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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2019, 11:01 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 296
Posted By iona6656
Does it get you to the over 40% threshold? Do you...

Does it get you to the over 40% threshold? Do you have more than 5 nights out of 14?

Also- Stillpaying is wrong. Any judge worth their salt will stop you as you try to tell them what happened in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2019, 10:01 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 357
Posted By iona6656
that's crazy expensive. like 20k expensive isn't...

that's crazy expensive. like 20k expensive isn't it?
but I've heard it's more thorough.

my lawyer was suggesting a "brief scoped assessment"- which is like a mini-report focused on one or two...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2019, 09:48 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 357
Posted By iona6656
are we talking an OCL report? are you in Ontario?...

are we talking an OCL report? are you in Ontario?

It's a shitty long process.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-10-2019, 02:23 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 296
Posted By iona6656
No weight whatsoever. You cannot bring up...

No weight whatsoever. You cannot bring up anything you said/agreed to in mediation.

Judge will shut that down. Mediation is assumed to be "without prejudice". Meaning that nothing you say or do...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2019, 01:12 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 874
Posted By iona6656
why did you got to counseling for anger...

why did you got to counseling for anger management?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2019, 12:36 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 874
Posted By iona6656
is that a "no" to all the other questions I...

is that a "no" to all the other questions I posed?

Do you guys fight in front of the kids?
Forum: Domestic Violence 11-28-2019, 11:36 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 4,881
Posted By iona6656
thanks for the update. I've read all your...

thanks for the update. I've read all your posts/threads. I hope to hell my situation doesn't go the way yours went.

Does your daughter see him at all?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2019, 11:35 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 874
Posted By iona6656
If she makes significantly more- and has a...

If she makes significantly more- and has a support system so that she doesn't have to pay housing/mortgage expenses.... She can- and most likely will try to out litigate him.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2019, 11:34 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 874
Posted By iona6656
What caused you to go to counselling? what was...

What caused you to go to counselling? what was the instigating event?

How long have you been in counselling? what type? Anger management?

Have you ever been charged with anything? were you...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-28-2019, 11:32 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 789
Posted By iona6656
If you have any funds- put aside 10k now. If you...

If you have any funds- put aside 10k now. If you need to liquefy your assets. Get ready to do that.

An avg custody dispute is going to cost you at least 20k. And that's IF you settle.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-26-2019, 05:04 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 874
Posted By iona6656
why does she think you have anger issues?

why does she think you have anger issues?
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-25-2019, 11:01 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,347
Posted By iona6656
ugh. that is tough...I don't know what I would...

ugh. that is tough...I don't know what I would do...on one hand- that's her mom. And our job as a divorced/separated parent is to back the hell off and just support the other parent and their...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-23-2019, 09:59 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 286
Posted By iona6656
hmmm...this is tough. you obviously understand...

hmmm...this is tough. you obviously understand that "dad's parenting time. dad's rule".

are you worried if you come down too hard- your son will jump ship to dad's house?

is there someone...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-23-2019, 09:55 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 188
Posted By iona6656
what do you mean how do you force him? You just...

what do you mean how do you force him? You just file the documents.

Have you done a case conference? If yes- you file for a settlement conference with the courts. Then you prepare an offer and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-18-2019, 02:06 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 254
Posted By iona6656
wow. I just noticed who the Judge is...he was a...

wow. I just noticed who the Judge is...he was a good friend and colleague when I practiced in London, ON.

We worked on many files together. He is exceptionally smart, measured, and practical in...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-14-2019, 08:51 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 516
Posted By iona6656
Your wife is abusive. leave. let the kids see...

Your wife is abusive. leave. let the kids see your parents on your time.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-14-2019, 05:33 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 296
Posted By iona6656
My best friend found out her husband slept with...

My best friend found out her husband slept with multiple prostitutes while they were married...cue separation/divorce.

Almost all the lawyers she consulted said it meant nothing in terms of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-11-2019, 06:02 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 344
Posted By iona6656
What does your agreement say? If you have a...

What does your agreement say? If you have a graduated schedule (I have one too)- then your agreement surely has pickups and drop offs outlined?
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-10-2019, 08:05 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 344
Posted By iona6656
Your ex doesn’t like you. She doesn’t want to...

Your ex doesn’t like you. She doesn’t want to exchange pleasantries. Get over it.

As to the exchanges. Your bad. Or your lawyers. Should’ve asked to split the driving. Person who’s parenting...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-10-2019, 07:58 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,428
Posted By iona6656
Please please do this. I’m so sorry your...

Please please do this.

I’m so sorry your kids are going through this.
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-06-2019, 07:52 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 612
Posted By iona6656
Getting SIN copy- other parent refuses to give it

Yep. But of course he demanded a copy of the birth certificate before he’d give it to me. So sure. I had it ready to go. I was going to send it to his lawyer, but now I’ve fulfilled that obligation.
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-06-2019, 06:22 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 612
Posted By iona6656
Thanks Rocksan- this is exactly what I did. I...

Thanks Rocksan- this is exactly what I did. I don't like pulling the ultimatum card. But I did it.

I told him if I didn't have it by the next exchange I would report it lost. He said then he...
Forum: Domestic Violence 11-06-2019, 03:36 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 366
Posted By iona6656
yeah, this. waiting is stupid. it...

yeah, this.

waiting is stupid.

it doesn't matter if the law enumerates "financial abuse" as a form of abuse. it's next to impossible to prove.

if your situation is bad, get. out. now.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2019, 03:10 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 968
Posted By iona6656
Don't argue with us. Get a good lawyer- and let...

Don't argue with us. Get a good lawyer- and let them help present the evidence.

Rocksan is giving good advice of being very careful about how you frame things- and even the wording around...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-04-2019, 02:02 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,976
Posted By iona6656
this. If there was enough evidence that the court...

this. If there was enough evidence that the court felt supervised access was appropriate- your matter *should* have been referred to CAS. But a lot of times, these things fall through the cracks.
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