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Forum: Financial Issues 07-03-2020, 02:00 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 625
Posted By YOW
CS and full-time vs part-time studies

If a child (over 18) in university decides to go part time instead of full time, will this affect the CS obligation or amount? The student is most likely going to spend the non-school time working...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-05-2019, 12:50 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 678
Posted By YOW
Thanks - I am aware of that site, but I am...

Thanks - I am aware of that site, but I am looking for the explanation of how it is determined.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-05-2019, 12:18 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 678
Posted By YOW
How to determine CS

If one child is sole custody, and a second child is shared custody - what would the equation be?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2017, 01:26 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,132
Posted By YOW
You can CC whoever you wish to in your own...

You can CC whoever you wish to in your own communications. Since you are involved in the conversation, there are no privacy issues if you release that information.

Personally though, I would...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2017, 01:05 PM
Replies: 67
Views: 5,898
Posted By YOW
Absolutely insist on 50/50. My kids were not as...

Absolutely insist on 50/50. My kids were not as young as yours when I separated, but it was not 50/50 at first. Even though the SA stated the intention was to get to 50/50, when that time came it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2017, 12:24 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 4,166
Posted By YOW
Support Guidelines revised 2016...

Support Guidelines revised 2016 (http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/fl-lf/spousal-epoux/ug_a1-gu_a1/PDF/ug_a1-gu_a1.pdf)

Have a look on page 40 of this document.

Child support (plus expenses)...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-13-2017, 02:28 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 864
Posted By YOW
Info request

Anybody with a really solid lawyer - please feel free to PM me the contact info.

Would like contact info for someone that is not dad-negative.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2016, 09:09 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,377
Posted By YOW
My ex and I have agreed long ago that all the...

My ex and I have agreed long ago that all the funds in the RESP will belong to the kids, so if they have leftover they will also have a headstart on whatever they may need at that time.

Rockscan...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2016, 04:16 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,377
Posted By YOW
and most likely... CS will continue to be paid...

and most likely... CS will continue to be paid because of family law and how things go. I know very well that even when my kids are in their 30s and 40s, fro time to time, they might need a little...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2016, 03:43 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,377
Posted By YOW
I am going to assume you skimmed the posts, and...

I am going to assume you skimmed the posts, and did not read things fully.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2016, 02:56 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,377
Posted By YOW
I suppose the situation I am painting is very...

I suppose the situation I am painting is very specific. All responses here have made valid points (and have been appreciated) in the broad general sense, and I suppose it would be a logistical...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2016, 02:46 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,377
Posted By YOW
Ok - I get that. But if the 18+ child does not...

Ok - I get that. But if the 18+ child does not go to post-sec school, and stays at home, they become ineligible for child support.

At some point, the payor will stop paying child support. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2016, 02:23 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,377
Posted By YOW
Perhaps in some cases, the spouse that stays home...

Perhaps in some cases, the spouse that stays home did in fact contribute to the other spouse's "success". Had I stayed home though, of course - I would have been away and had to "start over" my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2016, 02:21 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,377
Posted By YOW
But they have no living expenses if their...

But they have no living expenses if their education is covered, have free room & board.. and if they have a part time job - they are doing very well in fact.

Yes, and I pay hefty support amounts.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2016, 01:38 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,377
Posted By YOW
So for my kids, I suspect that their education...

So for my kids, I suspect that their education will be covered in full by the RESP. That is one thing that my ex and I did right.

So my question still stands - is child support still necessary...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2016, 01:06 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,377
Posted By YOW
Legalities of Support types

I have been struggling with understanding how some spousal support situations and some terms of child support are even legal.

Spousal Support
First of all... I do understand that some support...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-09-2016, 08:40 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,227
Posted By YOW
lol - yes I prefer women also, but my ex...

lol - yes I prefer women also, but my ex sometimes makes me think completely alone is the best way to be.

I would post here and vent this situation I am dealing with, but I don't trust her at all....
Forum: Divorce Support 09-08-2016, 11:22 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,227
Posted By YOW
Would like someone to talk to

Like subject says... or to vent with. Preferably someone with legal expertise and is dad-friendly. I would discuss online, but its hard to say who could be viewing this also. :(
Forum: Financial Issues 06-22-2016, 02:19 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,723
Posted By YOW
Honestly, for reasons stated by a few here, her...

Honestly, for reasons stated by a few here, her suggestion of $600/month is better than your suggestion of lump sum $50K. Reason: taxes.






Ok, I thought you said the subject of support...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-22-2016, 12:28 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,666
Posted By YOW
If the terms about the termination date can be...

If the terms about the termination date can be contested, doesn't the same hold true about the lack of clarity of "self-sufficient"? Argue that she is, and then if its ruled that it is not, request...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-22-2016, 11:39 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,723
Posted By YOW
Oh I know... my ex used to use that sh** on me...

Oh I know... my ex used to use that sh** on me all the time. Apparently her lawyer was an expert on every possible subject AND a child psychologist too. go figure.

But unfortunately, my lawyer...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-22-2016, 11:35 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,666
Posted By YOW
The paragraph that follows says that after such...

The paragraph that follows says that after such date we are both deemed to be self sufficient and this cannot be changed by any court anywhere (I am of course paraphrasing... but several statements...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-22-2016, 11:10 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,723
Posted By YOW
That deserves a Like button!

That deserves a Like button!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-22-2016, 10:55 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,666
Posted By YOW
I do have an end date specified for my spousal...

I do have an end date specified for my spousal support obligations though... so at least there is that.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-22-2016, 10:24 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,666
Posted By YOW
I just want results really. And this persons...

I just want results really. And this persons info would go in my back pocket for now. I'd also like to have my SA reviewed and get their opinion on it sometime, which would likely be the first...
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