Ottawa Divorce .com Forums


User CP

New posts

Advertising

  Ottawa Divorce .com Forums > Search Forums

Showing results 1 to 25 of 500
Search took 0.17 seconds.
Search: Posts Made By: Stillbreathing
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 08:52 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 49
Posted By Stillbreathing
The court cannot force YOU to engage in any type...

The court cannot force YOU to engage in any type of counselling with your ex if you don’t want to participate. They can force children into counselling but again if the child does not want to there...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2021, 02:29 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 122
Posted By Stillbreathing
You may not be allowed to attend as there is a...

You may not be allowed to attend as there is a limit to 10 people at a time which includes the judge, lawyers, both parties and court reporter ( that’s already 6 people). Then add witnesses or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-04-2021, 12:59 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 169
Posted By Stillbreathing
Make a reasonable offer to settle. Make it a...

Make a reasonable offer to settle. Make it a severable offer which will increase the odds that at least some of your issues can be settled and that in and of itself will decrease costs. You need to...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-16-2021, 10:26 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 243
Posted By Stillbreathing
In my case my ex was extremely unreasonable and...

In my case my ex was extremely unreasonable and wanted me to come up with 100% of the value of the matrimonial home not 50% ( which I could easily do). So we ended up selling the home. I was unable...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-15-2021, 11:36 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 166
Posted By Stillbreathing
You are entitled to half the equity of the...

You are entitled to half the equity of the matrimonial home, therefor should be paying for half the expenses. That being said, you may be entitled to occupation rent from your ex as they are living...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-13-2021, 06:15 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 184
Posted By Stillbreathing
I would never agree to lock in the value of the...

I would never agree to lock in the value of the homes until trial. You are very naive if you think trial can take up to 9 months. Try 10 years and counting as in my case.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-12-2021, 12:06 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 94
Posted By Stillbreathing
Fraudulent Conveyance

What remedies does the court have when one party puts all of their assets into family member’s names in order to defeat the claim of the other party?
What happens if the court makes the family...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-12-2021, 11:55 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 278
Posted By Stillbreathing
DealingwithEvil in my experience anything goes in...

DealingwithEvil in my experience anything goes in an affidavit and nothing is struck no matter how inflammatory or baseless. In fact, over the entire 10 years I have been embroiled in litigation...
Forum: General Chat 02-10-2021, 11:14 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 241
Posted By Stillbreathing
Canthisbetight 3 years isn’t stalling. That’s run...

Canthisbetight 3 years isn’t stalling. That’s run of the mill normal. I’ve now entered into my 10th year of unrelenting litigation because my ex stalls, adjourns and has generally been getting away...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-09-2021, 04:20 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 332
Posted By Stillbreathing
If you don’t have a court order giving you...

If you don’t have a court order giving you exclusive possession and he is still on title, then yes he can change the locks but no he can’t lock you out. You have equal rights to change then go ahead...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-01-2021, 04:48 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 837
Posted By Stillbreathing
If you still want to buy the house, once it is...

If you still want to buy the house, once it is listed you can hire your own agent and bring an offer. You will of course be competing in a free market against any other potential purchasers but you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2021, 11:43 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 219
Posted By Stillbreathing
Follow what Janus said. That is good advice. You...

Follow what Janus said. That is good advice. You don’t have to bring an urgent motion if she is already planning to do so.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2021, 09:37 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 194
Posted By Stillbreathing
It’s not automatically allowed in every...

It’s not automatically allowed in every situation. At one of our multitude of motions we attended prior to the courts closing , there were a gaggle of law students assembled on the bench wanting to...
Forum: General Chat 01-18-2021, 12:38 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 582
Posted By Stillbreathing
Canthisberight what you are going through with 3...

Canthisberight what you are going through with 3 year delay is perfectly normal. Now imagine you were in my shoes, with litigation having delayed any settlement whatsoever in any way shape or form...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2021, 11:59 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 573
Posted By Stillbreathing
There are several things you can do. You can get...

There are several things you can do. You can get a new lawyer for much less. Many lawyer will give you a 30 minute consultation for free. They can give you advice regarding your options.

You can...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-09-2021, 11:05 AM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,373
Posted By Stillbreathing
Totally agree with Rockscan. Get a therapist. The...

Totally agree with Rockscan. Get a therapist. The emotional pain is only going to get worse as you move forward and transition into your new life. You are grieving the loss of your marriage and will...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-20-2020, 04:24 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,866
Posted By Stillbreathing
You could ask a family Court judge for a...

You could ask a family
Court judge for a restraining order prohibiting her from contacting your children’s school, sports teams, doctors, etc although the courts are reluctant to grant such an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-20-2020, 04:10 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 164
Posted By Stillbreathing
You can’t use what your child told you in court....

You can’t use what your child told you in court. It’s considered hearsay. It may also be that your child is telling you what he thinks you want to hear. Children have been known to do this....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-07-2020, 11:37 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 258
Posted By Stillbreathing
I have had to go self rep several times and have...

I have had to go self rep several times and have used the same lawyer each time. They give me my entire file downloaded onto a flash drive ( not a paper copy). That’s because it’s 10 years worth of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2020, 04:55 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 258
Posted By Stillbreathing
They give you a copy and they keep a copy.

They give you a copy and they keep a copy.
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-11-2020, 09:27 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 623
Posted By Stillbreathing
Why on earth are you seeing a therapist WITH your...

Why on earth are you seeing a therapist WITH your ex? The only reason you might want to consider therapy is if the two of you can’t get along to co-parent in a civil manner. Even then you should not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-08-2020, 07:36 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,872
Posted By Stillbreathing
Remember supervised access is supposed to be a...

Remember supervised access is supposed to be a temporary thing unless there are extenuating circumstances as in my case. My ex has permanent supervised access because he himself needs supervision for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-08-2020, 04:57 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,872
Posted By Stillbreathing
It’s best to have a 3rd party neutral supervisor...

It’s best to have a 3rd party neutral supervisor such as a priest or minister or other neutral party (not a family member from either side). Yes it is possible to get an order for a member from his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-08-2020, 02:34 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,872
Posted By Stillbreathing
Domestic violence charges will have an...

Domestic violence charges will have an instantaneous and immediate negative effect on access, resulting in either no contact with the children or supervised access if children are present during the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-08-2020, 11:11 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,171
Posted By Stillbreathing
Lorely, what does your question have to do with...

Lorely, what does your question have to do with the OP’s ? Nothing! Don’t hijack somebody else’s thread. If you want to ask questions about your situation then start your own thread.

Now...
Showing results 1 to 25 of 500

 

All times are GMT -4. The time now is 11:42 PM.