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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-08-2021, 11:00 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 494
Posted By Janus
If it goes before a judge, you will lose. Not...

If it goes before a judge, you will lose. Not only will you have to pay your proportionate amount of the child care, but you will have to pay costs as well.

I often use words like "probably" and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-08-2021, 06:53 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 494
Posted By Janus
Child care for employment purposes is an S7...

Child care for employment purposes is an S7 expense. Presumably you will ask for receipts, and you will have to pay for your proportionate share. I would not waste time disputing this, you will...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-08-2021, 06:45 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 603
Posted By Janus
As a general rule, I think it is best to avoid...

As a general rule, I think it is best to avoid giving legal advice to your opponents.

If she goes to court with a weak case now and loses, she is less likely to try again in a few years.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-08-2021, 09:12 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 603
Posted By Janus
I wonder if you can set up your ex for contempt. ...

I wonder if you can set up your ex for contempt.

1) Tell ex (in writing) you intend to exercise your parenting time as per the court order.

2) Send her the relevant paragraphs of your court...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2021, 11:23 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 603
Posted By Janus
Generally speaking I am not a fan of calling the...

Generally speaking I am not a fan of calling the police, but I'll let other people speak to that.

Try not to be angry with your child. I'm not sure what to say, my gut feeling would be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2021, 11:11 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 603
Posted By Janus
You are not an idiot, this is a serious...

You are not an idiot, this is a serious situation.

The police will not do anything, so be prepared to contact a lawyer rapidly. Do not try and "work this out". Contact a lawyer tomorrow...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-31-2021, 04:39 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,651
Posted By Janus
Yeah, I more or less think that trueblue cannot...

Yeah, I more or less think that trueblue cannot be a real person with a real story. Nobody has that much entitlement.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-31-2021, 04:36 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,100
Posted By Janus
Also, kids deal with radical rule changes...

Also, kids deal with radical rule changes regularly:

School does not have the same rules as home.
Gym class likely does not have the same rules as english class.
Grandparents do not have the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-26-2021, 07:03 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 361
Posted By Janus
If one spouse refuses to sign the separation...

If one spouse refuses to sign the separation agreement, then you do not have a separation agreement.

Assume that you will need a trial, and start acting accordingly.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-26-2021, 06:57 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 150
Posted By Janus
1) Has it been a least one year since the later...

1) Has it been a least one year since the later separation date?
2) Have you already completed equalization?

If the answer to both of those questions is yes, then the disagreement over the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-26-2021, 06:55 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,100
Posted By Janus
It seems like you are drawing a very arbitrary...

It seems like you are drawing a very arbitrary line in the sand.

I would just relax the iPad rule on the first day back. Make that the rule. ("You are allowed x minutes of iPad time on the day...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-07-2021, 08:21 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 433
Posted By Janus
Currently, you have zero nights, correct? If...

Currently, you have zero nights, correct?

If so, 50/50 is not going to happen.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-07-2021, 08:20 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 433
Posted By Janus
In other words, this is entirely up to the...

In other words, this is entirely up to the mother. She can deny sleepovers because her psychic told her that it would be bad for her chakra.

For now, just keep on asking nicely. Document...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-07-2021, 08:08 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 279
Posted By Janus
I don't think you need to sign up for BAA on your...

I don't think you need to sign up for BAA on your time. Let the other parent work it out. Find some home day cares that would only charge on the ex's weeks.

Then I would offer to pay the...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-07-2021, 08:05 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 692
Posted By Janus
Every line of this is important.

Every line of this is important.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-07-2021, 08:03 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 433
Posted By Janus
Are you entitled to sleepovers or is this a...

Are you entitled to sleepovers or is this a favour from the mother?
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-07-2021, 07:42 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,937
Posted By Janus
I'm curious to know which "less dangerous...

I'm curious to know which "less dangerous variants" you speak of.



How do you define gene therapy?

Anyhow, your antivax position is pretty doomed, from the case cited:
Forum: Financial Issues 06-29-2021, 11:57 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 996
Posted By Janus
How do they get caught? It seems like it would...

How do they get caught? It seems like it would be so easy to fake.

Also, submitting a fake NOA to the courts seems like a crazy risk.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2021, 11:56 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 739
Posted By Janus
I don't understand all the kerfuffle here. ...

I don't understand all the kerfuffle here. Mothers make these ridiculous offers to fathers all the time ("give me custody and you won't have to pay child support"). Nothing bad ever seems to...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-29-2021, 03:37 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 996
Posted By Janus
Easier to provide a fake NOA if you only give...

Easier to provide a fake NOA if you only give line 15000. It gives the appearance of having something to hide. If there was some gain to you in hiding this information, I would say go for it. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-28-2021, 11:51 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 275
Posted By Janus
Also, the real real answer is "whatever your ex...

Also, the real real answer is "whatever your ex wants" because honestly it will hardly make a difference. This is not a hill to die on.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-28-2021, 11:50 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 996
Posted By Janus
What could your ex do with the information...

What could your ex do with the information contained in the NOA? Assume your ex is evil, what line could provide information that could be used to harm you?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2021, 11:44 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 486
Posted By Janus
Agreements are not unlocked, they are either...

Agreements are not unlocked, they are either valid or they are not. Assuming there was full disclosure in 2019, that sounds like a valid agreement.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2021, 11:42 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 806
Posted By Janus
Clearly state that you disagree with her decision...

Clearly state that you disagree with her decision because it is not in the best interests of your child.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2021, 11:36 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 324
Posted By Janus
You are thinking that this happens in sequential...

You are thinking that this happens in sequential steps. It does not, it happens all at once.

Eg.

You have a pension worth $200k
He has a pension worth $100k
Together you have a house worth...
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