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Forum: Introductions 04-14-2009, 07:59 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,223
Posted By pemachine
I love it when people refer to relationships as...

I love it when people refer to relationships as though they were members of a board of directors. LOL. "I'm unsure if the dividends received on this transaction outweigh the expenditures," and other...
Forum: Divorce Support 04-14-2009, 07:51 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,175
Posted By pemachine
Interstingly enough 80's music helped me a lot as...

Interstingly enough 80's music helped me a lot as well. lol. actually just music in general is a great way to unwind.

Exercise or physical activity is also an excellent idea, the brain chemicals...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2009, 09:39 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,828
Posted By pemachine
One very important piece of advice i would like...

One very important piece of advice i would like to echo from billm... if you definitely want custody, even if it's only joint... draw up a separation agreement that states your intentions jointly.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2009, 09:25 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,718
Posted By pemachine
If you are the child's biological parent, i...

If you are the child's biological parent, i believe you have the right to any information regarding their health, provided they are still minors. If they are not giving it to you voluntarily, you...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-10-2009, 08:01 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,203
Posted By pemachine
yeah. she has to tell the court first, and get a...

yeah. she has to tell the court first, and get a date... then serve you all the docs she is going to use, then file her docs with the court along with an affidavit that she served you.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-09-2009, 11:26 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,122
Posted By pemachine
So it seems that I've given you a few pieces of...

So it seems that I've given you a few pieces of wrong info. let me apologize and (attempt to) correct myself.

Like her, you DO have to serve her with the answer docs first and THEN file it with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-09-2009, 11:09 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,122
Posted By pemachine
before indygal gets a chance to correct my...

before indygal gets a chance to correct my mistake I will do it lol.

She has to serve you with the docs before you she files them with the court. but they should still have a number on them.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-09-2009, 11:03 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 10,295
Posted By pemachine
In my experience, the best lawyers are not the...

In my experience, the best lawyers are not the ones that guarantee victory, but the ones that are honest and frank about your chances.

Just my 2¢.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-09-2009, 10:54 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,203
Posted By pemachine
:: looks :: I will happily rephrase what I...

:: looks :: I will happily rephrase what I said... I was going by this document (http://www.fathers-resources.com/LinkClick.aspx?fileticket=g181z5ei%2Bv0%3D&tabid=500&mid=1403)that lays out the...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-09-2009, 10:40 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,795
Posted By pemachine
my suggestion is this... the two parties...

my suggestion is this...

the two parties involed should go to a certified mediator, and hash out the agreement, weighing all the options. If they can reach an agreement, then they both sign it and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-09-2009, 10:32 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,122
Posted By pemachine
a few things... Did the documents you...

a few things...

Did the documents you received have a court file number on them? If not, then they should have, and that may be the reason the court can't find them... she has to file them with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-09-2009, 10:16 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 996
Posted By pemachine
Just to answer your question of grandparent's...

Just to answer your question of grandparent's rights...

Basically, anyone one with interest in the case can apply to the court for various things. This includes grandparents. I was at a fathers...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-09-2009, 10:07 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,203
Posted By pemachine
Oh, and this one too... it's a detailed step by...

Oh, and this one too... it's a detailed step by step guide of how to initiate court proceedings. She def needs a court file number on all documents that she serves you.
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Forum: Financial Issues 04-09-2009, 10:02 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,203
Posted By pemachine
my layperson's gut is telling me that the process...

my layperson's gut is telling me that the process involed with filing and being served is this:

- she should first file the ALL the documents with the court, including the form 20, the initial...
Forum: Common Law Issues 01-11-2009, 11:44 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,076
Posted By pemachine
If nothing is in your name, there is no way to...

If nothing is in your name, there is no way to prove that you ever paid anything on the house. So, it's her house -- that's the way it will be looked at officially, i think... other than the fact...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-11-2009, 11:39 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 5,082
Posted By pemachine
Agreed, she definitely needs therapy. But how can...

Agreed, she definitely needs therapy. But how can you impose such a thing on someone? Does it take a court order? Can Child Services institute this for her? It's a great suggestion, but a) no idea...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-11-2009, 11:30 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 5,082
Posted By pemachine
All the pieces of advice i've received on this...

All the pieces of advice i've received on this post have merit. It's not an easy situation, and not easy to fix.

To KLD i say this. While I understand where you are coming from with regard to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-09-2009, 05:46 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 5,082
Posted By pemachine
hugs are appreciated and needed. thx

hugs are appreciated and needed. thx
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-09-2009, 05:38 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,581
Posted By pemachine
I think the crucial missing piece of information...

I think the crucial missing piece of information here is *why* you want him to leave. That might help determine what avenues are available to you... although if he's on the lease, then I agree it's...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-09-2009, 05:22 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 4,318
Posted By pemachine
At their age, what the children want is and...

At their age, what the children want is and *should be* the most important factor in deciding custody and access. Most good judges will take this into account (I hope).

If you decide to pursue...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-09-2009, 05:13 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,781
Posted By pemachine
Even *if* the mother is being indiscreet about...

Even *if* the mother is being indiscreet about her 'extra-curricular activities', there would be no way to effectively police her, and no sure way of proving it. If, at some point, you become more...
Forum: Domestic Violence 01-09-2009, 05:05 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 5,730
Posted By pemachine
I agree with all the above responses. Recently a...

I agree with all the above responses. Recently a friend of mine had to free herself from a similar situation with her controlling and abusive parents and she took action by silently making...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-09-2009, 04:07 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 5,082
Posted By pemachine
My Daughter's Welfare: Much Needed Advice?

I have returned to this board to plead for advice.

My situation is quite complex. I have a 5 year old daughter and the mother and I have been separated since 2004. I do not have joint custody,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-23-2005, 09:29 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,802
Posted By pemachine
The CAS in BC (or the Ministry of Child, Family...

The CAS in BC (or the Ministry of Child, Family and Community Service as it's known out there) has told me plain out, that they don't just hand over children to the other parent in a case like this,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-22-2005, 04:00 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,802
Posted By pemachine
A Plea For Justice

Some of you know a bit about the situation I am facing regarding my daughter. I have progessed a lot since I last posted here, but there is a whole new set of problems that have arisen. Some advice...
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