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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-22-2015, 10:43 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,121
Posted By yellman
The issue of needs vs compensation is useful for...

The issue of needs vs compensation is useful for a trial. I am unsure if a motion hearing can fully go into th detail of needs vs compensation. Chris is why I am thinking a settlement offer can...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-22-2015, 12:48 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,121
Posted By yellman
Her standard of living is similar. I am...

Her standard of living is similar. I am currently giving cs and ss. My lawyer is pushing for me to go with the revised ssag table with my higher income. My lawyer feels that the judge rarely goes...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-22-2015, 11:09 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,121
Posted By yellman
I was the primary caregiver of the children. I...

I was the primary caregiver of the children. I assume she would disagree. We both worked full time but my Hours are more flexible.

The key question here is how to proceed. Respond to her motion...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-21-2015, 10:45 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,121
Posted By yellman
We were married for 21 years. During the course...

We were married for 21 years. During the course of the marriage she went back to school and upgraded her degree and job. We split the custody of the children equally.

My income is over 350k and...
Forum: Divorce Support 06-21-2015, 10:25 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,350
Posted By yellman
This was one of the biggest issues I had in my...

This was one of the biggest issues I had in my divorce. Being separated from my children, having them impacted by the divorce. I am fortunate enough that I see my kids every day but two in a month....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-21-2015, 10:12 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,121
Posted By yellman
Motion vs settlement conference

my ex is trying to get more spousal payment. Her lawyer has asked for dates for a motion to try and get additional ss.

She is clearly living within her means at the current ss rate. However my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2015, 05:30 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,759
Posted By yellman
I am hoping the following makes my case stronger...

I am hoping the following makes my case stronger then my ex.

Very difficult if not impossible to bring my son to the other school.
My ex shouldn't take him out of our catchment without my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2015, 05:10 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,759
Posted By yellman
Logistically I cannot bring my child on my weeks...

Logistically I cannot bring my child on my weeks to and from the school.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2015, 09:05 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,759
Posted By yellman
She is irrational. I was hoping for some legal...

She is irrational. I was hoping for some legal thoughts and solutions.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2015, 10:54 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,759
Posted By yellman
His friends will be going to the school he is...

His friends will be going to the school he is zoned for.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2015, 10:51 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,759
Posted By yellman
Current custody is shared 50/50 My child...

Current custody is shared 50/50

My child does not want to get in the middle of it so they say they are indifferent
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2015, 10:41 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,759
Posted By yellman
High school

the ex wants my child to go to th high school near where she lives. I want my child to go the one he is zoned for.

Time is not on my side. We have to book courses and she wants to fill out a...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-08-2015, 07:22 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 896
Posted By yellman
Spousal support calculation

I keep getting into this debate.

We are currently doing a proposal to the other side.

My lawyer tells me we have to use my 2014 income for child and spousal support calculations. My friends...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-20-2014, 04:17 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,876
Posted By yellman
Asking for more spousal then she should Adding...

Asking for more spousal then she should
Adding interest for the additional back payments on higher spousal and child support.

At least we r negotiating
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-20-2014, 10:25 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,876
Posted By yellman
I am very surprised. Her letter sent us a letter...

I am very surprised. Her letter sent us a letter with a settlement offer. It is crazy high, but it has started the settlement talk. We will now send our response. Hopefully we can resolve this,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-20-2014, 10:24 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,111
Posted By yellman
Child support typically ends when

when does child support end? I understand if the child is independent, has a job, moved out etc it would end then. What about school? 18, 21, 25 whenever they finish school? What is the average...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-13-2014, 02:15 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,876
Posted By yellman
I am waiting for her response. I said it in...

I am waiting for her response. I said it in clear terms. We will see if I got through to her.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-13-2014, 01:44 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,876
Posted By yellman
I explained to her that case conference will cost...

I explained to her that case conference will cost close to 5k between lawyer prep work and the lawyers sitting waitin to talk to judge. Maybe reality will enter her mind. However, they took ge...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-13-2014, 09:59 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,876
Posted By yellman
For an update on my situation. I approached the...

For an update on my situation. I approached the ex and asked if we could settle things amongst ourselves before it gets much bigger. Waitin on the response. Funny story, the ex said the reason why...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2014, 12:53 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,876
Posted By yellman
Sorry to hear about your stupidity. I would like...

Sorry to hear about your stupidity. I would like to be able to sit down with the ex and work through some of this, however,it appears we cannot agree on even the simplest stuff now. We will c what...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-10-2014, 05:18 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,876
Posted By yellman
We r not close to settling either. Lots to still...

We r not close to settling either. Lots to still fight about, money and details for the kids. Did you guys use a mediator or just lots of letters back for forth between lawyers?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-10-2014, 04:53 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,876
Posted By yellman
Thank you to everyone who has responded.

Thank you to everyone who has responded.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-10-2014, 03:37 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,876
Posted By yellman
Thank you for your response. Did th judge...

Thank you for your response.

Did th judge make recommendations at your case conference? Like changes to spousal or other recommendations?

Was the other party sitting there in the waiting room...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-10-2014, 02:06 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 3,876
Posted By yellman
Case conference Newmarket

couple of hopefully easy questions.

I have my first case conference in front of a judge coming up. I understand there are 5 or 6 different judges covering Newmarket.

Any thoughts on these...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2014, 02:31 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,880
Posted By yellman
It is the specifics I am interested in. Not the...

It is the specifics I am interested in. Not the online calculation but what divorcemate uses
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