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Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 04:07 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 81
Posted By rockscan
Yes your original question was when can you apply...

Yes your original question was when can you apply but before you apply you must be sure that you can actually get it in a shared custody situation. You have to be eligible and that includes having...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 03:24 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 81
Posted By rockscan
You have to have certain wording to be eligible...

You have to have certain wording to be eligible in an offset situation. So while you apply, it might be denied to your ex and then denied to you both which would create a bigger mess. Do a search on...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 03:00 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 81
Posted By rockscan
There have been a number of posts on this and how...

There have been a number of posts on this and how your agreement has to be worded. A search will help you answer this.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:33 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 137
Posted By rockscan
Your case is complicated by a criminal case as...

Your case is complicated by a criminal case as well as you pushing for things before that case is over. 80 grand is not unreasonable for this and considering youre at trial less than two years...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-04-2021, 04:41 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 65
Posted By rockscan
Child support yes and if kid is living at home...

Child support yes and if kid is living at home then its full table.

As for school costs, if they prove the paid costs with the RESP then they cannot claim those costs twice as its double dipping....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-04-2021, 10:52 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 137
Posted By rockscan
Has your criminal case finished yet? Sent...

Has your criminal case finished yet?


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Forum: Financial Issues 03-03-2021, 10:32 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 803
Posted By rockscan
Then you should have worked to find a new job to...

Then you should have worked to find a new job to meet your financial responsibilities. Your ex was not a personal bank account.


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Forum: Financial Issues 03-03-2021, 10:00 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 803
Posted By rockscan
But you quit a well paying job to work for...

But you quit a well paying job to work for yourself and pay your new boyfriend. Any attempts you made are moot as you made stupid financial decisions.

If he wins and can argue he is entitled to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-01-2021, 03:15 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 320
Posted By rockscan
Is there nothing in your agreement related to...

Is there nothing in your agreement related to final decision making authority? A lot of agreements have something along the lines of however if both parties cannot agree, Parent A has final decision...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-01-2021, 02:02 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 803
Posted By rockscan
Yes but that is not his fault. You should have...

Yes but that is not his fault. You should have worked to pay down this debt.

You really keep digging yourself a bigger hole. You had a quarter million in legal debt during the marriage, you never...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-01-2021, 01:02 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 803
Posted By rockscan
That one is a crapshoot since he agreed to take...

That one is a crapshoot since he agreed to take on the debt as part of the marriage. Really it cuts down on both your equalization but he is allowed to attempt the argument that it escalated during...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-27-2021, 03:17 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 142
Posted By rockscan
I would think that once they turn 18 they get to...

I would think that once they turn 18 they get to decide if they want to see him. They would also get to dictate how that plays out to him. For instance they could tell him they will only see him with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-27-2021, 10:04 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 110
Posted By rockscan
If you have a signed court order then that one is...

If you have a signed court order then that one is then one that outlines the current status. For instance if it updates to say section 7 is now 50/50 then you cant go back to a previous order where...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-24-2021, 06:18 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 803
Posted By rockscan
If the loan was incurred during the marriage then...

If the loan was incurred during the marriage then yes you are responsible for a portion. Just like you are entitled to a share of his acquisition of assets from his employment (like pensions etc.)
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Forum: Financial Issues 02-24-2021, 11:04 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 803
Posted By rockscan
Well technically you are being unreasonable....

Well technically you are being unreasonable. Mostly for the reasons in your other threads but now because he has no access to credit because a) you are refusing to sell his asset and b) he has no...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-23-2021, 06:44 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 454
Posted By rockscan
He could also quit his job or work for cash and...

He could also quit his job or work for cash and you get nothing. Neither situation is right. Some money is better than no money. There was a poster on here who had an ex with an attitude of too bad...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-23-2021, 04:12 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 803
Posted By rockscan
What would be a reasonable argument? In my...

What would be a reasonable argument? In my husbands case the judge said loans or how he paid for things had no bearing on his income and he could use credit to pay for his lifestyle choices as long...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-23-2021, 01:12 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 803
Posted By rockscan
I dont think he has to divulge details. Just...

I dont think he has to divulge details. Just that its a loan. You could request additional disclosure but you would need to outline that you cannot fo forward with your case without it. That would...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-23-2021, 09:48 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 803
Posted By rockscan
He can borrow money after separation. He just...

He can borrow money after separation. He just cant make you pay for it.


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Forum: Financial Issues 02-22-2021, 09:50 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 454
Posted By rockscan
Technically his obligation is to his first kid...

Technically his obligation is to his first kid first. But there have been cases where a reduced amount of support is paid due to hardship. Remember he doesnt get government benefits or subsidies and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-22-2021, 09:47 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 155
Posted By rockscan
Jesus ten years? Yes she can get her own shit and...

Jesus ten years? Yes she can get her own shit and her lawyer can fire her lol


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-22-2021, 08:22 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 155
Posted By rockscan
You could tell them how much it will cost to send...

You could tell them how much it will cost to send it and that your lawyer wants the payment up front. Otherwise no you will not be providing anything for free.

Technically your ex should have...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2021, 08:04 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,021
Posted By rockscan
The school has nothing to do with it and he cant...

The school has nothing to do with it and he cant arbitrarily make them accommodate him.

The agreement is between the two of you not you and the school.


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Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2021, 06:21 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,021
Posted By rockscan
Then you can respond and say the order outlines...

Then you can respond and say the order outlines the times and you will consider his request in the best interest of SON. Should he disagree with that, you will follow the agreement to the letter.

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Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2021, 05:39 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,021
Posted By rockscan
Is it an order or an agreement? One has different...

Is it an order or an agreement? One has different ways of stating over the other. When was this all signed? Has dad sent you a request or this is just the school schedule?

I ask because a response...
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