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Forum: Financial Issues 07-23-2019, 11:56 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 998
Posted By Asphenaz
I agree with Rockscan, it's pretty much a losing...

I agree with Rockscan, it's pretty much a losing battle. CS does not cover anything in your home. Unfortunately you are the support PAYOR, and your obligation is to pay.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-23-2019, 11:44 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 532
Posted By Asphenaz
All we needed was SS, CS and parenting times, and...

All we needed was SS, CS and parenting times, and it took nearly 3 years from the first case conference was booked to trial.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-16-2019, 04:53 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 734
Posted By Asphenaz
LOL, My dad watched me do that when I was around...

LOL, My dad watched me do that when I was around two. Used to be one of his favorite stories to tell.

As for cannabis, it is legal, but not driving while high. It's a very stressful...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-16-2019, 04:41 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 238
Posted By Asphenaz
I would add the influence of the area you are in....

I would add the influence of the area you are in. For example, a smaller town may be more influenced by the EOW for fathers, while a bigger more multicultural city my be influenced by more modern...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-27-2019, 09:05 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 523
Posted By Asphenaz
I am currently paying SS, and do not have 50/50...

I am currently paying SS, and do not have 50/50 offset as the kids are not with me 50/50. In my agreement we have a clause that she should try to find work or SS is terminated.

Yes, it would...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-27-2019, 08:45 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 350
Posted By Asphenaz
Another option instead of therapy, would be to...

Another option instead of therapy, would be to speak with the school. Most school have staff that are trained to offer kids an outlet / safe place. Often times it is done in such a way that the...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-24-2019, 03:45 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 523
Posted By Asphenaz
How do you calculate SS and CS?

Hello All,

I'm hoping some of the more math minded may be able to explain where I went wrong.

I'm trying to calculate a 'what if' situation and the numbers don't make sense. As well as why...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-24-2019, 10:05 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,112
Posted By Asphenaz
Out of all the good advice already given, this is...

Out of all the good advice already given, this is an important part. Letting go is very important, so you can move on and find positives in your life.

The last part is the harsh truth, my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-24-2019, 09:48 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 270
Posted By Asphenaz
Check out the end of the "motion to change - Self...

Check out the end of the "motion to change - Self help guide", there is a flow chart of what needs to be done when.

Self Help guide...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-18-2019, 04:53 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 534
Posted By Asphenaz
Check your benefits coverage T&C's, and consider...

Check your benefits coverage T&C's, and consider it wisely. Mine like iona6656, had a clause where she was no longer covered after 3 years of separation.

Depending on the other parties health...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-18-2019, 04:38 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 396
Posted By Asphenaz
You will need a court order to modify or change...

You will need a court order to modify or change payments, especially if you have a court order. FRO is only concerned with ensuring the payments in the order are made. You can sign a motion to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-18-2019, 11:05 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 639
Posted By Asphenaz
Thanks for the advice, and I agree with you...

Thanks for the advice, and I agree with you completely. I hope that's not the impression that I have given. I try my best to keep the kids out of any custody discussions. I listen to their...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2019, 04:46 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 639
Posted By Asphenaz
The SW from CAS closed the call. I asked for a...

The SW from CAS closed the call. I asked for a printout. From the brief conversation the SW had with me, my EX "explained everything" and brushed it off. The other comment was that she was not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2019, 02:42 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 639
Posted By Asphenaz
Is this material change?

Hello All,

Both D12 and S14 want to return to week about. There have been many little things to indicate that they want to return to week about. Things like refusing to return on mid-week...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-08-2019, 07:10 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 390
Posted By Asphenaz
I do not agree on that point. I pay CS and...

I do not agree on that point. I pay CS and received 50% of CBT. You are correct that wording needs to be very clear and your supporting docs as well.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-27-2019, 06:45 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 399
Posted By Asphenaz
My humble advice is that itís time to move on. ...

My humble advice is that itís time to move on. As you said the matter is over.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2019, 10:13 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 244
Posted By Asphenaz
Ditto, and your trial may be postponed if another...

Ditto, and your trial may be postponed if another higher priority trial runs too long adding 6 months to a year more wait.
Forum: General Chat 02-19-2019, 10:08 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 927
Posted By Asphenaz
[QUOTE=kate331;233872]I need your thoughts,...

[QUOTE=kate331;233872]I need your thoughts, prayers, good vides etc as S(4) is in intense care sedated at our local childrenís hospital after a freak sledding accident./quote]

You got it!
Forum: Financial Issues 02-13-2019, 11:14 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 235
Posted By Asphenaz
If she moved out of the home, then the nesting...

If she moved out of the home, then the nesting agreement is no longer valid. I would calculate what you owe in CS and SS and start paying that. Move back into the home, which will help you...
Forum: General Chat 02-11-2019, 01:56 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 925
Posted By Asphenaz
In my case the EX did and still doesn't realize...

In my case the EX did and still doesn't realize it. She treated me poorly to ensure that I wouldn't turn out like other men in her life.

While I don't enjoy the solitude, I do enjoy being...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2019, 01:45 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 686
Posted By Asphenaz
Sounds to me that the onus would be on them to...

Sounds to me that the onus would be on them to prove that the payments were made. IE: request a receipt and bank statement showing regular payments.

They can claim they made the payments but you...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2019, 01:33 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 469
Posted By Asphenaz
If it's post separation, and this is your share...

If it's post separation, and this is your share of the equalization then it's yours.



Again post equalization, the interest is yours. If she buys a house with her money then yes, you will...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2019, 12:56 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 366
Posted By Asphenaz
Good way to view it, and good point.

Good way to view it, and good point.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2019, 12:40 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 699
Posted By Asphenaz
I don't think you're being petty. As many have...

I don't think you're being petty. As many have said, you don't have to reply or even address your ex's concerns. It's difficult to deal with an unreasonable ex, but don't punish your child...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2019, 11:08 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 198
Posted By Asphenaz
Form 31 - Notice of Contempt...

Form 31 - Notice of Contempt (http://ontariocourtforms.on.ca/static/media/uploads/courtforms/family/31/flr-31-e.pdf)

How to prepare an affidavit - Law Society of Ontario...
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