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Forum: Financial Issues 08-31-2012, 08:18 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 2,506
Posted By mattine
I am not asking whether she is eligible...know...

I am not asking whether she is eligible...know that.

Any advice on uncovering a lie - proving cohabitation... totally different question.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-31-2012, 05:08 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 2,506
Posted By mattine
Proving cohabitation - impact on SS

Hi all,

So my partners ex has been living common law since she left marital home just over 2 years ago. She left marriage to be with this person. My partner has been paying SS to her. In Sept, a...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-30-2012, 02:16 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,809
Posted By mattine
Spousal Support and repartnering

Anyone have any cases that can rely on with regards to awarding spousal support in cases where ex partner leaves marital home to live with new relationship. thanks
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2012, 04:11 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,160
Posted By mattine
btw...I totally agree - IF access was 50-50 as he...

btw...I totally agree - IF access was 50-50 as he wants, than I fully agree that she can do what she so pleases with her daughter in terms of care when it is on her time as he would on his. THAT is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2012, 04:05 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,160
Posted By mattine
There is NO regular access schedule as her work...

There is NO regular access schedule as her work schedule and his work schedule varies week to week SO access schedules need to be determined month by month with HER not disclosing her schedule...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2012, 12:10 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,160
Posted By mattine
Not following endorsement of dad being primary caregiver

Hi,

Have a case of a narcissistic ex wife that thinks she is above the law. In late June we had a private court meeting with a judge. At the start of the session he read out his endorsement - a...
Forum: General Chat 06-27-2012, 07:42 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,961
Posted By mattine
Congrats. The fight is exhausting. I do believe...

Congrats. The fight is exhausting. I do believe the "other side" hopes that we will just give up. But good for you for persisting in your child's interests.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2012, 07:38 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 691
Posted By mattine
Nope, weekday overnight schedule could be...

Nope, weekday overnight schedule could be arranged on dads days off so that dad available for after school, evening and morning. Her big thing is one "bed" during school, just visits with dad. and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2012, 10:01 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 691
Posted By mattine
Weekday Overnights

Anyone have research on the effects - positive or negative - of children staying overnight during the week (school nights) at the non-primary parents (dad's) home. Trying to look at the evidence to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-16-2012, 09:12 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 671
Posted By mattine
Fathers Day

Hi,

So its Fathers Day tomorrow and my husband has to work until 5p.m., latest 6p.m. We are having a Fathers Day dinner at our house for my husband, my dad and my husbands dad. He has asked his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-21-2012, 10:32 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 4,728
Posted By mattine
Old post I see...but how did this go? My partners...

Old post I see...but how did this go? My partners lawyer is considering having him apply for OCL. Worth it? I guess my biggest fear is that his ex wife has brainwashed his daughter with BS about us...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-17-2012, 07:39 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,971
Posted By mattine
And btw...she has been cohabitating since she...

And btw...she has been cohabitating since she left him. Her common-law partner I don't think has benefits either. But I agree. You left....you deal with your own welfare.

AND - his daughter is on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-17-2012, 07:36 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,971
Posted By mattine
No divorce order yet (hence why we are still...

No divorce order yet (hence why we are still engaged!) He has been trying to get a written agreement done with her...some progress under way. My guess is she is going to insist that an order be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-16-2012, 09:03 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,971
Posted By mattine
Thanks for all the great feedback - especially...

Thanks for all the great feedback - especially that she can pound sand! He kept her on his union benefits as per his lawyers recommendation for short term basis so not to seem kind sorta speak. He...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-16-2012, 03:04 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,971
Posted By mattine
Benefits - is ex wife eligible

Hello, My fiance is being offered a new job - where he will be granted benefits. His ex wife thinks she has rights to be on his benefits. Does she?

I have my own benefits through work BUT I why...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-09-2012, 10:35 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 8,125
Posted By mattine
Am I reading this correctly...if a father claims...

Am I reading this correctly...if a father claims the mother had an affair....this could be helpful in his case for joint custody??
Forum: Financial Issues 05-09-2012, 09:30 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 3,068
Posted By mattine
Where did you get the information re: more than...

Where did you get the information re: more than $100? Do you have a source? I always wondered if there was an amount...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2012, 04:15 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,681
Posted By mattine
Question....what income do you base offer on? 1)...

Question....what income do you base offer on? 1) Average Income during marriage 2) Highest income during marriage or 3) Current income (separated for 2 years now)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2012, 04:00 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,681
Posted By mattine
Why was she granted? Well the moment he took a...

Why was she granted? Well the moment he took a job out West for a short contract after she left the marital home and started to make a significant amount of $$$, her greed set in and she filed a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-08-2012, 03:35 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 901
Posted By mattine
We have this book....a great read for our...

We have this book....a great read for our children who are 4 and 5.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2012, 03:33 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,921
Posted By mattine
She told me herself one day with full sincerity...

She told me herself one day with full sincerity like it was ok to say and provides an excuse for her ridiculous behaviour....that she is a possessive person, and that she possesses all her belongings...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2012, 03:23 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,921
Posted By mattine
He will never be able to change her point of...

He will never be able to change her point of view, EVER. All he can do is anything and everything for the child.

She is using intimidation to scare him. "most fathers don't get that much...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2012, 03:16 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,921
Posted By mattine
agree with all of above!!

agree with all of above!!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2012, 03:14 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,921
Posted By mattine
We do have documentation on alienation - two...

We do have documentation on alienation - two cases are in an affidavit. One whereby she refused for me to pick up her daughter and one whereby she refused my partners mother (his daughters...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2012, 03:07 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,921
Posted By mattine
Have read and have tons of articles on shared...

Have read and have tons of articles on shared parenting e.g. Kruk. Who would you present that to? Because she isn't interested. She has said she has read otherwise.
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