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Forum: Divorce Support 04-15-2009, 09:53 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 3,592
Posted By davedad
Well, I joined a fitness boot camp that ran 3x...

Well, I joined a fitness boot camp that ran 3x per week. It was positively murder on the body at the start and I honestly couldn't pick up a glass of water some days.

That pain felt pretty good...
Forum: Divorce Support 03-27-2009, 11:29 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,590
Posted By davedad
Well, she has made noises of changing the status...

Well, she has made noises of changing the status quo -- ie me dropping to every-second-weekend/one day, paying support, and no longer being a joint custody etc.

So, a teeny bit of a change to the...
Forum: Divorce Support 03-26-2009, 12:07 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,590
Posted By davedad
Good point - I forgot that the Ottawa forum is...

Good point - I forgot that the Ottawa forum is wider than just Ottawa.

I'm in Ottawa...
Forum: Divorce Support 03-25-2009, 09:58 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,590
Posted By davedad
Recommendations for mediator?

Hi Everybody

My ex would like to move forward with our agreement/divorce, but the early stages show that we're a bit further apart in our expectations than we thought. If it matters, the...
Forum: General Chat 03-11-2009, 09:51 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 9,603
Posted By davedad
I think that my ex thinks she is well-intentioned...

I think that my ex thinks she is well-intentioned on behalf of the kids, but she is furious at me whenever my g/f is involved in any way with the kids. For many reasons, most of which have nothing to...
Forum: General Chat 03-05-2009, 10:33 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 9,603
Posted By davedad
That's a lot of what I was thinking. If we moved...

That's a lot of what I was thinking. If we moved in together or got married - then that would be a bit different because there would be a "real" role in the kids' lives. Right now, it isn't very...
Forum: General Chat 03-05-2009, 08:32 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 9,603
Posted By davedad
Ex wants to meet girlfriend

Hi Everybody

I'm writing this in general chat because I'm interested in what people think and basically talk about it.

I'm separated, for 4 years, with 2 kids (11 and 9). Custody and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-03-2008, 11:24 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,850
Posted By davedad
Well, having a passport is pretty much mandatory...

Well, having a passport is pretty much mandatory so signing it shouldn't be too big of a deal on its own.

With respect to traveling outside the country, having the passport doesn't automatically...
Forum: Common Law Issues 12-03-2008, 11:05 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,790
Posted By davedad
Grandparent visitation privileges?

Hi Everybody

I'm asking on behalf of someone else here, and cannot find specifics to help the situation so I figured someone would have insight.

Short story - couple married for many years, 4...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2008, 02:27 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,281
Posted By davedad
I was hoping that what I read and understood was...

I was hoping that what I read and understood was correct, that I wouldn't be liable for the CS in the charts.

Well, I'll just go along and hope that the job loss situation doesn't happen. If it...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2008, 02:15 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,281
Posted By davedad
Probably silly question but ... CS owing if circumstances change

Hi Everybody

I asked some questions earlier about CS and SS if my ex loses her job (we separated in 2003). The SS question was dealt with, but CS has made me wonder. This might be a silly...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-05-2008, 08:43 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 3,301
Posted By davedad
I don't understand that one... if one parent can...

I don't understand that one... if one parent can provide a home and care for the children, how can the other spouse simply refuse? Or, does that mean it will have to end up in court and be a court...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-04-2008, 02:04 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,466
Posted By davedad
That's what a few friends - married so I took...

That's what a few friends - married so I took their input with a grain of salt - had said to me.

I have dealt with questions from the kids about their mom, and I take it in stride or try to be...
Forum: Introductions 11-04-2008, 12:22 PM
Replies: 5
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Views: 1,157
Posted By davedad
I can answer the easier of your two questions....

I can answer the easier of your two questions. I'm fairly new here too and had to pick up on the acronyms used here a lot:

CS - Child Support
SS - Spousal Support
FRO - Family Responsibility...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-04-2008, 11:37 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,466
Posted By davedad
Thanks for the detailed response and information....

Thanks for the detailed response and information.

The potential for a move was suggested 2 years ago and I replied with a factual and what I considered solid rationale why I would not permit it...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-03-2008, 12:36 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,466
Posted By davedad
I'm glad that the first response confirms what I...

I'm glad that the first response confirms what I thought...

Angry at me that I wasn't available on a Friday evening at 9pm to discuss a homework situation was a bit much. I replied that I would...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-03-2008, 09:09 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,466
Posted By davedad
Balancing kids and time etc

Hi Everybody

I just read the "too busy to be a dad", and I'm trying NOT to be. My ex and I split about 5 years ago. We're pretty civil, all things considered, and for the year after I left (she...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-31-2008, 02:26 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,233
Posted By davedad
Sorry - I should have clarified...I was referring...

Sorry - I should have clarified...I was referring to the situation if she loses her job. If her income disappears, she might ask for CS.

I believe she would be rational and simply talk to me...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-31-2008, 09:19 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,233
Posted By davedad
Thanks for the notes. I was pretty sure but...

Thanks for the notes. I was pretty sure but wanted to hear others' opinions especially those who have either gone through it or knows the rules around it.

For child support - neither is paying...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-30-2008, 12:38 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,233
Posted By davedad
SS and CS if ex loses job 6yrs after split

Hi Everybody

I have read through a lot of older posts and tried to find similar questions. I have found quite a few, but as with every other case, they are all slightly different.

Situation:...
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