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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-13-2018, 02:08 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 1,272
Posted By Rioe
Well, you kind of did leave a mess behind, even...

Well, you kind of did leave a mess behind, even if you didn't create it intentionally, or solely.


You have a mess of a separation agreement that blends equalization, child support and spousal...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-12-2018, 10:55 PM
Replies: 60
Views: 1,272
Posted By Rioe
That's a lot of words that says one clear thing....

That's a lot of words that says one clear thing. You are trying to make a bunch of things top priority in your life: your needs, your children's needs, and your new girlfriend's needs.


You gotta...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-11-2018, 09:31 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 495
Posted By Rioe
Why didn't she get ALL her stuff when she moved...

Why didn't she get ALL her stuff when she moved out? Arrange a time with her to come get all the rest of her things once and for all.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-10-2018, 07:06 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 728
Posted By Rioe
It's not helpful to your case, but I'd like to...

It's not helpful to your case, but I'd like to add for the benefit of others perhaps looking back at this thread some day for answers that may apply to their own case, that it is a perfect example of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-10-2018, 06:56 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 152
Posted By Rioe
So basically things are heading to a point where,...

So basically things are heading to a point where, if you lose, you aren't going to save any money on costs just because your opponent was self-represented instead of lawyered up. Less incentive for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-06-2018, 11:09 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 420
Posted By Rioe
Yup, they have to word it exactly the way CRA...

Yup, they have to word it exactly the way CRA needs to see it, showing that both parents are recipients.

State explicitly that mother pays father X amount and father pays mother Y amount, and...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-26-2018, 05:46 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 348
Posted By Rioe
I don't think you're doing the math right. ...

I don't think you're doing the math right.


Her income is $18k, so her CS would be only be a couple hundred dollars a month depending on how many kids you have. That's all the CS she would...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-26-2018, 05:40 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 644
Posted By Rioe
You are common-law, and the house belongs to him....

You are common-law, and the house belongs to him. You don't get anything out of it unless he added your name to the title. You've lived rent-free for 12 years; that's your benefit as far as that...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-26-2018, 05:25 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 308
Posted By Rioe
Those are the two possibilities that could end up...

Those are the two possibilities that could end up happening.





If you want option 2, using the current value, she would argue that you would therefore need to repay her those back...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-25-2018, 09:43 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 308
Posted By Rioe
There are several ways you could look at the home...

There are several ways you could look at the home issue.


1) She paid all the expenses since you moved out, therefore she is entitled to all the increase in value of the home. You would use date...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-25-2018, 09:31 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 348
Posted By Rioe
If your salaries are that far apart, offset in a...

If your salaries are that far apart, offset in a 50-50 situation isn't going to be that much less money for her.
Forum: Political Issues 04-22-2018, 06:53 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 731
Posted By Rioe
My guess is that, sadly, it is most likely due to...

My guess is that, sadly, it is most likely due to the higher aboriginal population there. The text notes that the territories are even higher. Intergenerational trauma has really damaged them in so...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-22-2018, 06:47 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 278
Posted By Rioe
But he's said that this is unrequired daycare....

But he's said that this is unrequired daycare. And on top of that, she made the choice unilaterally to do it anyway, and chose someone who wasn't impartial.
Forum: Political Issues 04-22-2018, 03:20 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 731
Posted By Rioe
I think both genders can be controlling, it's...

I think both genders can be controlling, it's just that it's usually expressed differently. Men control more through physicality, by being physically abusive or intimidating, and women control more...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-22-2018, 03:15 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 278
Posted By Rioe
Hey, I wouldn't pay a daycare that wasn't needed...

Hey, I wouldn't pay a daycare that wasn't needed because I was available to care for the children, that I didn't have any say in choosing, and who was assisting the mother to alienate me from my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-22-2018, 03:02 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 642
Posted By Rioe
To be honest, I would probably have internal...

To be honest, I would probably have internal conniptions if my ex's girlfriend showed up to the kids' medical appointments. She has no medical decision-making authority for them, and the kids don't...
Forum: Domestic Violence 04-19-2018, 08:41 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 257
Posted By Rioe
People get away with murder when police muck up...

People get away with murder when police muck up the investigation, yes. Awful situation.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-19-2018, 08:17 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 949
Posted By Rioe
Also read WorkingDad's case for how to fight a...

Also read WorkingDad's case for how to fight a status quo established on false pretenses.


https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/doc/2011/2011onsc6451/2011onsc6451.html
Forum: Financial Issues 04-16-2018, 06:02 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 990
Posted By Rioe
I'd be giving the exact same advice to a woman...

I'd be giving the exact same advice to a woman who moved away from a man, or to someone leaving a same-sex couple.


He has no access to the child. Therefore he owes full CS to the parent who...
Forum: Political Issues 04-15-2018, 11:45 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 417
Posted By Rioe
Why is child support the first item on the...

Why is child support the first item on the list?[/QUOTE]


I'm not sure who you are quoting here, but I think the logic is that the children are the most important part of the process. So, first,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-13-2018, 10:19 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 281
Posted By Rioe
Well, there's the start of the problem. He should...

Well, there's the start of the problem. He should be paying table CS for his income, and budget the rest of his life accordingly.






Okay, despite being 18, the kid still qualifies for CS,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-13-2018, 04:54 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 350
Posted By Rioe
Get a backup plan in place. Pretend your ex is...

Get a backup plan in place. Pretend your ex is dead and you had 100% of the parenting to do. What arrangements would you make when you had to unexpectedly travel for work?


Some people, if they...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-12-2018, 05:59 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 350
Posted By Rioe
It has nothing to do with the type of access you...

It has nothing to do with the type of access you have, and everything to do with the type of job you have.


No single parent can easily maintain a job that requires travel with less than a week's...
Forum: General Chat 04-10-2018, 11:10 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 570
Posted By Rioe
When I got married, it was a horrible mistake! ...

When I got married, it was a horrible mistake!


I can't imagine being willing to do that again. I can't imagine that any cohab-prenup type contract that would satisfy me would ever be upheld by a...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-09-2018, 09:29 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 990
Posted By Rioe
That's just the phenomenally stupid and sexist SS...

That's just the phenomenally stupid and sexist SS calculator in action, which believes that a mother can't possibly work while she still has a child in school. The kid is 2, therefore the mother must...
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