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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2018, 10:40 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 703
Posted By MS Mom
Thank you Orleans Lawyer. I had to file the...

Thank you Orleans Lawyer.

I had to file the tax return as part of a financial statement mid-way through the motion process. The other side, despite providing T4s and NOAs, refused to believe I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2018, 03:04 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,189
Posted By MS Mom
The point is, don't spend dollars pursuing...

The point is, don't spend dollars pursuing pennies, no matter how principled the argument is.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2018, 02:43 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,189
Posted By MS Mom
As an accountant, I caution people on assuming...

As an accountant, I caution people on assuming money is being made when it may not be.

You could spend thousands investigating to find out that she didn't disclose a few hundred dollars.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2018, 02:06 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,189
Posted By MS Mom
You said "the summer", unclear whether it's...

You said "the summer", unclear whether it's repeated summers or just this summer.

Many businesses operate in cash, it doesn't mean it is not or won't be declared. You're making an assumption...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2018, 01:22 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,189
Posted By MS Mom
Until she files her income tax return for the...

Until she files her income tax return for the same year, you don't know that the income isn't being declared.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2018, 12:20 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 703
Posted By MS Mom
I don't need any tax returns or anything...

I don't need any tax returns or anything submitted any longer. Those are just a small sampling of the difficulties I have had with the clerks.

Opposing counsel, although directed to, did not get...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2018, 12:09 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 703
Posted By MS Mom
I appreciate your offer of assistance, but my...

I appreciate your offer of assistance, but my Motion to Change should never have been directed to ISO at all. This has been verified by the opposing jurisdiction, ISO and an upper ranking MAG...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2018, 10:53 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 703
Posted By MS Mom
I'm asking because I was recently told by ISO/FRO...

I'm asking because I was recently told by ISO/FRO superior that my experience with the clerks isn't unique.

They've refused to accept a financial statement because they didn't believe you could...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2018, 06:59 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 703
Posted By MS Mom
Courthouse Clerks

How many self-represented people are experiencing, or have experienced, difficulties with the court's clerks when filing motions, other documents or obtaining attestations?
Forum: Political Issues 08-11-2016, 07:05 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 8,068
Posted By MS Mom
Our definitions of financial independence are...

Our definitions of financial independence are different. A financially independent woman doesn't go on "stress leave", they go on vacation and get back at 'er.

A financially independent woman...
Forum: Political Issues 08-10-2016, 04:25 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 8,068
Posted By MS Mom
You pay spousal support? Or are you considering...

You pay spousal support? Or are you considering child support to be "life long support" to the mom like Links does?
Forum: Political Issues 08-07-2016, 09:46 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 8,068
Posted By MS Mom
I make no assumptions about you at all. I...

I make no assumptions about you at all.

I am merely stating that spousal support is a consequence of divorce. Divorce is a potential consequence of marriage. The mistake that was made was in...
Forum: Political Issues 08-07-2016, 07:08 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 8,068
Posted By MS Mom
You tremendously overthink accountability. It...

You tremendously overthink accountability. It isn't dollars and cents, it's a true understanding that you did this to yourself. Accountability for the crap-ass position you have found yourself in,...
Forum: Political Issues 08-07-2016, 04:16 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 8,068
Posted By MS Mom
The point was accountability for the decisions...

The point was accountability for the decisions you make instead of blaming the spouse, the system, the courts, the judges, the female gender as a whole.

Absolutely people change and evolve over...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-06-2016, 06:39 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,024
Posted By MS Mom
No assumptions. You're bragging about not having...

No assumptions. You're bragging about not having to repay welfare for child support. I didn't accuse you of that, you stated it.

As someone who made themselves broke paying legal fees to get...
Forum: Political Issues 08-06-2016, 06:34 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 8,068
Posted By MS Mom
You were not forced to marry someone who was...

You were not forced to marry someone who was expecting $200G in return for nothing. You chose to marry this person. Gun to head was not present.

You lack acceptance that you got yourself into...
Forum: Political Issues 08-05-2016, 06:45 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 8,068
Posted By MS Mom
The child support you pay supports your children,...

The child support you pay supports your children, not her. As someone who receives child support it is highly aggravating to be told that I'm "paid" by the ex. I am not. The ex provides financial...
Forum: Political Issues 08-05-2016, 05:29 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 8,068
Posted By MS Mom
It isn't permanent, you've said so yourself. 4...

It isn't permanent, you've said so yourself. 4 years I believe you stated you paid spousal support for.

The reality is that you benefited greatly from her being at home and during that time she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-05-2016, 03:39 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 972
Posted By MS Mom
All my ex did was advise FRO that he did not...

All my ex did was advise FRO that he did not "agree" to these expenses and object to them. They won't enforce agreements that are worded "consent unreasonably withheld" and no fixed dollar amounts. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-05-2016, 03:25 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,024
Posted By MS Mom
This begs the question.... why was your...

This begs the question....

why was your child on welfare while you had the means and ability to pay child support?

why did it take welfare filing suit to collect arrears and on going support...
Forum: Political Issues 08-05-2016, 03:19 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 8,068
Posted By MS Mom
It isn't very funny. You have zero...

It isn't very funny. You have zero acknowledgement that you married an unskilled, unmotivated person who had zero intention of working. One can only assume that's what you wanted in a spouse,...
Forum: Political Issues 08-03-2016, 09:25 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 8,068
Posted By MS Mom
I have no comment on the divorcemate calcs or how...

I have no comment on the divorcemate calcs or how it's calculated because it never even crossed my mind to request spousal support. Whether I was entitled to it or not, and not even knowing the...
Forum: Political Issues 08-03-2016, 09:14 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 8,068
Posted By MS Mom
Accountability. Nobody tricks people into...

Accountability. Nobody tricks people into supporting them, people allow it to happen. Some even purposefully encourage spouses to be dependent, like some security blanket of desperate need that...
Forum: Political Issues 08-03-2016, 08:18 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 8,068
Posted By MS Mom
I'm really not understanding how you married a...

I'm really not understanding how you married a stay at home mom and expected her to come out a self-sufficient person after divorce?

You bought a house next to the tracks and you bitch and...
Forum: Political Issues 08-03-2016, 04:49 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 8,068
Posted By MS Mom
Your circle of people, and therefore, your circle...

Your circle of people, and therefore, your circle of experience is that women stay at home and live off the man. That isn't the experience of every Canadian woman - in fact, I'd estimate that it's a...
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