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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 05:13 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 73
Posted By kate331
Are you receiving a detailed bill monthly? i.e....

Are you receiving a detailed bill monthly? i.e. phone call to opposing counsel? reviewing correspondence with opposing counsel?
Forum: Introductions 10-11-2018, 09:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 199
Posted By kate331
There are always growing pains in a blended...

There are always growing pains in a blended family. Dad really needs to step in and nip this behaviour in the butt, especially about your child's Dad dying.

I agree with the other posters, why is...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-11-2018, 09:40 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 335
Posted By kate331
Thanks all, makes sense and obviously not worth...

Thanks all, makes sense and obviously not worth any legal fees. I will continue to buy them extra clothes to leave at Dad's house as the seasons change. Packing for them each time doesn't work for...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-06-2018, 09:38 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 335
Posted By kate331
Clothing

My ex has the kids 6 nights a month. For the last two years, I have supplied him with clothing for them at his home.

My lawyer, is telling me this is not necessary, and he should be supplying the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-27-2018, 10:44 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,096
Posted By kate331
How well is this child doing in school? Is his...

How well is this child doing in school? Is his behaviour managed there by his teacher and staff? Or is it just at Dad's that he cant manage?
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-26-2018, 10:51 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,096
Posted By kate331
Just my 2 cents, but as a Mom with 2 special...

Just my 2 cents, but as a Mom with 2 special needs children, it could be an ADD thing. Most children with ADD/ADHD thrive on a strict routine and do not transitioning well between the 2 homes and...
Forum: General Chat 09-23-2018, 09:43 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 477
Posted By kate331
The first year we separated we were pretty...

The first year we separated we were pretty cordial, because I wanted to reconcile and he did not want to go to court. The second year when litigation started, it was nasty and we traded insults...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-23-2018, 09:32 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 374
Posted By kate331
He may be on the hook for it this round but...

He may be on the hook for it this round but moving forward try and keep it out of the courtroom. If he is really determined to turn his life around for his child's sake he needs to step up, pay his...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-21-2018, 05:01 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 796
Posted By kate331
Are you in Ontario? Why not go through FRO?

Are you in Ontario? Why not go through FRO?
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-20-2018, 12:18 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 508
Posted By kate331
This is probably a temporary issue, if he is...

This is probably a temporary issue, if he is living at this Mothers. Surely he has plans to find more permanent housing closer to her school/daycare.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-20-2018, 10:50 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 156
Posted By kate331
I'm a Minimalist Mom. Wonder if my kids will...

I'm a Minimalist Mom. Wonder if my kids will hate me when their grown.

On another note, my son (8) makes his own lunch everyday. I was surprised to find a lot of parents are still making their...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-19-2018, 10:16 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 344
Posted By kate331
Usually as an adult you don't get to live...

Usually as an adult you don't get to live anywhere for free unless its in Mom & Dad's basement.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-19-2018, 10:07 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 236
Posted By kate331
Why would the OCL get involved, if there is no...

Why would the OCL get involved, if there is no Material Change of Circumstance? Isn't that a waste their resources?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2018, 10:52 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 344
Posted By kate331
Look at it this way, you spent $50,000 over 4...

Look at it this way, you spent $50,000 over 4 years, that comes out too just over $1,000 a month. So basically you paid that in rent money to her.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2018, 08:20 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 309
Posted By kate331
Rockscan, if she is going after University...

Rockscan, if she is going after University Expenses through the courts doesn't your partner have to do a financial statement?

I understand that a new partner/spouse salary doesn't matter, but I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2018, 01:41 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,114
Posted By kate331
Cool Guy I respectfully disagree. In my own...

Cool Guy I respectfully disagree. In my own situation I receive $800 a month cs for 2 children, plus the child tax credit, and disability payments for both children. Dad is an EOW parent.

After...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2018, 12:40 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,114
Posted By kate331
Wow, this is heartbreaking. I cant even think of...

Wow, this is heartbreaking. I cant even think of any words to give you any encouragement. I want to say DONT GIVE UP. But you have been through the wringer and are far more experienced in the...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-13-2018, 03:14 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 622
Posted By kate331
I hope you are asking for costs along the way. ...

I hope you are asking for costs along the way. That may help stop him. Do you have a lawyer or are you doing this on your own?
Forum: Divorce Support 09-13-2018, 01:47 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 622
Posted By kate331
I feel your pain! My ex is happy to hide behind...

I feel your pain! My ex is happy to hide behind the woe is me, my ex is a pycho bitch, alienator and Fathers are doomed in court. Meanwhile I had to take him to court to get his access increased...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2018, 01:32 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 145
Posted By kate331
OLC - Added Legal Fees

I know OCL is "free", but there are costs involved on both sides legal fees wise. I recall reading a post where Tayken said they can add up to an addition $10,000 to your legal fees. But now I cant...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2018, 09:47 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 479
Posted By kate331
Is she operating her own business as a "reseller"...

Is she operating her own business as a "reseller" of this Honey? Or is she a paid employee working markets for the Bee Keeper? Some Farmers Markets are very strict about letting resellers in, but...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-05-2018, 07:27 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 164
Posted By kate331
Definitely YES!!! That's what its there for. ...

Definitely YES!!! That's what its there for. Its avoided, at least for me, the "pay you when I can". Or "I am short this month".
Forum: Introductions 09-05-2018, 12:20 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 716
Posted By kate331
False allegations of abuse are rampant in the...

False allegations of abuse are rampant in the Family Court Stystem, and unless there is a conviction or concern to CAS, they go ignored.

Discipline was a nightmare in my home even when we were...
Forum: Introductions 09-04-2018, 10:11 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 716
Posted By kate331
Just to add a bit to Janus's advice: Make...

Just to add a bit to Janus's advice:

Make sure you are on any and all email list for the schools.
Attend all parent teacher meetings and school events.
Use your now free Friday's to volunteer at...
Forum: Introductions 09-03-2018, 10:33 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 716
Posted By kate331
Why should he even have the option? IMO its far...

Why should he even have the option? IMO its far too easy for Dad's to walk away and Mom's left being a single Mom, holding down a full-time job and most of the parenting responsibilities while Dad...
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