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Forum: Parenting Issues 09-10-2021, 02:32 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,215
Posted By iona6656
So I borrowed the "Mom's House, Dad's House" and...

So I borrowed the "Mom's House, Dad's House" and found it interesting. Sort of helpful.

We are in the first week of midweek overnights and it's been TOUGH to get a routine going between the two...
Forum: Political Issues 09-10-2021, 01:55 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 3,096
Posted By iona6656
He said "women need to start paying their dues"...

He said "women need to start paying their dues" and he's tired of carrying them. Not only is that wrong- but it's utterly laughable. If this pandemic has shown us anything is that the work that...
Forum: Political Issues 09-09-2021, 02:44 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 3,096
Posted By iona6656
Your posts always make me laugh. To be...

Your posts always make me laugh.

To be clear- it's at you. And your ranting.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-28-2021, 02:46 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,215
Posted By iona6656
Appreciate it. I'm going to try to find them at...

Appreciate it. I'm going to try to find them at the local library.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-27-2021, 10:29 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,215
Posted By iona6656
Nope, no buy in. If I say anything more to him-...

Nope, no buy in. If I say anything more to him- he'd probably go to the extreme and feed her candy + ipad at bedtime.

I feel like grandmas house v. dad's house is a bit different though? I mean-...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-27-2021, 10:26 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,215
Posted By iona6656
She definitely does get to use the ipad. I am not...

She definitely does get to use the ipad. I am not a "no screen time" household. Just not after wind down time....I find it keeps her up longer if she gets screen time in the 30min or so before...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-27-2021, 10:16 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,215
Posted By iona6656
Thank you both for the suggestions. I used...

Thank you both for the suggestions.

I used the ipad matter as an example really. I guess the bigger question is just how to help little kids- above toddlers, but younger than older kids (say...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-26-2021, 01:09 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,215
Posted By iona6656
Tips on Transitioning Young Kids between Two Homes?

Someone please tell me the transitions get easier?

D4 comes back from her dad's place strung out like a junkie finished a three day bender. By that I mean lack of sleep.

There are tantrums...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-26-2021, 01:00 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,691
Posted By iona6656
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-14-2021, 12:11 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 575
Posted By iona6656
Counter offer- but not with a straight 50/50 with...

Counter offer- but not with a straight 50/50 with graduated time. Make it more favourable to her- offer a graduated increase of parenting time to 60/40 and a chance to reassess without a material...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-07-2021, 01:30 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 708
Posted By iona6656
The other parent cannot withhold kids because of...

The other parent cannot withhold kids because of CS issues.

And you cannot withhold CS because of the summer schedule. I've never heard of anything such as a "summer child support payment...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2021, 03:43 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 752
Posted By iona6656
I'm so incredibly sorry you had to receive such a...

I'm so incredibly sorry you had to receive such a ridiculous and hurtful offer, and confirmation that your ex is putting all this shit in the kids' heads.

Do you have a support system when things...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-23-2021, 11:40 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,833
Posted By iona6656
same. same.

same. same.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-23-2021, 11:34 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 815
Posted By iona6656
lol. never. I don't even see it as 'prestigious'-...

lol. never. I don't even see it as 'prestigious'- technically all preschools are "private" - and they're really childcare; which is just stupid expensive whether you call it Daycare or Montessori.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-22-2021, 05:39 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 815
Posted By iona6656
if you took it to court- it probably would. The...

if you took it to court- it probably would. The whole point of CS and S7 is so the child(ren) don't have to live the lesser life because of the parents' divorce.

To all of you pooping on private...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-11-2021, 12:28 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 481
Posted By iona6656
Going through this right now. D4 wants to play...

Going through this right now. D4 wants to play soccer so bad- but her dad doesn't want to take her on his time. Annoyed at first- but I guess he wants to spend one on one time with her during his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-11-2021, 12:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 428
Posted By iona6656
Steven Benmor- Benmor Family Law Group

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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-26-2021, 05:38 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 542
Posted By iona6656
edit: I removed my commentary on the commentary.

edit: I removed my commentary on the commentary.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-26-2021, 05:34 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 542
Posted By iona6656
reading the case law:...

reading the case law: https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/doc/2021/2021onsc1986/2021onsc1986.html

ew. the whole thing smacks of the father's control issues. like- holy shit; let the kid stay home...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-25-2021, 03:26 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,239
Posted By iona6656
Nicely done. Question- as you've stated,...

Nicely done.

Question- as you've stated, false accusations have been dealt with- correct?

What is mom taking issue with? Why can't you have 50/50? other than mom wanting child support.
Forum: Political Issues 05-25-2021, 10:38 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 3,096
Posted By iona6656
If they are supposed to be with the other parent,...

If they are supposed to be with the other parent, per a court order. Then- yes , they're breaking the law. I still don't get your argument.

The difference is that one is about the physical needs...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-25-2021, 10:30 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,900
Posted By iona6656
Four months after I separated, I offered my ex...

Four months after I separated, I offered my ex EOW and Wednesday nights -with a chance to reassess when our daughter was 5; conditional on him getting therapy- and we work with a co-parent counselor....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-20-2021, 01:44 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,239
Posted By iona6656
This is roughly how our graduated parenting plan...

This is roughly how our graduated parenting plan was laid out:

Applicant = dad
Respondent = mom
D3 = my daughter's name

PARENTING TIME

1. In this section, the words listed below have the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-19-2021, 01:46 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,239
Posted By iona6656
this. you need an actual plan of how you're...

this.

you need an actual plan of how you're going to get to 50/50. Janus and I disagree on whether that is gradual or not. BUT if you've beat all these "silver bullets" the other side has lobbed...
Forum: Political Issues 05-19-2021, 01:43 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 3,096
Posted By iona6656
none of this ^ justifies withholding child...

none of this ^ justifies withholding child support. What exactly is the purpose of your comment?

What you describe is contempt of a court order, if there is one. And the consequences can be a...
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