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Forum: Financial Issues 03-31-2016, 10:26 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 612
Posted By kamkatie
CS for International Student?

Looking for some advice and opinions on how we handle the below situation:

D20 lives in Nova Scotia with mother. She has completed one year of post-secondary (a program in Ontario while they still...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2015, 03:55 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,676
Posted By kamkatie
In this instance, I would not recommend...

In this instance, I would not recommend withholding permission to travel, however, I doubt I'd be willing to pay for it! :rolleyes: There's not much point in throwing comments like "being afraid to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2015, 03:27 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,676
Posted By kamkatie
My husband and I have been through this. His...

My husband and I have been through this. His daughter's at ages 12 & 13 decided (with some "help" from their mother) to no longer have anything to do with us. We continued to pay support and special...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-16-2015, 11:47 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,085
Posted By kamkatie
Support Payer Unemployed - What To Do?

Divorced 8 years
Both remarried
2 children - D13 and S9
Registered with FRO
Child Support Only (no spousal)


Ex was laid off from a union factory position in September 2014 - he received...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-04-2014, 02:26 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 853
Posted By kamkatie
That raises a great point. If the move does...

That raises a great point. If the move does happen, should I be looking at having a new separation agreement drawn up?
Forum: Financial Issues 04-04-2014, 01:52 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 853
Posted By kamkatie
I have always wanted to visit St. Lucia!!! Wonder...

I have always wanted to visit St. Lucia!!! Wonder what the odds of getting the ex to split on flight costs (for the kids only) would be!?
Forum: Financial Issues 04-04-2014, 11:40 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 853
Posted By kamkatie
Thanks for the responses. And damn - looks like...

Thanks for the responses. And damn - looks like St. Lucia is not on the list. Since he's losing his job and has the prospect of employment in the new location, I wondered if he could/should get a...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-04-2014, 10:27 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 853
Posted By kamkatie
Ex Moving Out of Country & Doesn't Want to Pay CS

Background:

Divorced for 8 years
D12 & S9
Both re-married
Ex is losing his union plant job at the end of this year
I have sole custody with EOW for him
I received an email from him...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-21-2014, 12:06 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,575
Posted By kamkatie
thank you!!!!!!!!!!

thank you!!!!!!!!!!
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-21-2014, 11:51 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,575
Posted By kamkatie
The affidavit I swore to when stating his arrears...

The affidavit I swore to when stating his arrears was for the lowered amount, not the amount that is currently listed in the separation agreement. I will very happily sign a 15D to lower the support...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-21-2014, 11:28 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,575
Posted By kamkatie
I'm certainly not in any rush to make a decision...

I'm certainly not in any rush to make a decision on this and want to weigh all the pros and cons. Currently, I think the cons of the decision outweigh any potential pros (if there are any really)....
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-21-2014, 10:52 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 986
Posted By kamkatie
Thanks Arabian (again!). I didn't honestly...

Thanks Arabian (again!). I didn't honestly register to piss him off. The reason behind registering was because I was tired of bi-weekly emails from him ranting about support payments that were also...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-21-2014, 10:44 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,575
Posted By kamkatie
Thank you Arabian. I will definitely use your...

Thank you Arabian. I will definitely use your suggestion.

What about the signing away of rights thing? On the one hand, I have some very definite concerns about what this would do to the kids if...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-21-2014, 10:39 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,575
Posted By kamkatie
He can see the kids whenever he wants. He just...

He can see the kids whenever he wants. He just doesn't bother. Doesn't attend their school events or sports either. Told D8 that he would attend his Christmas concert and then couldn't because he was...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-21-2014, 10:33 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 986
Posted By kamkatie
He never wanted or pursued joint custody. He was...

He never wanted or pursued joint custody. He was never a hands on father and had no interest in being one. He has very firm ideas about what a "woman's place" is in the household, hence why his new...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-21-2014, 10:12 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 986
Posted By kamkatie
Hi FFF thank you for the response. He...

Hi FFF thank you for the response.

He doesn't have to involve a lawyer or the courts if we wants to have the support amounts lowered. If he made a motion for consent to change the CS amounts, I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-21-2014, 09:59 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,575
Posted By kamkatie
Sign Away Parental Rights?

Some quick background: My ex-husband and I have 2 children (D12 & S8) and have been divorced for 8 years. I have sole custody. The relationship wavers between mostly cordial and completely hostile....
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-20-2014, 02:07 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 986
Posted By kamkatie
The kids and I ruined his life - rant

Some back story:

D12 & S8
Divorced for 8 years after short duration marriage
Ex is 3 months behind on support payments
Most recent payment bounced
Support payments are below guidelines
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-18-2013, 09:34 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 885
Posted By kamkatie
Hi Everyone, Thank you for your responses....

Hi Everyone,

Thank you for your responses. We don't want to stop supporting her, but our concern is that they have been less than forthcoming regarding her actual well-being. In response to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2013, 03:57 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 885
Posted By kamkatie
Mental Illness and Adult Children

I'm looking for some advice on how my husband and I should handle the below situation:

Background:
I have 2 children: D11 and S7
Husband has 3 children: D18, D17 and S10.

We have had little...
Forum: General Chat 08-10-2012, 11:22 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 2,262
Posted By kamkatie
blairje2004 - you should be able to avoid paying...

blairje2004 - you should be able to avoid paying any additional costs associated with the child attending school away from home, unless of course the program they are in is not offered at the "local"...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-07-2012, 01:59 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 4,375
Posted By kamkatie
When it comes to children over the age of...

When it comes to children over the age of majority attending post-secondary most judges apply the Farden Factors:

(1) Whether the child is in fact enrolled in a course of studies and whether it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-12-2011, 03:10 PM
Replies: 69
Views: 11,211
Posted By kamkatie
I'd be interested in hearing more about the OCL...

I'd be interested in hearing more about the OCL investigation, how they came to their decision and what happened in cross...

Congratulations on completing the trial phase and on all your...
Forum: Divorce Support 10-06-2011, 09:59 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 27,852
Posted By kamkatie
RIP John. You will be missed. Sillyme, my...

RIP John. You will be missed.

Sillyme, my condolences for losing a friend and thank you for sharing.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-28-2011, 09:55 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 3,685
Posted By kamkatie
Hi ijwitbf, I agree that threatening to...

Hi ijwitbf,

I agree that threatening to re-register is not likely to calm things down, unfortunately, it's also likely the only thing that will make him comply with our agreement. I would be more...
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