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Forum: Financial Issues 05-29-2020, 10:53 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 90
Posted By Stillbreathing
Thank you Kinso. My accountant requested my...

Thank you Kinso. My accountant requested my family lawyer amend their letter to only include the legal fees for child support. They have accepted letters in the past indicating both. I will pass the...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-29-2020, 10:38 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 90
Posted By Stillbreathing
My accountant said only legal fees to secure...

My accountant said only legal fees to secure child support are tax deductible not legal fees to secure spousal support.
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-13-2020, 01:30 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 308
Posted By Stillbreathing
It sounds like you are doing the right thing....

It sounds like you are doing the right thing. Only respond to the child related issues in the email and ignore the rest. Defending yourself is the reaction she is looking for and will only give her...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 10:54 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 609
Posted By Stillbreathing
Abba435 First and foremost, you can not...

Abba435

First and foremost, you can not change or control your ex or what they do or do not do on their parenting time. Save yourself a lot of stress and don’t even bother trying. Concentrate on...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-10-2020, 02:04 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 527
Posted By Stillbreathing
A child psychologist told me to use the following...

A child psychologist told me to use the following line with my teen when they were being obnoxious and it should work with your ex too. Simply say
“Thank you for sharing that”. If they say something...
Forum: General Chat 04-27-2020, 06:02 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 463
Posted By Stillbreathing
Toronto star article

Today there was a brief article in the star about a Texas mom who shot and killed her two children and her mother after losing custody of her children. The father discovered the tragedy after he...
Forum: General Chat 04-24-2020, 12:19 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 398
Posted By Stillbreathing
Instead of civilians substitute “individuals who...

Instead of civilians substitute “individuals who have no specialized education or training in domestic violence or community risk assessment” or lay people.
Forum: General Chat 04-24-2020, 10:53 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 398
Posted By Stillbreathing
Sorry Janus. I’m on my phone so I can’t hyperlink...

Sorry Janus. I’m on my phone so I can’t hyperlink the article. Apparently a teen complained about another teen who had posted online that they fantasized about shooting people. When the police...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-24-2020, 08:21 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 265
Posted By Stillbreathing
If your ex defaults on the bridge mortgage for...

If your ex defaults on the bridge mortgage for any reason, the bank will come after you for the money.
Forum: General Chat 04-23-2020, 06:08 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 398
Posted By Stillbreathing
Another article written by a forensic...

Another article written by a forensic psychiatrist suggested that the important thing is to identify risk factors as opposed to motivation with these shooters. He went further to say that research...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-23-2020, 01:08 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 175
Posted By Stillbreathing
I wasn’t aware that FRO had the legal ability to...

I wasn’t aware that FRO had the legal ability to adjust child support payments without a court order.
Forum: General Chat 04-22-2020, 11:43 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 398
Posted By Stillbreathing
Nova Scotia murderer

Some interesting articles have emerged about the shooter. The first people he killed was his ex wife and her new partner. He has already met a few criteria from the domestic violence lethality scale:...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-22-2020, 10:46 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 1,350
Posted By Stillbreathing
Don’t get your hopes up for costs. I have been...

Don’t get your hopes up for costs. I have been involved in protracted litigation for 81/2 years with an unreasonable ex who’s full time hobby is disregarding court orders. Not once at the dozens of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2020, 04:27 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 428
Posted By Stillbreathing
Your lawyer’s advice was sound. Just so you know,...

Your lawyer’s advice was sound. Just so you know, the police will not act to force an exchange without an order and even with a police Enforcement order they will not always enforce it, so don’t...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2020, 10:24 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 428
Posted By Stillbreathing
She will not be found in contempt for not...

She will not be found in contempt for not exercising her access rights.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-20-2020, 01:11 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 428
Posted By Stillbreathing
If you have an existing court order that is what...

If you have an existing court order that is what needs to be followed. If you have proof that your ex is not following current Covid-19 protocol and social distancing you may have grounds for an...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-19-2020, 05:11 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 215
Posted By Stillbreathing
Activities with kids during Covid

Wondering what everyone is doing with their kids at this time. We are going for daily dog walks, bike rides and are all Netflixed out. What is everyone else doing with the kids to pass the time?
Forum: Domestic Violence 04-16-2020, 02:21 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,824
Posted By Stillbreathing
To involve the CAS or not. Interesting question....

To involve the CAS or not. Interesting question. You do need to think things through as the other posters have suggested. It depends on the circumstances and the likely immediate consequences of...
Forum: Divorce Support 04-16-2020, 12:00 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,271
Posted By Stillbreathing
The above posters have given you good advice for...

The above posters have given you good advice for the short term while your spouse is dealing with the criminal court system which is there to help victims of domestic violence. However, you need to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-11-2020, 10:14 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 842
Posted By Stillbreathing
A judge will not be impressed with your ex...

A judge will not be impressed with your ex despite the fact that your son is nearly 16. It would still be worth a try and you may in fact be successful as the law does apply to those under the age of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-08-2020, 07:22 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 263
Posted By Stillbreathing
If you object then you don’t agree to implement...

If you object then you don’t agree to implement their recommendations should your ex request this. There is no form to fill out. You can request clarification from the OCL on contentious issues and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-05-2020, 10:03 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 206
Posted By Stillbreathing
Being allowed to move with your children to...

Being allowed to move with your children to another country is a HUGE issue which you cannot “add” on your own to a final order. It is an issue you will need to have a separate trial on if it was not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-02-2020, 10:57 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 823
Posted By Stillbreathing
Do you have a lawyer? If the ex will not respond...

Do you have a lawyer? If the ex will not respond and you are truely worried you could ask the police to do a wellness check to make sure the kids are ok. After that you can make an urgent motion....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-26-2020, 08:38 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,529
Posted By Stillbreathing
Glad a judge made this ruling quickly as I’m sure...

Glad a judge made this ruling quickly as I’m sure many people were taking advantage of the current situation or simply letting irrational fear rule their actions.
Forum: General Chat 03-15-2020, 11:28 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 401
Posted By Stillbreathing
I’ve been waiting over 8 years to get my matter...

I’ve been waiting over 8 years to get my matter settled with an arbitration date in May. I hope my matter still proceeds. Crossing my fingers.
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