Ottawa Divorce .com Forums


User CP

New posts

Advertising

  Ottawa Divorce .com Forums > Search Forums

Showing results 1 to 25 of 500
Search took 0.03 seconds.
Search: Posts Made By: iona6656
Forum: General Chat Today, 12:51 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 410
Posted By iona6656
This right here sounds like a lawyer tactic. It's...

This right here sounds like a lawyer tactic. It's called a red herring. Make you riled up about something that is essentially inconsequential and so blatantly offensive that you are distracted from...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 12:17 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 166
Posted By iona6656
Yep. I was just speaking about this with my...

Yep. I was just speaking about this with my lawyer on Monday. He does a ton of pro bono work...and you could see how concerned he was with the cuts. He says it's going to make the courts much less...
Forum: General Chat Today, 11:19 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 410
Posted By iona6656
If I can offer a suggestion- don't get caught up...

If I can offer a suggestion- don't get caught up in the minutiae. Even if the agreement read as you wanted it to...do you think your ex or his gf are actually going to follow it? Even if it's as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 10:56 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 122
Posted By iona6656
Child Support Commencing September 1,...

Child Support


Commencing September 1, 2019, the Applicant shall pay the Respondent Table child support for the child of the marriage, namely, D3 and birthday, in the monthly amount of $X based...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 10:45 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 122
Posted By iona6656
Here are some of my clauses- in this case ...

Here are some of my clauses- in this case

Respondent = Mom
Applicant = Dad


General Custody

The Respondent shall have sole custody and primary residence of the child of the marriage,...
Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 09:54 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 410
Posted By iona6656
You've already done one settlement conference,...

You've already done one settlement conference, right?

Just keep pushing to trial. Don't waste money on correspondence through the lawyers.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:24 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 429
Posted By iona6656
My ex is a dummy when it comes to parenting. He...

My ex is a dummy when it comes to parenting. He never had to before. He grew up in a culture where the women did all the child rearing. To be honest- I think his older sister is going to be the one...
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 09:19 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 335
Posted By iona6656
I knew he was going to get overnights- but the PC...

I knew he was going to get overnights- but the PC helped me see that it's not when I feel comfortable with it- it's when it's a good time for D3 - providing that safety was no longer a concern. She...
Forum: General Chat 08-19-2019, 10:14 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 410
Posted By iona6656
PCs arenít for everyone. It wasnít mediation, so...

PCs arenít for everyone. It wasnít mediation, so the good thing was that I didnít need my ex to be reasonable. She honestly didnít care about what my ex wanted and viewed my fears and concerns...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-19-2019, 03:06 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 429
Posted By iona6656
SO close..

She starts public school. She will be staying at her preschool for JK and SK.

We live about 30-45 min apart depending on the traffic. I hope he sees the value in moving closer to her. I agreed to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-19-2019, 03:03 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 429
Posted By iona6656
SO close..

I hope to Vishnu you are right.

Is your ex a good mom otherwise?
Forum: General Chat 08-19-2019, 02:58 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 410
Posted By iona6656
Thank you guys so much. All of you. This site has...

Thank you guys so much. All of you. This site has been truly invaluable to me. Iím not naive, I know this is only the beginning. But thereís so much experience and great advice to be had here.
Forum: General Chat 08-19-2019, 02:55 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 410
Posted By iona6656
Done- final minutes of settlement.

Final minutes of settlement signed.

Parenting:

I have sole custody. No restrictions. I will consult with him on all major decisions about her health and before I register her in a new school....
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-18-2019, 10:21 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 335
Posted By iona6656
My ex would probably say his experience is/was...

My ex would probably say his experience is/was positive...we started out last December with me saying he would NEVER get midweek overnights. And now? Heís getting midweek overnights. Not for a while,...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-16-2019, 02:08 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 288
Posted By iona6656
thank you arabian for your candid post. I...

thank you arabian for your candid post.

I never picked that up from your previous posts. About the abuse. This was your first husband (your son's dad)? As opposed to the idiot who keeps dragging...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-16-2019, 01:56 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 429
Posted By iona6656
your daughter was 12. our daughter is 2. ...

your daughter was 12.

our daughter is 2.

you haven't identified any special factors in your daughter's care. Our daughter has life threatening allergies and severe atopic eczema that requires...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-15-2019, 02:57 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 288
Posted By iona6656
How to resolve doubts about your agreement?

We're *this* close to finalizing parenting stuff.

I'm not elated by the schedule, and neither is my ex...so according to my lawyer- that usually signals that it's a good agreement.

While my ex...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2019, 10:10 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 429
Posted By iona6656
SO close..

Update.

I'm drafting a new final order, to walk in to our settlement conference next Monday, incorporating a transitional parenting schedule that my ex and I agreed to with our co-parent...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2019, 09:50 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 238
Posted By iona6656
This is a really hard question to answer without...

This is a really hard question to answer without seeing your separation agreement.

As lawyers, we have a professional obligation to ensure that anything we're reviewing, and providing advice on,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-12-2019, 09:19 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 781
Posted By iona6656
Iím so sorry to hear about that for your...

Iím so sorry to hear about that for your daughter. Sucks for her. Hope you have the resources to get her some help.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-11-2019, 11:13 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 649
Posted By iona6656
Iím pretty sure you can file for exclusive...

Iím pretty sure you can file for exclusive possession but not be in the home temporarily for a couple of months. Get your paper work ready. Donít tell him. Leave for a bit and have him served. Donít...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-09-2019, 09:40 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 294
Posted By iona6656
Had a friend in need of a family lawyer in the...

Had a friend in need of a family lawyer in the ottawa area. These referrals come from my family lawyer.


Marta Siemiarczuk- is the one referred to by my lawyer most....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-09-2019, 09:31 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 314
Posted By iona6656
My ex asked for this in our parenting plan- that...

My ex asked for this in our parenting plan- that any new partners provide a vulnerable sector check if requested by the other parent.

It made laugh because my ex wouldn't even pass a vulnerable...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-09-2019, 09:24 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 408
Posted By iona6656
Yeah- I think it's 50/50 crapshoot on whether I'm...

Yeah- I think it's 50/50 crapshoot on whether I'm back in court.

Knowing my ex- I'm thinking there are three possibilities- 1) he walks away once the fight is over 2) he fights me every couple of...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-08-2019, 09:50 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 408
Posted By iona6656
Child support variability clause?

No- because there is another clause regarding CS update based on the previous years T1- and revising section 7 contributions. These clauses are different.

My lawyer wouldnít be doing the work...
Showing results 1 to 25 of 500

 

All times are GMT -4. The time now is 03:11 PM.