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Forum: Financial Issues 11-06-2021, 06:04 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 280
it isnt based on your paystub, it is based on you...

it isnt based on your paystub, it is based on you tax return
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2021, 01:45 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 634
first off I would always ask for more than you...

first off I would always ask for more than you expect to get. That way, they feel they go the better of you when you get less,but still get what you wanted or very close to it
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2021, 10:34 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,095
he can do it and I am surprised he never did it...

he can do it and I am surprised he never did it earlier.


Like rockscan said, you are being and have been unreasonable.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-14-2021, 06:24 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,216
you cannot dictate what the CS is spent on... ...

you cannot dictate what the CS is spent on...

Honestly you are being very unrealistic with everything. Just pay the CS to be recalculated each year at a certain time. Keeps things simple.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-04-2021, 06:46 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 570
my ex is under sunlife and as long as we are not...

my ex is under sunlife and as long as we are not divorced he can keep me on his benefits.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-29-2021, 06:45 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 700
he would not have to deal with a bully (though I...

he would not have to deal with a bully (though I cannot see how she is bullying) if he would just be prepared and get it over with.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-25-2021, 04:00 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 310
as long as you and your ex agree then you can...

as long as you and your ex agree then you can keep costs down.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-20-2021, 06:21 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 484
are there kids and property involved? Is someone...

are there kids and property involved? Is someone wanting SS or something? You cannot just bypass a step and go directly to divorce. Did the other party send a counter offer back?
Forum: Financial Issues 07-14-2021, 09:18 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,371
going after everything she can from the ex...she...

going after everything she can from the ex...she has a boyfriend to support you know...:D
Forum: Financial Issues 07-13-2021, 05:05 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,371
you will have to take it to court to settle the...

you will have to take it to court to settle the matter. He has given you a certain amount for SS and you accepted it. I think most people would do what he did when confronted with a gold-digger,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2021, 04:35 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 240
May I also add. Do not sign anything thinking...

May I also add.
Do not sign anything thinking that later when you have more money, you will get it changed.

Make a list of what you want, deal breakers and thing the you can say you want but...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-11-2021, 01:47 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 895
when a child goes away for school there are other...

when a child goes away for school there are other expenses that are paid like staying in residence or whatever. You are comparing two different things. When they go to school it is more than just a...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-02-2021, 09:36 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,333
Just breathe...you are in a pretty good position...

Just breathe...you are in a pretty good position to get sole custody of the girls due to her actions..Get moving on this as quick as possible.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-27-2021, 05:59 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 2,442
He did try,he wants to sell the house and you...

He did try,he wants to sell the house and you refuse to either put it up for sale or buy him out. You are putting yourself into debt. Stop blaming your ex for your bad decisions and your actions that...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-24-2021, 04:12 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 2,442
Then do like every other person with limited...

Then do like every other person with limited funds does, make a budget and make cuts. You need to look after your kids first before you look after your boyfriend. You are putting your boyfriend...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-23-2021, 07:35 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 2,442
They are your kids also so you have to contribute...

They are your kids also so you have to contribute to their upbringing also...stop being a sugar momma on your husbands dime
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-06-2021, 03:27 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 375
he lived up to his agreement that he pays until...

he lived up to his agreement that he pays until the child graduates. That doesn't mean he is off the hook for post-secondary education.

use the search feature and you will find a wealth of...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-31-2021, 02:09 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 939
I wonder if it is due to post secondary education...

I wonder if it is due to post secondary education and the differences for figuring out child support etc?
Forum: General Chat 05-26-2021, 06:28 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,557
I am not saying that, you are the one saying that...

I am not saying that, you are the one saying that it is all up to you when it isnt. The kids are his next of kin so it is up to them, I did not say that you should not help them but you are saying...
Forum: General Chat 05-25-2021, 09:05 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,557
if last months rent was paid then the apartment...

if last months rent was paid then the apartment is paid for next month. Your ex has family, his kids and now it is their responsibility to deal with their fathers last wishes and burial or whatever....
Forum: Financial Issues 05-12-2021, 09:33 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 4,613
no one does that by accident lol

no one does that by accident lol
Forum: Financial Issues 05-12-2021, 06:50 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 4,613
I wonder also if the judge will be made aware...

I wonder also if the judge will be made aware that she is taking a pay cut while paying her boyfriend a full salary?
Forum: Financial Issues 05-11-2021, 08:13 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 4,613
His choice is to sell the house and get rid of...

His choice is to sell the house and get rid of that debt so anything that increases a cost that he does not agree with should affect her.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-10-2021, 08:09 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 4,613
just move out so the house can be sold. We keep...

just move out so the house can be sold. We keep telling you that.What he is doing now is washing his hands of it. The bank will foreclose when the mortgage is not renewed or paid off. Then you will...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2021, 02:36 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,078
Kinda sounds like mom was/is trying to kill dad.

Kinda sounds like mom was/is trying to kill dad.
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