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Forum: Financial Issues 06-07-2012, 12:36 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 7,678
Posted By Suchislife
When being questioned about spousal by Revenue...

When being questioned about spousal by Revenue Canada a couple of years ago, my husband was able to send a copy of the Court Order stating the spousal amount to be paid. That alone cleared it up.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-18-2011, 02:00 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,572
Posted By Suchislife
You can ask that she take her name off the house...

You can ask that she take her name off the house deed. Whilst you still owe her her 50% this gives you the chance to decide what you are going to do. Be very careful about any joint finances. Speak...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-18-2011, 10:22 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,720
Posted By Suchislife
You may just have to change your name from...

You may just have to change your name from thefunone to thebrokeone.
Your situation is not unusual. Going through the system may just net you the same result with additional court related costs to...
Forum: Political Issues 07-20-2011, 08:58 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 8,293
Posted By Suchislife
Well said, KARMASEEKER. Similar situation myself....

Well said, KARMASEEKER. Similar situation myself. In year 7 since the separation and the latest issue is my husband having NOT seen his two daughters since December. They didn't show for their...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-22-2011, 08:34 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,468
Posted By Suchislife
The Child Support may very well be set based on...

The Child Support may very well be set based on an income of $70 000 for the last fiscal year.
An alternative is to agree on a figure between the two of you.
If the figure is set based on $70 000...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-14-2010, 02:14 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,992
Posted By Suchislife
A motion to reduce spousal support could go...

A motion to reduce spousal support could go either way.
Your job is to prove why a decrease is warranted by your present circumstance.
Your Ex must prove her 'need' to receive it.
Her limited...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2009, 02:47 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 5,564
Posted By Suchislife
Yes, it is true that FRO will submit garnishment...

Yes, it is true that FRO will submit garnishment notices to any bank, health insurance company, employer or the Gov't on only the recipients say so.
A lot of wasted effort & paper when some places...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-25-2009, 10:31 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,478
Posted By Suchislife
Natureboy, you can seek what is called 'exclusive...

Natureboy, you can seek what is called 'exclusive posession of the matrimonial home'. Your wife may agree to this and she may not. If it is not on consent (by her) it may still be granted by a Judge...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-13-2009, 08:15 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 5,564
Posted By Suchislife
#1, you are correct in assuming that the support...

#1, you are correct in assuming that the support deduction order has been forwarded to the Gov't.
You will receive a letter from the Dept. Of Justice. This order is going to affect your hubby's...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2009, 08:34 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 4,998
Posted By Suchislife
Just a warning: Many people think that someone...

Just a warning:
Many people think that someone would NOT deny another parent access to their children but it happens all the time.
If your partner wants out of the relationship (which threats to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-27-2009, 06:58 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,394
Posted By Suchislife
When my husband wanted to go to trial to force an...

When my husband wanted to go to trial to force an ending to a never ending equalization payment debate his lawyer estimated a day & a half.
This was just to settle property issues that were NOT...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-02-2009, 09:19 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,327
Posted By Suchislife
You do not state whether ANY attempt to make CS...

You do not state whether ANY attempt to make CS payments was made after the order. Judges do not look highly upon this. The poorest of the poor can make a payment of something.

If he hasn't worked...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-02-2009, 09:09 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 7,144
Posted By Suchislife
#1SM, the onus is on your hubby's Ex to PROVE...

#1SM, the onus is on your hubby's Ex to PROVE undue hardship. There are tables that the courts use. It isn't easy. My husband and I didn't qualify to even go that route when we had a new baby, the Ex...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-02-2009, 08:55 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 7,144
Posted By Suchislife
What got2Bkid is referring to is the problem of...

What got2Bkid is referring to is the problem of ineligibility for second families in which any Gov't tax breaks, daycare subsidies ETC...are all unavailable due to the APPARENT inflated income due to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-29-2009, 05:07 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 4,475
Posted By Suchislife
Doctors don't generally give ANYONE a copy of...

Doctors don't generally give ANYONE a copy of medical files. Even when you change Dr.'s the file is couriered to the new Dr.

NoahJenda is correct in stating that the issue is between farooq and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-29-2009, 04:48 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,511
Posted By Suchislife
Living separately in the same house does count,...

Living separately in the same house does count, however, if there is a disagreement on the date of separation for equalization purposes you may want something in writing. You could simply write a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-29-2009, 04:36 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,089
Posted By Suchislife
Get the court order from the court house where it...

Get the court order from the court house where it was filed.
There is a possiblity that the court order is not ready and that is why his lawyer is not providing a copy. They can take months.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-29-2009, 11:15 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 5,473
Posted By Suchislife
Wow. Does the Mother pay the daycare provider...

Wow.
Does the Mother pay the daycare provider directly?
If so, I would provide documented 50% share (detailed receipt signed & obtained from Mom) and put the onus on HER to take it further if she's...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-21-2009, 09:40 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 4,498
Posted By Suchislife
You can't argue an increase in visitation/access...

You can't argue an increase in visitation/access on the basis of someone's relationship status.
If a child is fond of someone's present gilfriend, then introducing them wasn't a bad thing, was it?...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-21-2009, 09:21 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,467
Posted By Suchislife
Your husband is right to be wary about...

Your husband is right to be wary about 'deducting' section 7 expenses from ordered child support. They're two separate things.
You can ask her to pay her portion for this season and sign them up or...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-21-2009, 09:10 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 4,150
Posted By Suchislife
A loan is a debt. It is not income. Support...

A loan is a debt.
It is not income.
Support refers to child support or spousal support being received, not a trust fund.
Forum: Financial Issues 07-05-2009, 08:45 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,629
Posted By Suchislife
SS duration is not cut & dry. You can have a...

SS duration is not cut & dry.
You can have a clause put in your divorce agreement that states spousal ends when she remarries or co-habitates with someone else for more than 6 mos. Or a date that it...
Forum: Political Issues 07-01-2009, 09:22 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 13,395
Posted By Suchislife
There was an episode of Dr. Phil in a similar...

There was an episode of Dr. Phil in a similar vein awhile ago.
A man had a sexual encounter with a woman. Ultimately she became pregant.
The man went on to marry and have two children. After a few...
Forum: Political Issues 06-24-2009, 12:21 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,756
Posted By Suchislife
FRO doesn't wait for court dates. If you're in...

FRO doesn't wait for court dates.
If you're in arrears and they choose the enforcement action of a Federal Deduction Order then that's their route to recoup the monies.

I'm presuming you are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-23-2009, 10:52 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,929
Posted By Suchislife
teulan, there is not much you can do. It is...

teulan, there is not much you can do. It is unfortunately a case of financial ruin and mounting debt for most support payors.
Consider yourself lucky that you have an end to Spousal as not everyone...
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