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Forum: Financial Issues 10-10-2014, 01:29 PM
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Views: 14,026
Posted By riverbag
It's there :)

And thanks for any time, energy and knowledge
Forum: Financial Issues 10-10-2014, 10:37 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 14,026
Posted By riverbag
Angry Thanks but still confused

I used the link you provided and according to the numbers I get back I'll be paying more Pro Rata than I am now with no increase in wages, she makes more and is paying less than 2 years ago for...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-09-2014, 10:37 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 14,026
Posted By riverbag
I'm still confused

It's been a while but I need a little guidance calculating after tax daycare fees and I've read a number of posts but am still lost (I don't do my own taxes).

I have her line 150 and the daycare...
Forum: Common Law Issues 07-11-2012, 02:46 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 10,095
Posted By riverbag
Not going to happen

When I originally took her to court, we lived 3 blocks apart and I couldn't get 50-50, My X would not communicate with me and she teared up on the stand with "He intimidates me and I'm afraid of...
Forum: Common Law Issues 07-11-2012, 02:34 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 10,095
Posted By riverbag
Wink Yep

Agreed, especially with my youngest starting JK this year! Staying in the school district and the community which has their friends will be paramount unless she wants court action. I've proven to...
Forum: Common Law Issues 07-11-2012, 11:58 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 10,095
Posted By riverbag
Smile The final move without repercussions

I agree that too much moving isn't good for the children but this final move is back to the original neighborhood and the first school for my oldest which has all her friends so I welcome it, but...
Forum: Common Law Issues 07-10-2012, 12:13 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 10,095
Posted By riverbag
Smile Update

I haven't been here in a while as the Court Battle is over but I thought an update would be interesting for those who are still in it. It's been 3.5 years and the children are still living with...
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-31-2011, 07:33 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,862
Posted By riverbag
Much appreciated 06nomad

Much appreciated 06nomad
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-29-2011, 10:12 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,862
Posted By riverbag
Transcripts are ready, factum time

Hi all. For those familiar with my case, I have begun an appeal and have gotten notice today that the transcripts are ready. I have some docs on Factum preparation and have my arguments with...
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-10-2011, 12:17 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,546
Posted By riverbag
Of course, she get's the benefit, the children,...

Of course, she get's the benefit, the children, the CS and I get to pay, pay, pay...isn't that what Dads are for :( Oh well, the appeal is oncoming so we'll see what happens..we're not done yet
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-10-2011, 11:45 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,546
Posted By riverbag
Costs tax deductable?

Anyone know if these costs are deductable?? I'm looking for anything positive about paying for her lawyer.
Forum: Common Law Issues 01-27-2011, 02:47 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,546
Posted By riverbag
Unhappy Trial costs

Hi all

Quick question that I couldn't find an answer for in a search. Costs were awarded to the Ex, does the FRO handle that???
Forum: Common Law Issues 01-12-2011, 10:37 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,328
Posted By riverbag
I already have the education costs started and...

I already have the education costs started and should have that looked after, and I still think having me in their lives more is better for them...if the court says otherwise after the appeal, I'm...
Forum: Common Law Issues 01-12-2011, 10:28 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,328
Posted By riverbag
True, though her new bf has made it clear he'll...

True, though her new bf has made it clear he'll be taking care of them from now on because I'm a "lousy Father and that's why the court made the order it did". Seems I may have some work to remain...
Forum: Common Law Issues 01-12-2011, 10:16 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,328
Posted By riverbag
Thanks LV, There isn't really a lot of...

Thanks LV,

There isn't really a lot of adjustment, they took away an overnight and both of the children are in daycare so they actually spend more time there than anywhere. The Sole Custody hurt...
Forum: Common Law Issues 01-12-2011, 10:04 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,328
Posted By riverbag
They're doing ok, the oldest is not happy with...

They're doing ok, the oldest is not happy with losing her weekly sleepover with Daddy and has said so to Mommy in front of me. they're both fairly young so the adjustment should be ok until I get...
Forum: Common Law Issues 01-12-2011, 09:58 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,328
Posted By riverbag
Appeal filed

Hi all,

Just updating on my progress through the court system. The Final Order took time away from the children with their Father and reduced me to an Uncle (Sole Custody) so I have filed the...
Forum: Common Law Issues 12-30-2010, 06:44 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 5,478
Posted By riverbag
I am aware of that, thank you. I am wondering if...

I am aware of that, thank you. I am wondering if there is an argument against paying costs. I went bankrupt after she did and don't have the resources to pay, which is why I didn't have a lawyer. ...
Forum: Common Law Issues 12-30-2010, 06:34 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 5,478
Posted By riverbag
Angry Cost submissions after trial

Anyone have any experience with this stuff, her lawyer is trying to tell me I have to pay 2/3
Forum: Common Law Issues 12-22-2010, 03:07 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 10,095
Posted By riverbag
I get that, and am working to ensure she knows I...

I get that, and am working to ensure she knows I am never going away and that both of us love her very much.
Forum: Common Law Issues 12-22-2010, 01:06 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 10,095
Posted By riverbag
Thank you for the suggestions and I'll be sure to...

Thank you for the suggestions and I'll be sure to keep this about the children. Their Mother moved them in with her new boyfriend less than a month after the trial completed. My Daughter has said...
Forum: Common Law Issues 12-22-2010, 12:41 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 10,095
Posted By riverbag
I'm going to continue to be the Father I have...

I'm going to continue to be the Father I have been and want to be, so I will work within the order while I submit my appeal. To bring the variance I would need some serious insight into the child...
Forum: Common Law Issues 12-22-2010, 12:26 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 10,095
Posted By riverbag
Sole Custody

I was explicitly stated I cannot attend events not during my access, it wasn't a high conflict case, we still pick up the children at each others homes, no abuse. The Judge claims the sole custody...
Forum: Common Law Issues 12-22-2010, 11:45 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 10,095
Posted By riverbag
Activities

I am keeping her in Karate as they are flexible on her attending as well and she really enjoys it, though they don't give me a break on pricing either. It's my involvement that bothers me and while...
Forum: Common Law Issues 12-22-2010, 11:23 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 10,095
Posted By riverbag
I can't find any activities that are every second...

I can't find any activities that are every second weekend and her Mother won't agree to take her to activities I sign her up for. I had signed her up for activities during my access, but since that...
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