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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 10:46 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 763
Posted By calvinfive
Meidation and Arbitiration are completely...

Meidation and Arbitiration are completely different. You should also not be going into mediation "just to" get it "done and over with" to move forward with arbitiration.

Also, why were lawyers...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 10:05 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 763
Posted By calvinfive
That was exactly my point. Just because a judge...

That was exactly my point. Just because a judge told rockscan mediation would fail under those circumstances , it doesn't mean it would. In fact, mutual agreement is the ultimate solution in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 06:49 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 276
Posted By calvinfive
Section 9 of the child support guidelines is your...

Section 9 of the child support guidelines is your friend.:) Just as is the CCB and Eligible Independent Credit.

But I am totally with you. I just don't give it much attention because I pay...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 06:41 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 763
Posted By calvinfive
Worked wonders for me. If your...

Worked wonders for me.




If your agreement says to mediate first, and you don't do it. You will be seen as a high conflict fighter. Court is absolute last resource. Always try mediation...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 06:35 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,547
Posted By calvinfive
How long exactly will the latest arrangement have...

How long exactly will the latest arrangement have been in place for by the time the review hearing takes place ?
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-17-2019, 05:52 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 852
Posted By calvinfive
lol. She's too young. She's not quite 12 yet.

lol. She's too young. She's not quite 12 yet.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 05:35 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,137
Posted By calvinfive
I'm not your ex. :)

I'm not your ex. :)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 05:34 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,137
Posted By calvinfive
She never asked me before filing her claims for...

She never asked me before filing her claims for it??? Oh right, this forum only sees things in the fault of the father.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 04:51 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,547
Posted By calvinfive
You should have a look at all of the cases where...

You should have a look at all of the cases where mom is given sole custody absent of CAS involvement, Charges, Threats, or special requirements only mom can handle.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 04:47 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,547
Posted By calvinfive
So basically, what the court is saying, is you,...

So basically, what the court is saying, is you, the father, want to move towards shared parenting but not right away. So the agreement here is you guys will check back in court in Spring 20/20 to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 11:28 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,137
Posted By calvinfive
How am I the one giving bad advice? I am giving...

How am I the one giving bad advice? I am giving perfectly accurate advice for the child tax benefits. You are talking about a tax credit and for reasons unknown to me referring to it as a tax...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 11:07 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,137
Posted By calvinfive
If their is another credit I am entitled to, then...

If their is another credit I am entitled to, then I am going to look into that and apply for it immediately without delay.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 11:02 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,137
Posted By calvinfive
Few Points. 1. Given you are at the 40%...

Few Points.

1. Given you are at the 40% threshold, you have every right to, and should notify the CRA you are in shared custody arrangement. You don't need to bring anything up to her. You just...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 10:55 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,137
Posted By calvinfive
Child support payments is irrelevant. I was...

Child support payments is irrelevant. I was paying her child support when we first started shared custody. Offset was applied nearly 8 months later. The only thing they need is proof you have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 10:47 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,137
Posted By calvinfive
I'm not giving bad advice. You are giving...

I'm not giving bad advice. You are giving uninformed false misleading information without any first hand experience. In fact, it says right on their site they don't care what your order says as CRA...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 10:42 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,137
Posted By calvinfive
No it doesn't. See my post above. For further...

No it doesn't. See my post above. For further clarity, it's not even odd or even numbered years. I get it every month, every year. It's based on previous years NOA.

CRA doesn't need it in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 10:39 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,137
Posted By calvinfive
As a father who get's the child tax benefits, I...

As a father who get's the child tax benefits, I can advise you have no clue what you are talking about! I don't have that in my agreement, at all, and I still get the tax benefits.

All you do...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-16-2019, 06:24 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,547
Posted By calvinfive
My stance is firm. Maximum contact principle...

My stance is firm. Maximum contact principle doesn't automatically mean 50/50. Whether you like it, or not.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-16-2019, 02:58 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,547
Posted By calvinfive
It sounds like you know what you are doing and...

It sounds like you know what you are doing and the courts really didn't want to just give her 50/50 back after she moved back in after she reduced her parenting time like that.

Status quo is in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-16-2019, 02:22 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 213
Posted By calvinfive
whatever the house's value increased by those...

whatever the house's value increased by those years you guys were married and it went under his name, divided by his share from the family it was inherited from, further divided by half, is what you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-16-2019, 02:14 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,547
Posted By calvinfive
https://youtu.be/ZbytR2avo-0?t=22

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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-16-2019, 02:07 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,547
Posted By calvinfive
They should. But we all know that is never the...

They should. But we all know that is never the case when child support is being paid. It is faaaar from equal.



Few points.

1. This is clearly decisions mother is making due to the costs...
Forum: Domestic Violence 10-16-2019, 12:16 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 662
Posted By calvinfive
50% assets and debts dating beginning of marriage...

50% assets and debts dating beginning of marriage
50% custody (joint custody)
50% access (2-2-5-5, 2-2-3-3, week about, etc)
offset child support

Don't get suckered into her lies and...
Forum: Divorce Support 10-16-2019, 12:03 AM
Replies: 67
Views: 10,345
Posted By calvinfive
As a suggestion, why not you let him deal with...

As a suggestion, why not you let him deal with his own problems with his kids? I mean, let him to be the one to go to the forums and seek out support.
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-15-2019, 11:34 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,347
Posted By calvinfive
There he is!! Where have you been all these...

There he is!! Where have you been all these years! LOL
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