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Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 04:07 PM
Replies: 8
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Posted By rockscan
It was more child care which is not for work. ...

It was more child care which is not for work.

Nanny is way more than daycare.

He can also dispute what she gets if a more cost efficient option or he is available.

This poster seems to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2021, 04:44 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 502
Posted By rockscan
Call the school board and find out about rules on...

Call the school board and find out about rules on addresses. Kid may not be eligible to go to a school where they dont live.


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Forum: Financial Issues 01-16-2021, 04:44 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 959
Posted By rockscan
Not to mention have an impact on the other...

Not to mention have an impact on the other current and future relationships. Whether you want to or not you WILL have an impact on your kids.


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Forum: Financial Issues 01-15-2021, 10:50 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 959
Posted By rockscan
You could see if your city has a family service...

You could see if your city has a family service office. They have therapy services. Also talk to your family doctor as they can refer.

You also need to remember that she is taking care of her...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-15-2021, 04:00 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 172
Posted By rockscan
Should also note you need to get his written...

Should also note you need to get his written permission. Plus if you need help to parent your kids and he does not, it may not weigh in your favour to have a nanny.


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Forum: Parenting Issues 01-15-2021, 01:55 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 172
Posted By rockscan
If you need child care to work it is a section 7...

If you need child care to work it is a section 7 expense.

If you need a nanny because you cant handle your kids thats not a section 7.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2021, 03:38 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 502
Posted By rockscan
I believe the language is along the lines of...

I believe the language is along the lines of parent a will pay to parent b xxx in child support. Parent b pays parent a yyy in child support.

That way cra doesnt see off set or anything else. Do a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2021, 02:04 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 502
Posted By rockscan
The language they use for post secondary is such...

The language they use for post secondary is such bullshit. Especially when it isnt clear on stuff. And that clause not paying for school if the kids goes away? Total crap. Most courts err on the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2021, 12:39 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 502
Posted By rockscan
Its a ridiculous point and it doesnt matter....

Its a ridiculous point and it doesnt matter. Unless your kid is planning to move out permanently to go to school (ie live away all year long for four years) or take a year long vacation, it doesnt...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2021, 11:16 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 502
Posted By rockscan
No. Do not agree to this. Modify it to ...

No. Do not agree to this.

Modify it to

Both parents will contribute their proportionate share of post secondary expenses. Post secondary expenses are defined as tuition, books, equipment,...
Forum: General Chat 01-14-2021, 09:10 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 250
Posted By rockscan
Has the lawyer filed the necessary paperwork? ...

Has the lawyer filed the necessary paperwork?

Remember your partner is not the only client this lawyer has. They could be dealing with court dates for others.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2021, 06:42 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 239
Posted By rockscan
His lawyer is trying to bully you into agreeing....

His lawyer is trying to bully you into agreeing. Let him pay his lawyer for a ridiculous motion. The onus is on him to prove the change and quitting his job isnt a material change.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2021, 03:32 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 311
Posted By rockscan
I should have elaborated. Read the cases and see...

I should have elaborated. Read the cases and see what the judge said/facts of the case. Decisions are a good indicator of the ability of the lawyer. A judge is not afraid to write down that a lawyer...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2021, 02:28 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 239
Posted By rockscan
He cant fight for status quo as he is not...

He cant fight for status quo as he is not following an existing order. If he wanted to get status quo he would have had to have you agree to him taking the child for 50/50. You have objected every...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2021, 02:25 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 311
Posted By rockscan
I would also suggest looking through canlii.org...

I would also suggest looking through canlii.org for cases in Ontario/Toronto and the successful lawyer. You can also check rate lawyers on Google as some of those show people who make comments about...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-13-2021, 09:59 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 959
Posted By rockscan
You have a 99% chance of not getting back...

You have a 99% chance of not getting back together and in the time away she can put in place financial protections that screw you.

Not to mention what happens if she has someone in mind and she...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-12-2021, 11:02 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 959
Posted By rockscan
She could also be lying to you until she gets out...

She could also be lying to you until she gets out of the house. Seriously dude, you need to get a grip and move forward.


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Forum: Financial Issues 01-12-2021, 08:20 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 959
Posted By rockscan
You said your ex checked out several years ago...

You said your ex checked out several years ago and has only stayed the last few years for the kids. Then you talk about control and personality traits she didnt like. You need to accept the fact...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2021, 06:45 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 119
Posted By rockscan
It wasnt announced today. More than likely...

It wasnt announced today.

More than likely they are still hearing cases remotely/electronically so dates will probably not change.

Call the clerks office tomorrow just to double check but I am...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2021, 06:34 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 239
Posted By rockscan
Are you in a province that has enforcement...

Are you in a province that has enforcement agency? If so, file your order with them for enforcement.

Remember that you need to have proof he is underemployed. Put together some examples of job...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2021, 06:29 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 502
Posted By rockscan
Well you could simply say no and put him on...

Well you could simply say no and put him on ignore. If he is not providing proper disclosure you can file a motion for disclosure in the court.

If anything I would be telling him you want to see...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2021, 02:01 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 239
Posted By rockscan
Involving the police is never a good idea. As for...

Involving the police is never a good idea. As for the urgent motion, the judge is right it can wait.

Right now the only thing you can do is document. Send him an emailing outlining that his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2021, 12:18 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 311
Posted By rockscan
Do you qualify for legal aid? Sent from...

Do you qualify for legal aid?


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Forum: Financial Issues 01-11-2021, 08:41 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 959
Posted By rockscan
Ask about equalization and the idea of making a...

Ask about equalization and the idea of making a lump sum payment in lieu of getting a share of her pension.

And stop focusing on her relationship with a new man. Its counter productive and really...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-11-2021, 05:36 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 959
Posted By rockscan
I think there is more to this than what was...

I think there is more to this than what was posted. Bottom line, he needs to focus on what he needs to put together for an agreement and get some therapy for the emotional stress.

Word of warning...
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