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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-22-2018, 02:48 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,213
Posted By Janus
If you are going to trial, then make a severable...

If you are going to trial, then make a severable offer ASAP.

A) 550 CS
B) 200 S7 daycare costs
C) 30%-70% split for S7 costs (or whatever your percentage is, offer slightly better than the real...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-22-2018, 02:41 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 651
Posted By Janus
That is not factual, that is an opinion. An...

That is not factual, that is an opinion. An irrelevant opinion to boot. Why is he making legal arguments to his ex? What does independent legal advice have to do with anything outside of a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-22-2018, 02:28 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 213
Posted By Janus
Do they agree on all matters except costs? ...

Do they agree on all matters except costs?

Then sign an agreement on everything except costs, then go to court to determine costs. Judges rarely order costs for settled cases, since it is almost...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-21-2018, 08:27 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 388
Posted By Janus
The right thing to do is to love your child more...

The right thing to do is to love your child more than you hate her father. I'm not some father's rights nutjob, but if it makes you feel better to dismiss what I say by using that label, go crazy.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-21-2018, 08:25 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 276
Posted By Janus
Lock her up! Lock her up! ...wait, wrong...

Lock her up!
Lock her up!

...wait, wrong demagogue

Buck a beer!
Buck a beer!

If you can do buck a beer, you are clearly the person who understands the complexities of the justice system...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-20-2018, 11:30 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 388
Posted By Janus
I was about to say "well, he is going to lose...

I was about to say "well, he is going to lose terribly then, what a moron". Then I thought a bit and realized that the argument is not over the school, it is over the driving.


You knew where he...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2018, 11:20 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,213
Posted By Janus
I'm not sure how much CS is without the S7...

I'm not sure how much CS is without the S7 component, so it is unclear how generous that $750 is. That said, the offer has some value, in that a fixed amount can be collected by maintenance...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-19-2018, 10:31 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 206
Posted By Janus
What has changed that makes it now in your kid's...

What has changed that makes it now in your kid's best interest to have shared custody? You did not answer that question. If you cannot answer that question, your case is dead in the water.

Also,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-19-2018, 10:25 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 122
Posted By Janus
There is one message to tell your kids: "We...

There is one message to tell your kids:

"We still love you, that will never change. You will still have both of us in your lives. That will also never change".

Adults care about material...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-19-2018, 10:20 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 651
Posted By Janus
Oh, so if everything is as it should be, what is...

Oh, so if everything is as it should be, what is the problem?

He owes X, he has paid X. There is no issue here.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-19-2018, 10:19 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 388
Posted By Janus
If you are that concerned, perhaps let your...

If you are that concerned, perhaps let your toddler go to a daycare next to the dad's place on his days?

I know, I know, it is "preschool", which has some level of gravitas or something. In the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-19-2018, 10:10 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 169
Posted By Janus
I agree with everyone! a) 2255 is obviously...

I agree with everyone!

a) 2255 is obviously the way to go
b) Mediation is a waste of time
c) Court is expensive and the likely result will be "no change"

So, don't agree to a change you don't...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-19-2018, 10:06 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 206
Posted By Janus
If you mean joint custody, you should be able to...

If you mean joint custody, you should be able to get that easily. Anyone who is not a criminal can get that. I'm not sure why you gave her sole custody in the first place.

If you mean shared...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-19-2018, 09:53 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 651
Posted By Janus
Point 1: BIFF I read that acronym on this...

Point 1: BIFF

I read that acronym on this forum soon after I joined, and it has guided me in all my communications with my very hostile ex.

Brief
Informative
Factual
Friendly

Your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-19-2018, 09:32 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 111
Posted By Janus
I think you just resubmit the form. I do not...

I think you just resubmit the form. I do not think there is a special form to "amend financial form" that needs to be filled out.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2018, 10:46 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 173
Posted By Janus
You were concerned about the PD days that...

You were concerned about the PD days that interrupted your "5 day stretch". If it is her Friday, then it isn't interrupting a 5 day stretch.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-18-2018, 10:45 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 92
Posted By Janus
In the event that those are actual numbers: ...

In the event that those are actual numbers:


34/(34+90) = 27.4%
90/(34+90) = 72.6%


To the nearest percent... 27-73 split. Yuck.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-18-2018, 10:43 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 388
Posted By Janus
What is an acceptable amount of time that a child...

What is an acceptable amount of time that a child can be kept away from a parent for frivolous reasons?


The situation is not ideal. However, I have a friend who lives in a rural area and her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2018, 08:48 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 173
Posted By Janus
Why is other parent getting them at all on the PD...

Why is other parent getting them at all on the PD days? She can negotiate with you to be sure, but she has no right to them.

As an alternative, since 5/7 are on your weekend, and that seems to...
Forum: Introductions 09-12-2018, 09:24 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 214
Posted By Janus
I was waiting for the more social people to wave...

I was waiting for the more social people to wave back. Clearly not happening :).

Hello!
Forum: Introductions 09-08-2018, 11:41 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 230
Posted By Janus
Ummm... Those are actually good reasons. ...

Ummm...

Those are actually good reasons. You should be paying table CS. The child doesn't live with you. This is not a shared parenting custody situation.
Forum: Introductions 09-08-2018, 11:39 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 3,576
Posted By Janus
Pro-Tip: If you are going to go out of your way...

Pro-Tip: If you are going to go out of your way to advertise in a forum that does not allow advertising, at least make sure your website is up and running.

Also, aren't the forms available for...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-08-2018, 11:35 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 600
Posted By Janus
Yes, I actually knew that and then forgot halfway...

Yes, I actually knew that and then forgot halfway through answering. I still think that 50/50 is better, but now I'm agreeing with concerned mom :). Assuming of course that it is actually 50/50...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-07-2018, 03:04 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 600
Posted By Janus
I think you have misunderstood what we are...

I think you have misunderstood what we are saying. You are probably a better parent than the father. That's not the issue. We are just saying that when the kids are with the father, they should be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2018, 02:57 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 421
Posted By Janus
2255 will let you mostly keep on top of their...

2255 will let you mostly keep on top of their schedules. I agree with peaceful, I am not sure how you can reasonably resist a 50/50 schedule. It does not sound like the mother is terrible at all. ...
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