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Forum: Financial Issues Today, 04:42 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 266
Posted By StillPaying
No. I'm basing it on the numbers and info...

No. I'm basing it on the numbers and info provided. To come to any other conclusion would actually be assuming. Stop making stuff up.



He left the house and hes only paid 5 out of 6 to 12...
Forum: Financial Issues Today, 12:11 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 266
Posted By StillPaying
Ex is getting a discount and certainly doesn't...

Ex is getting a discount and certainly doesn't mind the delay.
OP is living comfortably for now, avoiding the upcoming change for as long as possible.

Let the stance you take follow the rules...
Forum: Financial Issues Today, 11:16 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 266
Posted By StillPaying
It would mean he makes poor financial decisions,...

It would mean he makes poor financial decisions, not much more. Choosing to pay more for mortgage is his choice so shouldn't affect you. I think it'll come down to the items he's paying for rather...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 08:58 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 266
Posted By StillPaying
Kinso is correct; ignore the peanut gallery....

Kinso is correct; ignore the peanut gallery. You'll be moved into an open mortgage with a much higher payment. Not ideal but since ex makes the payments, this will negatively affect him- as would...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-01-2021, 11:30 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 514
Posted By StillPaying
Unless this is new, I don't believe offers are...

Unless this is new, I don't believe offers are filed nor require an affidavit of service. There is a notice of withdrawal form, but I'm sure creating your own form similar to offers to settle would...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-28-2021, 09:57 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 316
Posted By StillPaying
Form 22 helps save time at trial but doesn't mean...

Form 22 helps save time at trial but doesn't mean much if you ignore or can't agree. Regardless, I think he will pay half for those items (receipts needed) as they go with the house and he'll...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2021, 09:40 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 283
Posted By StillPaying
Were you ordered to pay a fixed s7 amount, like...

Were you ordered to pay a fixed s7 amount, like an extra $200 per month on top of cs for "activities", or a specific amount for a specific activity. Depending on which I would think you're either...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2021, 05:10 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 1,876
Posted By StillPaying
Good thing court will just see it as entitlement...

Good thing court will just see it as entitlement and not follow the emotional reasoning throughout.
When you stick to the facts, ex is still coming out on top for now, and potentially moreso in the...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-19-2021, 09:11 AM
Replies: 52
Views: 1,876
Posted By StillPaying
Free advice worth much less than the cost... It's...

Free advice worth much less than the cost... It's interesting to hear the bandwagon go off on such rude tangents based on wrong info.

Ex has been paying way less support than he should and is...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-17-2021, 04:54 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 201
Posted By StillPaying
They would. But they may also be on the hook for...

They would. But they may also be on the hook for occupational rent (and bills) incurred since the split.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-14-2021, 06:26 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 477
Posted By StillPaying
1. Ex would have most likely received it by...

1. Ex would have most likely received it by motion anyways, so don't feel bad. Let them pay for a copy to find out it's irrelevant. If there were any concerns, your dr would have already reported...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-13-2021, 08:15 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 477
Posted By StillPaying
Although sometimes it's combined, as you know the...

Although sometimes it's combined, as you know the TSC is different from a TMC.


It'll be a simple process to complete your TSEF and get the judge to approve your trial. This should be much...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-10-2021, 04:27 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 1,876
Posted By StillPaying
Ignore the rants. The daily hypocrisy should be...

Ignore the rants. The daily hypocrisy should be views simply as entertainment. This user is the forum's Dunning-Kruger; just smile and nod.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-05-2021, 09:36 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 203
Posted By StillPaying
🤦 Amending your application is a simple...

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Amending your application is a simple process which you can ask for at your next conference. Dismissal/discharge is usually done at trial; there's no rush.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-03-2021, 02:41 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 271
Posted By StillPaying
Given that it's a smaller amount and supposed to...

Given that it's a smaller amount and supposed to be shared, enforcement agencies won't do anything about it so withholding this should work assuming requests were denied or go unanswered. By the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2021, 11:16 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 244
Posted By StillPaying
Thank you Kinso for your wisdom. Between orders,...

Thank you Kinso for your wisdom. Between orders, leave, stay, appeals..., there are options no matter how unlikely. Experience speaks volumes.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-03-2021, 11:08 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 271
Posted By StillPaying
This is a different scenario. My order is clear...

This is a different scenario. My order is clear that we share benefits and we do. However this covid relief is only provided to 1 parent, first come first serve, and we are supposed to work it out...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-16-2021, 04:49 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 398
Posted By StillPaying
It may be perceived as something more by the...

It may be perceived as something more by the other side, but form 20 and a simple request for info would be treated the same at trial. You would have to show why the request was ignored.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-16-2021, 03:01 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,754
Posted By StillPaying
It's in OP's best interest to file, not ex. He...

It's in OP's best interest to file, not ex. He may simply be waiting a few more months for the equalization limitation period to expire. They're both stalling, but it'll benefit ex in the end.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-10-2021, 12:54 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 463
Posted By StillPaying
Lots of factors to consider, but if entitled then...

Lots of factors to consider, but if entitled then negotiations is your best bet. Why is $10k being imputed? It should hopefully be minimum wage (30k) at least.

The problem with court is they...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-07-2021, 10:58 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 665
Posted By StillPaying
True, depending if he's thinking emotionally or...

True, depending if he's thinking emotionally or financially.

After the appraisal, it should be known what the house is worth. If ex can't pay that amount, put it up for sale and let ex make an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-07-2021, 07:56 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 665
Posted By StillPaying
A realtor may price aggressive or low for more...

A realtor may price aggressive or low for more offers, but they know the approx end game based on comparables. Courts deal with proper home appraisal reports though, not realtors, for an accurate...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2021, 03:41 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 207
Posted By StillPaying
At the TMC the judge will try again to see if an...

At the TMC the judge will try again to see if an agreement can be made, by way of offering opinions or scare tactics, then move forward towards trial. If it's obvious and reasonable, an interim...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-09-2021, 07:49 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 275
Posted By StillPaying
You're overthinking this. It's still a...

You're overthinking this. It's still a conference so don't stress.

You need a lawyer to know whether witnesses and/or experts are needed. The judge is trying to get an idea of how long a trial...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-09-2021, 06:00 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 481
Posted By StillPaying
This. If you've been living there alone for...

This. If you've been living there alone for years though and ex starts causing issues, then you may have a good case for an exclusive order.
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