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Forum: Parenting Issues 11-25-2019, 11:26 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,345
Posted By gettingexpensive
I wouldn't do this to the grand-parents. The ex...

I wouldn't do this to the grand-parents. The ex will likely lash on them.


And you must wonder how many times you did not see the signs... And definitely stay out of it with regards to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-19-2019, 03:43 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 965
Posted By gettingexpensive
Baptism by fire... but I now understand the...

Baptism by fire... but I now understand the game, and the illness a lot more. I have a good lawyer that is on top of things, although far from cheap.

I realized that I was in for the long run...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-19-2019, 01:44 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 965
Posted By gettingexpensive
Oh I know. That's why I put the "won the lottery"...

Oh I know. That's why I put the "won the lottery" in quotes. It's already a waste of money and a nightmare. The only thing keeping my sanity is the release conditions which came with a no-contact...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-18-2019, 02:25 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 965
Posted By gettingexpensive
I sure "won the lottery". It's been diagnosed and...

I sure "won the lottery". It's been diagnosed and is even mentioned in her court paperwork. She's even tried in mental health court for her criminal charges from what I was told (gotta confirm...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-13-2019, 10:05 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 239
Posted By gettingexpensive
Nah, unfortunately. But I'm hoping that it...

Nah, unfortunately. But I'm hoping that it reduces backinthesaddle's shock of things dragging on in court going just as well as the mediation via lawyers (ie: nowhere). Granted, every case is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-13-2019, 09:42 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 239
Posted By gettingexpensive
And if he really is high conflict and not...

And if he really is high conflict and not reasonable, here's what you can expect in court:
http://www.fishermediation.com/media/pdf/ABA-Identifying_Managing_Diff_High_Conflict_ClientsREPRINT.pdf
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2019, 04:03 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 402
Posted By gettingexpensive
You are not alone... take a look at this to know...

You are not alone... take a look at this to know what to expect
http://fishermediation.com/media/pdf/ABA-Identifying_Managing_Diff_High_Conflict_ClientsREPRINT.pdf
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2019, 02:33 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 965
Posted By gettingexpensive
I'm going through a messed up divorce with...

I'm going through a messed up divorce with someone that is diagnosed BPD and likely NPD (I guess I should simply say cluster-B since there is a lot of comorbidity in there). Good luck, it will be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2019, 02:28 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 192
Posted By gettingexpensive
Do lawyers really care about that? My ex keeps...

Do lawyers really care about that? My ex keeps getting lawyers that entirely agree with her position so things are going nowhere. And my lawyer keeps saying "that's usually the case, ignore what...
Forum: General Chat 10-31-2019, 10:30 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,476
Posted By gettingexpensive
These things are always difficult to read. There...

These things are always difficult to read. There was one in Montreal not long ago. I'd be curious to see what percentage is related to mental illness. Anyone that has seen something like a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2019, 09:25 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 999
Posted By gettingexpensive
Ah yes. the not totally there upstairs sure...

Ah yes. the not totally there upstairs sure complicates things. Seems like you need to keep going but it really sucks for you.
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-30-2019, 04:42 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,345
Posted By gettingexpensive
Oh definitely! He seems to be doing a great job. ...

Oh definitely! He seems to be doing a great job. I just wanted to be sure that he fully realizes the impact that he can have. His role as a father in this case is likely more important than he...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-30-2019, 01:55 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,345
Posted By gettingexpensive
I'll chime in briefly on this one. I haven't...

I'll chime in briefly on this one. I haven't read the full back story / your post history (but might) but..

If this is true "I am not shrink, and have no education in the matter, and Tayken...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2019, 02:08 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 443
Posted By gettingexpensive
So you lucked out. Otherwise it would have been...

So you lucked out. Otherwise it would have been another big waste of time and money. Ridiculous.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2019, 12:31 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 999
Posted By gettingexpensive
300k? At what point will you pull the plug? How...

300k? At what point will you pull the plug? How old are the kids? This is a terrible waste of money and you've been going at it for 8 years. A few more years and the kids will be adult.. and it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2019, 12:20 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 455
Posted By gettingexpensive
Why is this? it's not like it helps with the...

Why is this? it's not like it helps with the court system. Why would someone deserve many chances?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-03-2019, 10:13 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 652
Posted By gettingexpensive
You may want to do some reading on BPD / NPD...

You may want to do some reading on BPD / NPD forums as well. The mental illness makes it difficult (and costly!) to deal with, I know it all too well.
Forum: Divorce Support 08-13-2019, 02:42 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 656
Posted By gettingexpensive
You may want to read about BPD and NPD divorces...

You may want to read about BPD and NPD divorces or support groups. It may help a bit since that behavior seems familiar... he will definitely mess with your head.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-13-2019, 02:34 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,247
Posted By gettingexpensive
Wow. You're making my ex seem like an angel. ...

Wow. You're making my ex seem like an angel. Definitely follow the recommendations from CAS, this will give a nice break to your daughter.

Was your ex always like this? Or is there some...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2019, 04:06 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,039
Posted By gettingexpensive
3 years?? :eek: I had heard of lots of time...

3 years?? :eek: I had heard of lots of time wasted with mediation and whatnot but was surprised about this. Good thing they call it "fast track" :rolleyes:
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2019, 04:38 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,112
Posted By gettingexpensive
My S10 said that a few times when under high...

My S10 said that a few times when under high stress due to his mother..
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2019, 03:03 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,112
Posted By gettingexpensive
Fair enough. But damage can be done. In my...

Fair enough. But damage can be done. In my case, she was persuasive enough to put doubts in their mind for them to believe part of her "reality". She's been diagnosed BPD (and has other cluster...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2019, 10:45 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,386
Posted By gettingexpensive
Good. Maybe I'll benefit from the "new family...

Good. Maybe I'll benefit from the "new family law" in the next 10 years while my high-conflict divorce is underway :rolleyes: . Now excuse me while I go cry in a corner. :o
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2019, 10:43 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,112
Posted By gettingexpensive
I'd say that even just a few hours a week seems...

I'd say that even just a few hours a week seems sufficient to do quite a bit of alienation. My ex has done this quite frequently even though she only sees them 3 x 4 hours per week at this point. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-09-2019, 12:32 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 577
Posted By gettingexpensive
I'll answer what I can: I'm sure this...

I'll answer what I can:


I'm sure this is a vent. :D We all need these once in a while!


I can't wait to go through the same crap :rolleyes: My first case conf is in 2 weeks.. :o
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