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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-10-2019, 05:00 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 744
Posted By DDM
My son is 40. He has not seen his son since...

My son is 40.

He has not seen his son since Feb. He is very reluctant to visit in an Access Centre as he feels it sends the wrong message tonhis son - that he is not safe alone with his Dad, that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-10-2019, 04:36 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 744
Posted By DDM
No one actually insisted or requested this...

No one actually insisted or requested this clause. It was the decision of the arbitrator. My son had asked for non-supervised access. His wife asked for Access Centre supervision.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-10-2019, 04:30 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 744
Posted By DDM
I'm sorry for the confusion. My son has asked me...

I'm sorry for the confusion. My son has asked me to help him find the information. This is the same case I posted about in Oct.2018. It is never ending. If I remember the last I posted, my son was...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-10-2019, 01:58 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 744
Posted By DDM
Who would be "Qualified Professional"?

I am seeking to extend my visitation with my son. My ex and I attended Parent Coordination and were unable to come to an agreement. We got an Arbitration Settlement that stated:

"The Father shall...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2018, 05:56 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 973
Posted By DDM
That is a fair question iona. My son and I have...

That is a fair question iona. My son and I have both been researching. At this point mostly looking for advice or how to proceed and information about how the whole system works. He has also reached...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2018, 01:05 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 973
Posted By DDM
OK maybe I'm confused or unclear. My...

OK maybe I'm confused or unclear.

My reading of the arbitrated decision is - once a home assessment is complete and is positive towards my son, he then is allowed his extended time.
Is that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2018, 12:55 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 973
Posted By DDM
Do you think a motion to change parenting time...

Do you think a motion to change parenting time would be granted without a home assessment? Should we have a home assessment done anyways to support our position? What are your thoughts?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2018, 11:50 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 973
Posted By DDM
Thank you rockcan & iona for chiming in. If he...

Thank you rockcan & iona for chiming in. If he was to submit a motion to change, would it be just a motion to change the supervision of his 'parenting time' or would the motion also ask for change to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2018, 07:29 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 973
Posted By DDM
There was never a court order up until 2013. In...

There was never a court order up until 2013. In 2012 they agreed to mediation. After 6 months and 3 retainers my son ran out of funds and was unable to complete the process. In January 2013 there was...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2018, 12:54 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 973
Posted By DDM
Just wanted to add, over the years my son has...

Just wanted to add, over the years my son has always brought his son to my house on his visitation day but has on countless occasions has been without my direct supervision. He takes him to shows,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2018, 12:44 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 973
Posted By DDM
Thank you Janus for your reply. My son has...

Thank you Janus for your reply. My son has actually not complied with her restricted access yet. Should my son challenge her and demand his access as provided? If he did, would that force her to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-28-2018, 05:39 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 973
Posted By DDM
I should add the reason for my question is my son...

I should add the reason for my question is my son (with my knowledge) spent a day this summer at the beach with his son. His mother (the ex) said it was a breach of the access agreement and has...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-28-2018, 04:14 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 973
Posted By DDM
Supervised visitation: Using my Discretion

As the named supervisor for my son's and grandson's visitation for the last 8 years, what discretion (if any) do I have regarding the level of supervision? If I feel there is no concern for the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-10-2014, 02:36 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 932
Posted By DDM
Thanks for your replies. I do pay child...

Thanks for your replies.
I do pay child support. My access to date has been very little. Our original separation agreement due to my son's age (5 mon) was every Sunday 8am to 8pm. Because he was...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-10-2014, 11:36 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 932
Posted By DDM
Denied Access - where to start?

I have been divorced for 4 years. I have 1 son age 5. Over the last 4 years my ex has withdrawn my access three times. The 1st time I waited her out and after many months she relented and allowed me...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-05-2013, 06:29 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,228
Posted By DDM
Brain cramp, what can I say? I read 'shuffling...

Brain cramp, what can I say? I read 'shuffling btw lawyers' . Missed the reference to our lawyers.

What are you suggesting - arbitrator would try and asses who is more likely to contest his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-05-2013, 05:37 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,228
Posted By DDM
I hope he is. I am beginning to have some doubts...

I hope he is. I am beginning to have some doubts about this guy's competence.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-05-2013, 05:03 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,228
Posted By DDM
The agreement does not say anything about...

The agreement does not say anything about supervised visitation. My ex used her 'discretion' to impose that stipulation a year ago. Then the stipulation was my mother was to supervise for the day. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-05-2013, 10:51 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,228
Posted By DDM
Our existing agreement is part of our separation...

Our existing agreement is part of our separation agreement. Our son was only a few months old at the time of our separation. The agreement states I am to have access for a minimum on 1 day a week...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-05-2013, 10:40 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,228
Posted By DDM
Sorry, double post

Sorry, double post
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-05-2013, 04:59 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,228
Posted By DDM
Arbitrator AWOL - Need Help

I signed a Mediation/Arbitration contract a year ago, along with my ex, to try to develop a parenting plan regarding access to my son. In December my ex requested the process go to arbitration. We...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-10-2013, 07:43 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 557
Posted By DDM
Can no longer afford mediation bills.

My ex and I started mediation over access almost a year ago. From what info I could gather I was under the impression I would be looking at around $2,500 to complete the process. I do not make a lot...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-25-2012, 11:33 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 7,914
Posted By DDM
Yike! Tough crowd but that's OK. I'm certainly...

Yike! Tough crowd but that's OK. I'm certainly not here to find support for smoking weed. I have no problem quitting if that what it takes to have more access to my son. It's just something I do now...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-24-2012, 01:47 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 7,914
Posted By DDM
Parent Coordinator requests drug test

My ex and I have been working with a parent-coordinator to establish an access plan. A year ago my ex and I had an altercation when I went to pick up my son, who is 3. She contacted her lawyer, made...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-28-2012, 06:12 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,443
Posted By DDM
Thanks for the reply. I am quite sure my ex will...

Thanks for the reply. I am quite sure my ex will expect the coordinator to back her 100% in her attempt to restrict my access. She recently remarried and I know she would like nothing more than for...
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