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Forum: Domestic Violence 08-10-2022, 11:06 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,355
Posted By iona6656
honestly reading about it- and experiencing it...

honestly reading about it- and experiencing it are so different. Especially because with situations of abuse- there are are so many weird power dynamics at play. I really think the best course of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-10-2022, 11:03 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 122
Posted By iona6656
Did you or the assessor disclose to the other...

Did you or the assessor disclose to the other parent that you were sharing the messages? If not- the other parent could successfully challenge the report.

I don't know that you have the grounds...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-02-2022, 10:39 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,015
Posted By iona6656
It me! I am said Stupid Anxious...

It me!

I am said Stupid Anxious Parent....I'll qualify that I have a kid who's lips swell double their size for a multitude of allergies. And my ex definitely has a some kind of mental health...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-29-2022, 11:33 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,355
Posted By iona6656
I'm so sorry you are going through this. I...

I'm so sorry you are going through this.

I was diagnosed with PTSD as well- and like you I was really kinda shocked when I met the criteria. lol. I had to work on all kindsa stuff like 'fear...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-29-2022, 11:23 AM
Replies: 58
Views: 1,015
Posted By iona6656
I'm with Tayken- parenting time ends with start...

I'm with Tayken- parenting time ends with start of school day.

Our exchanges are done at school during the school year. For summer/vacation- exchanges are between 10-11am.
Forum: Political Issues 07-27-2022, 01:52 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 11,354
Posted By iona6656
Again- mothers spend the same thing. ...

Again- mothers spend the same thing.

lol@"earning" the right. No one earns anything in family court- everyone just loses.

That website is for *PARENTS* who fail to pay the proper CS. Do you...
Forum: Political Issues 07-27-2022, 01:48 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 11,354
Posted By iona6656
it's weird that you think in this scenario- it's...

it's weird that you think in this scenario- it's not costing the mom anything. Does she have a magic fairy legal godmother? I guess some qualify for legal aid- but not most don't.

And Table CS...
Forum: General Chat 07-27-2022, 01:44 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 252
Posted By iona6656
Um, not buy the house? buy a condo instead. Rent....

Um, not buy the house? buy a condo instead. Rent. If you can't qualify for a mortgage on your own- then there's probably a good chance you can't carry household expenses on your own. It sucks. The...
Forum: Political Issues 07-27-2022, 01:39 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 231
Posted By iona6656
Yes. you are missing something. If you have...

Yes. you are missing something.

If you have an order from the court- it typically provides for adjustment of CS.

Why would the CRA be involved in adjusting the payment.

If the other party...
Forum: Political Issues 07-25-2022, 01:27 PM
Replies: 96
Views: 11,354
Posted By iona6656
^this. The rest of you "what about terrible...

^this.

The rest of you "what about terrible moms?!?!?!?!?!" are spouting made up nonsense statistics.

The stories about the father's killing themselves. Sad when that happens- but it's not on...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-14-2022, 10:31 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 485
Posted By iona6656
Also, I would lose my ever loving shit if my ex's...

Also, I would lose my ever loving shit if my ex's gf/wife tried to insert herself into a mother's day event with our daughter. Quietly, of course- and likely to my therapist. But I totally get where...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-14-2022, 10:29 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 485
Posted By iona6656
I don't disagree with you that we all have to...

I don't disagree with you that we all have to work with the partners our ex's choose to bring into our kids life- we all have no say.

However, in my opinion, I do think it's important to have...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-06-2022, 10:43 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,497
Posted By iona6656
I'm going to walk back my comment about the...

I'm going to walk back my comment about the urgent motion and agree with Stillbreathing here.

Maybe not an urgent motion. But I would be bringing some kind of action in family court. My concern...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-03-2022, 09:57 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,497
Posted By iona6656
while most of the time- I'm happy to ignore your...

while most of the time- I'm happy to ignore your responses- I think much of your "advice" in this section of the forum could be potential damaging and dangerous to victims of DV and IPV- male or...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-02-2022, 05:45 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 468
Posted By iona6656
There is a general victim compensation fund I...

There is a general victim compensation fund I believe. You apply- and they will pay for a certain amount of counselling sessions with a registered therapist or social worker.
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-02-2022, 05:42 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,497
Posted By iona6656
one thing to the ocnsider is the wording of no...

one thing to the ocnsider is the wording of no contact order.

To the OP- take a look at your 'no contact order' and/or his bail conditions. Is there a there is a statement in there saying that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-02-2022, 04:36 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 908
Posted By iona6656
lol. they did not threaten me- when I put quotes...

lol. they did not threaten me- when I put quotes around something it usually means I'm paraphrasing.

They flat out indicated that it wasn't safe to take my kid back to an environment where a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-31-2022, 05:32 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 456
Posted By iona6656
this is what I meant: "The aging of a child...

this is what I meant:

"The aging of a child does not automatically constitute a material change, but it can be a major factor". It will be fact specific.

Look at what the OP has said may be...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-31-2022, 05:26 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 908
Posted By iona6656
this is what I find so odd. When I dealt with...

this is what I find so odd. When I dealt with CAS_the caseworker who interviewed me said IF I was to go back to my ex- they would intervene and potentially remove the child from my care.

They...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-31-2022, 05:18 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 456
Posted By iona6656
nope. Not always. If the courts think the...

nope. Not always.

If the courts think the parent isn't stable enough- they can and sometimes do order indefinite supervised access.

What the OP will need to do is get help. Document that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-31-2022, 05:16 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 456
Posted By iona6656
No, it's not. There is case law that says the...

No, it's not. There is case law that says the mere passage of time does not constitute a material change.
Forum: Political Issues 05-25-2022, 04:32 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 216
Posted By iona6656
Tort doesn't 'end'- it evolves. Et voila...

Tort doesn't 'end'- it evolves.

Et voila the evolution.
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-25-2022, 04:31 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,512
Posted By iona6656
I don't disagree with you- that's why I think...

I don't disagree with you- that's why I think this ruling is going to be scoped. There are a couple of factors in this decision- the kids have no relationship with the father. There's no...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-25-2022, 04:25 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,129
Posted By iona6656
A therapist. A therapist will help you...

A therapist. A therapist will help you understand.

Cause clearly you don't get it.

Assault is not IPV. IPV is something different- it's more insidious. Seriously go google "why is domestic...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-25-2022, 12:49 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,512
Posted By iona6656
I really think you're missing how IPV works- and...

I really think you're missing how IPV works- and the implications and trauma it causes. If you think there is even a thought of "how much can I get if I get one more punch to the face'- you've...
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