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Forum: Parenting Issues 03-03-2013, 08:41 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 4,340
Posted By winterwolf7
Thanks for the support Pierre, though it was a...

Thanks for the support Pierre, though it was a necropost.

I am still here, and I am still blessed to have the kids in my life every day. I said I was hoping to heal from my experience in dealing...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-19-2012, 11:29 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 475
Posted By winterwolf7
Send a private message to Dorano, she recently...

Send a private message to Dorano, she recently recommended her lawyer. I am also familiar with her lawyer and would agree with the recommendation... she is very much about mediation and collaboration...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-25-2012, 11:29 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,596
Posted By winterwolf7
I agree with Mess.

I agree with Mess.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-25-2012, 08:49 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,596
Posted By winterwolf7
The mom secured subsidized daycare spots starting...

The mom secured subsidized daycare spots starting next month, so luckily thanks to her efforts both parties will have greatly reduced daycare costs. She had been on the waiting list for the last 2...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-23-2012, 01:23 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,062
Posted By winterwolf7
It was very frustrating to be financing my own...

It was very frustrating to be financing my own demise, as all of the money on both sides of the conflict was mine. The more money I paid to my ex, the more money she had to waste by reneging on...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-20-2012, 03:06 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 957
Posted By winterwolf7
It would start with a Motion to Change, presuming...

It would start with a Motion to Change, presuming you have a court file number already from the divorce.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-20-2012, 02:56 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 957
Posted By winterwolf7
First thing is to read the SSAG in detail,...

First thing is to read the SSAG in detail, understand them, and the logical and rationale for spousal support.

In your case, it will largely depend on your ex's role during the marriage and if her...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-20-2012, 02:52 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 5,956
Posted By winterwolf7
They are not all evil, but they are fairly evil...

They are not all evil, but they are fairly evil...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-20-2012, 02:44 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 5,956
Posted By winterwolf7
It's CRA, they make up whatever rules they want...

It's CRA, they make up whatever rules they want regardless of logic or legality.

For the same reason they do NOT recognize legal separation dates between divorcing spouses, unlike everyone else...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-20-2012, 02:36 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 5,956
Posted By winterwolf7
Yes this is standard for CRA. For a household,...

Yes this is standard for CRA. For a household, the benefits are always paid to the female parent by default, unless otherwise informed.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-20-2012, 02:35 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,055
Posted By winterwolf7
Wow, very brutal and also indicative of some of...

Wow, very brutal and also indicative of some of the delays in my case too. I waited more than 9 months for disclosure from my former spouse before just deciding to give up and settle. She still never...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-20-2012, 10:15 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,070
Posted By winterwolf7
No, she receives those benefits for the children...

No, she receives those benefits for the children but you are still required to pay your half. She had to pay her half out of her household income, and so do you.

You didn't overpay now that we...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-20-2012, 08:33 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,070
Posted By winterwolf7
Yeah the magic number of $1200 showing up on...

Yeah the magic number of $1200 showing up on taxes as a child benefit is most likely not subsidized daycare.

The easiest way to tell is to request receipts from the daycare. The parent's only pay...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-17-2012, 03:52 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,696
Posted By winterwolf7
I'm sorry you're going through something similar...

I'm sorry you're going through something similar FamilyBlah.

I wished through most of my ordeal that I would finally get a day in court somewhere, anywhere, to be able to view, present and discuss...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-17-2012, 03:33 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,696
Posted By winterwolf7
The problem is that society is NOT just, and the...

The problem is that society is NOT just, and the mere accusation through nothing but hearsay used as a tactic in family court has life long consequences. Even if you are able to prove your innocence...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-17-2012, 03:05 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,696
Posted By winterwolf7
In my case, both me and my new partner were both...

In my case, both me and my new partner were both going through divorces, and BOTH of our former spouses used it. The child was injured at daycare while we were at work, when we got the child home we...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-17-2012, 02:56 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 2,696
Posted By winterwolf7
Interesting analysis, and yes I was the victim of...

Interesting analysis, and yes I was the victim of a witch hunt with all the properties described therein.

Honestly, I do not know to this day what awful registries and lists my name was added to,...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-17-2012, 09:27 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 2,854
Posted By winterwolf7
That is a very interesting read, and a step...

That is a very interesting read, and a step towards "sanity" for once in Family Law. Heaven forbid the recipient should be required to at least provide a wish list budget of what they will do with...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-17-2012, 09:03 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,011
Posted By winterwolf7
In my family, my dad continued to pay CS directly...

In my family, my dad continued to pay CS directly to me, and as the child it was my responsibility to pay my mom in the form of "rent", which took most of the CS but left enough for my bus pass,...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-17-2012, 08:43 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 12,789
Posted By winterwolf7
The best interests of the children seem to be...

The best interests of the children seem to be mostly $$$ based, after all.

Otherwise why would Dad's be left with 1000-1400 per month to live off while the Mom collects 2-3 times that without even...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-16-2012, 01:21 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 2,266
Posted By winterwolf7
That's pretty scary, I didn't realize it was...

That's pretty scary, I didn't realize it was actually fairly easy to be put on the hook for other people's children, or that it was easily accepted by the courts that it's OK for a mom to...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-16-2012, 11:56 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 2,266
Posted By winterwolf7
Isn't this kind of order for child support from a...

Isn't this kind of order for child support from a non-biological parent normally very rare and often time limited unlike standard CS?

What legal (or rational) logic is there for a mom to receive...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-16-2012, 11:01 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 674
Posted By winterwolf7
My ex receives a number of government benefits...

My ex receives a number of government benefits (CCTB, UCB, CDB) which form the part of her income which doesn't come from me.

In which case, CRA is paying her. I asked for a copy of her account...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-16-2012, 09:07 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,255
Posted By winterwolf7
Generally section 7 expenses have to be...

Generally section 7 expenses have to be "reasonable" or "necessary" as well.

The point of child support is to try to keep the children in the same standard of living that the couples previously...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-12-2012, 01:11 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 768
Posted By winterwolf7
I've had the same problem. I told my ex that...

I've had the same problem. I told my ex that additional S7 related to the disability (autism in my case) must be paid out of the CDB amount first. If she can produce receipts showing that the CDB has...
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