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Forum: Political Issues Today, 03:48 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 901
Posted By iona6656
^^ just came in here to co-sign that. ...

^^ just came in here to co-sign that.

Stating a broad-strokes opinion like that is like saying "All men just want 50/50 to get out of child support".
Forum: Financial Issues 01-20-2020, 06:53 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 397
Posted By iona6656
I guess I'm a bit confused. Is it simply because...

I guess I'm a bit confused. Is it simply because ANY child support changes hand that CRA denies the credit to the support "payor"? (even though both parties are technically support payors)....

I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-20-2020, 12:05 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 183
Posted By iona6656
do you guys have a the resources to engage a...

do you guys have a the resources to engage a parenting coach? they are really good with questions like this.

In the absence of that, my understanding is that if your agreement doesn't spell out...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 02:59 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 223
Posted By iona6656
I'm saying you need therapy because of what you...

I'm saying you need therapy because of what you have posted on here. You're angry and bitter. And wanting to punish your ex- who is still the mother of your children by the way- because you feel...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 02:38 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 223
Posted By iona6656
You need some therapy.

You need some therapy.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 01:10 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 223
Posted By iona6656
this is insane. if you've finalized your minutes...

this is insane. if you've finalized your minutes of settlement- AND presented it before a judge at an SC, and they signed off on it...then you're done. unless there's something egregious in it. Go...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2020, 10:44 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 272
Posted By iona6656
I'm thinking the witnesses would be anyone-...

I'm thinking the witnesses would be anyone- lawyers, clerks, etc who were there at the time the original agreement was signed.

I'm stumped as to who the witnesses would be as well.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2020, 10:42 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 157
Posted By iona6656
Registered mail.

Registered mail.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2020, 10:41 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 144
Posted By iona6656
why'd she cave?

why'd she cave?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2020, 09:59 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 536
Posted By iona6656
Motion for Right of First Refusal

Then again, if you were a controlling and abusive, and there is any evidence at all of this...good luck with that. You can fight it, but it’s going to cost you. You should be trying to work with your...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-06-2020, 03:06 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 155
Posted By iona6656
why does it matter? you're getting 50/50 and you...

why does it matter? you're getting 50/50 and you make relatively close to each other. why are you going after this headache?

at roughly 10-20k apart- I don't even think you pay offset.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2020, 05:00 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 391
Posted By iona6656
that sucks. gradual increases can be good for...

that sucks. gradual increases can be good for kids. but then again- it's not likely needed if they're older. i insisted on gradual increases because of our daughters age (at the time- she was 2.5). ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2020, 04:58 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 643
Posted By iona6656
It does not. It gets him to EOW and Wednesday...

It does not. It gets him to EOW and Wednesday nights. However, we have agreed that in 2022- when she's 6, we will go back to our PC and see if/how the schedule needs to be adjusted.

Here's the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2020, 03:31 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 643
Posted By iona6656
No he didn't. I have sole custody and primary...

No he didn't. I have sole custody and primary residence. We have a graduated parenting plan where he increases his time with our D3, provided there are no other incidents.

We were in litigation-...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2020, 03:25 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 391
Posted By iona6656
does it change over gradually? or do you just...

does it change over gradually? or do you just move to 50/50 in 2021?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2020, 03:19 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 643
Posted By iona6656
where's it's "proven"- in so far as one spouse is...

where's it's "proven"- in so far as one spouse is convicted, or takes a plea deal, etc etc....I think it's an uphill battle to secure joint. This doesn't mean that you can't have shared custody. It...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-23-2019, 04:35 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 452
Posted By iona6656
The best thing for you to do is calm the fuck...

The best thing for you to do is calm the fuck down and not run off to CAS.

My daughter is three- and lies like a cheap rug. She told me my mother hit her in the face the other day when they were...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2019, 11:01 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 424
Posted By iona6656
Does it get you to the over 40% threshold? Do you...

Does it get you to the over 40% threshold? Do you have more than 5 nights out of 14?

Also- Stillpaying is wrong. Any judge worth their salt will stop you as you try to tell them what happened in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2019, 10:01 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 575
Posted By iona6656
that's crazy expensive. like 20k expensive isn't...

that's crazy expensive. like 20k expensive isn't it?
but I've heard it's more thorough.

my lawyer was suggesting a "brief scoped assessment"- which is like a mini-report focused on one or two...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2019, 09:48 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 575
Posted By iona6656
are we talking an OCL report? are you in Ontario?...

are we talking an OCL report? are you in Ontario?

It's a shitty long process.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-10-2019, 02:23 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 424
Posted By iona6656
No weight whatsoever. You cannot bring up...

No weight whatsoever. You cannot bring up anything you said/agreed to in mediation.

Judge will shut that down. Mediation is assumed to be "without prejudice". Meaning that nothing you say or do...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2019, 01:12 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,089
Posted By iona6656
why did you got to counseling for anger...

why did you got to counseling for anger management?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2019, 12:36 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,089
Posted By iona6656
is that a "no" to all the other questions I...

is that a "no" to all the other questions I posed?

Do you guys fight in front of the kids?
Forum: Domestic Violence 11-28-2019, 11:36 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 5,726
Posted By iona6656
thanks for the update. I've read all your...

thanks for the update. I've read all your posts/threads. I hope to hell my situation doesn't go the way yours went.

Does your daughter see him at all?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-28-2019, 11:35 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,089
Posted By iona6656
If she makes significantly more- and has a...

If she makes significantly more- and has a support system so that she doesn't have to pay housing/mortgage expenses.... She can- and most likely will try to out litigate him.
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