcripts showing...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-19-2020, 01:37 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 156
Posted By rockscan
Not hostile, just honest. If you think thats bad,...

Not hostile, just honest. If you think thats bad, good thing you donít hear what I say to my husband.

Everyone has a story from their divorce and reasons why the other person should shut up and...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-19-2020, 12:52 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 156
Posted By rockscan
This is a first offer. My husbands ex demanded...

This is a first offer. My husbands ex demanded $65,000 in expenses plus ongoing cs in her first offer. He owed her $5,000 and partial table. Offers are meant to start the negotiating. He can look at...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-19-2020, 12:20 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 156
Posted By rockscan
Getting $200,000 up front and paying jt out...

Getting $200,000 up front and paying jt out monthly for the next 30 years is better? Has his lawyer told him what he can expect for a monthly payment and the length of time?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2020, 11:41 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 444
Posted By rockscan
Janus is actually right. Your wife should not be...

Janus is actually right. Your wife should not be involved at all from a front end perspective. She can support you, talk to you, work with you but should have zero communication with your ex.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-19-2020, 11:40 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 156
Posted By rockscan
Well look at what he would have to pay her. ...

Well look at what he would have to pay her.

1. Half the value of the house and his pension.
2. Her share of his cpp credits for the years she didnít work.
3. Monthly spousal support.

The...
Forum: General Chat 02-18-2020, 07:44 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 451
Posted By rockscan
Let her not show up, better for you! Search...

Let her not show up, better for you!

Search other methods of serving in the forum. Someone else had this problem.
Forum: General Chat 02-18-2020, 07:22 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 451
Posted By rockscan
No I was saying can you find her through...

No I was saying can you find her through thatóidentifying info or workplaces.
Forum: General Chat 02-18-2020, 05:01 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 451
Posted By rockscan
Friends? Family? Social media? Emergency contacts?

Friends? Family? Social media? Emergency contacts?
Forum: Financial Issues 02-18-2020, 04:55 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 321
Posted By rockscan
Iím not saying senior homes or retirement...

Iím not saying senior homes or retirement communities, Iím saying affordable housing like townhomes, condos and apartments. I live in a higher priced community that has now approved a number of...
Forum: General Chat 02-18-2020, 04:28 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 451
Posted By rockscan
How do you not know where she lives? How do you...

How do you not know where she lives? How do you trade kids?
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-18-2020, 02:52 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 425
Posted By rockscan
This isnt alienation. She is INFLUENCING the...

This isnt alienation. She is INFLUENCING the children and INTERFERING in the relationship but has not alienated them. You still see them. You still have parenting time with them. You can still...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-18-2020, 02:29 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 321
Posted By rockscan
You may want to get a lawyer to give you advice....

You may want to get a lawyer to give you advice. Your ex can say a lot of stuff to get you to do what he wants, it doesnt mean its legal. Based on your age and length of marriage you are more than...
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