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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-12-2012, 01:48 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 4,790
Posted By HatesCheaters
Help with form 8A

Looking for final advice on form 8A.

Ex and I have signed separation agreement in place for last 3 years(both had legal representation). All custody (50/50), property, finances and support (CS...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-13-2010, 11:44 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,497
Posted By HatesCheaters
Thanks IMANEX. So I found this form (8A) on...

Thanks IMANEX.

So I found this form (8A) on the Ontario Attorney General Web website (http://www.ontariocourtforms.on.ca/forms/family/08a/FLR_08A_Jun1507_ODA.pdf).

On this link (Ministry of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2010, 12:48 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,497
Posted By HatesCheaters
Basic process question

6 months ago, my EX and I finalized and signed our separation agreement (including parenting plan - 1 Child) after many months of mediation and lawyer BS.

At that time, I asked my lawyer what it...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-05-2010, 01:49 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 912
Posted By HatesCheaters
He doesn't want to sell the house, he just wants...

He doesn't want to sell the house, he just wants you to leave.

Do you have equity in the house? If so, ask him how much of the equity (that he put towards the purchase) that he wants to hand...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-22-2009, 01:52 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 7,668
Posted By HatesCheaters
I would be very hesitant to use something like...

I would be very hesitant to use something like this to give you anything more than a WAG (wild ass guess). You can view the simple calculations that it makes by clicking View | Source on your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-22-2009, 01:29 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,742
Posted By HatesCheaters
I wouldn't approach this as a problem but as an...

I wouldn't approach this as a problem but as an opportunity. Those of us with 50/50 and who both have Christmas morning as the main tradition, have our kids every other year for opening of the...
Forum: General Chat 12-17-2009, 01:38 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,404
Posted By HatesCheaters
You are far too generous to refer to these as...

You are far too generous to refer to these as "posts". She was using this site as her personal daily blog / rant space. Every issue that was posted by others for advice was about her and had to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-10-2009, 11:56 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 2,346
Posted By HatesCheaters
12.67 posts per day since joining 19 Nov. Each...

12.67 posts per day since joining 19 Nov. Each and every day. Are you kidding me? Most posts are ridiculously contrived guesses and the result is a saturation of BS in an otherwise very useful...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-04-2009, 01:55 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,444
Posted By HatesCheaters
My view on divorce is when both parties "tie"...

My view on divorce is when both parties "tie" then it was a success. The relationship is over and both parties move on with financial/parenting issues mutally addressed. Congrats on your "victory"...
Forum: Common Law Issues 12-04-2009, 01:40 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,865
Posted By HatesCheaters
I completely understand where you are coming...

I completely understand where you are coming from. You are their parent just as she is. There should be no difference in determining access. It should automatically start at 50/50 and then be...
Forum: Divorce Support 12-01-2009, 01:32 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 3,007
Posted By HatesCheaters
My take on this is that it relates to your...

My take on this is that it relates to your pension and if anything like mine, the payout was worth more that what I had invested in the house. The date of separation is the key date for pension...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2009, 04:51 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 17,377
Posted By HatesCheaters
Agree with the others. Clothing is part of CS. ...

Agree with the others. Clothing is part of CS.

Are you also paying spousal support? Have you signed a formal separation agreement? If not, are your Net Disposable Incomes close? For sake of...
Forum: Common Law Issues 08-27-2009, 09:34 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 3,076
Posted By HatesCheaters
Now is the time to document everything in precise...

Now is the time to document everything in precise detail. Every phonecall, every time you spend with them, how long, whether or not you were denied access, requests for more access, .... everything....
Forum: Financial Issues 08-25-2009, 09:35 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 5,930
Posted By HatesCheaters
Now my new favorite quote. Thanks Bill!

Now my new favorite quote. Thanks Bill!
Forum: Introductions 08-20-2009, 11:09 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 3,444
Posted By HatesCheaters
As I said, if it is a free service for parents...

As I said, if it is a free service for parents and you allow lawyers, mediatiors, pension actuaries, home appraisers, and everyone else who profits from divorce to buy ads on the site, then it should...
Forum: Introductions 08-19-2009, 04:46 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 3,444
Posted By HatesCheaters
Just a suggestion. Keep it free for parents to...

Just a suggestion. Keep it free for parents to use and charge lawyers to advertise on the site. God knows we pay them enough anyways.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-19-2009, 04:34 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,476
Posted By HatesCheaters
Double dipping caselaw can be viewed through...

Double dipping caselaw can be viewed through CANLII. Search for Boston v. Boston (2001).
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-17-2009, 04:34 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,944
Posted By HatesCheaters
IMO, the man is making a clear decision that his...

IMO, the man is making a clear decision that his new wife as his daughter's expense. Lower paying job, 7 hours away from his daughter to be near his new wife??? Sorry. Gotta call a spade a spade.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-16-2009, 02:36 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,388
Posted By HatesCheaters
First caution is the use of the term "legally...

First caution is the use of the term "legally separated". From your account, since you have nothing signed with independent legal counsel, you are legally married and "separating". My lawyer always...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-15-2009, 08:26 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,750
Posted By HatesCheaters
Just trying to understand the situation here. ...

Just trying to understand the situation here. Your partner and his wife split seven years ago with two kids involved (16 and 21 at the time). Never have signed a formal separation agreement. He...
Forum: Introductions 08-13-2009, 12:56 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,540
Posted By HatesCheaters
I've been down this road in my own M. My...

I've been down this road in my own M. My recommendation would be for you and your sister to check out the website survivinginfidelity.com and go to their forums. Excellent advice from both sides of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-13-2009, 12:29 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 7,187
Posted By HatesCheaters
Legal Definition of Without Prejudice...

Legal Definition of Without Prejudice (http://www.duhaime.org/LegalDictionary/W/WithoutPrejudice.aspx)
http://www.williamsandcompany.ca/documents/Jan08withoutprejdueice.pdf

I'm not a legal...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-12-2009, 11:53 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,123
Posted By HatesCheaters
I can't help but feel that if the sexes were...

I can't help but feel that if the sexes were reversed in this case and the situation were identical, the system would ensure that he got screwed good for taking her stuff, kicking her out on the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-12-2009, 12:55 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,399
Posted By HatesCheaters
Court costs

Would normally spend hours researching this type of thing but am becoming battle weary with all of the divorce BS, so I seek your collective knowledge and expertise.

Have a lot of stuff now being...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-07-2009, 01:14 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,497
Posted By HatesCheaters
Maybe I am misreading your previous post, but I...

Maybe I am misreading your previous post, but I don't believe your husband's request for 50/50 with the kids is an attempt to "punish" you. I think that having an active father in a child's life is...
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