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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 03:55 PM
Replies: 23
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Posted By iona6656
To be clear- I don't see anything wrong with him...

To be clear- I don't see anything wrong with him speaking out in frustration and saying it was blown out of proportion.

HOWEVER, playing photo assumption (cause it's fun now that we know the...
Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 03:45 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 131
Posted By iona6656
Power Nine?!??

Power Nine?!??
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 01:01 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 329
Posted By iona6656
True....BUT.... Do we know the mom gave the...

True....BUT....

Do we know the mom gave the police that photo? What if it's what they had (because he was charged with something)? What if his fb photos weren't public, until this morning.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 12:56 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 329
Posted By iona6656
100% agree with you. If she did make false...

100% agree with you.

If she did make false accusations or give the police incorrect information- that there is a no-contact order or access-order in place- her reckoning will come. See the case...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 12:43 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 329
Posted By iona6656
Rocksan- did you notice the picture they were...

Rocksan- did you notice the picture they were using on news yesterday? it looked like a mugshot. Who's to say he isn't known to police and that's why they took it seriously?

Most likely- the mom...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 12:06 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 329
Posted By iona6656
We have no idea what led the mother to say these...

We have no idea what led the mother to say these things. We have no idea what the police knew to issue the alert. Unless someone has the link to the mother speaking to the media or over social...
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 10:09 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 272
Posted By iona6656
why do you feel the need to defend it? Do you...

why do you feel the need to defend it? Do you feel like anything she is saying is objectively true? If they are truly a result of her own actions- then there is no need to defend against any...
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 10:04 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 272
Posted By iona6656
So agree with this. One of the best things...

So agree with this.

One of the best things I've learned about in the last few months of trying CBT is taking responsibility for our emotions- and how profound it is when you realize that you and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-19-2019, 03:20 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 272
Posted By iona6656
hmmm, interesting- re the not speaking so much....

hmmm, interesting- re the not speaking so much. I'm always interested in knowing what happens after the dust settles on the legal custody wars. how do you go on and try to co-parent with a high...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-19-2019, 03:03 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 272
Posted By iona6656
It sounds like you speak with her a lot...is that...

It sounds like you speak with her a lot...is that the case?
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-19-2019, 02:09 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 830
Posted By iona6656
I see what you're saying about the itinerary. I...

I see what you're saying about the itinerary. I would amend it to read as follows:

....

No later than four months before the scheduling of the trip, the parent planning the trip (the "trip...
Forum: General Chat 03-19-2019, 01:45 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 131
Posted By iona6656
Any (Magic) Card Carrying Nerds here?

I have a suspicion there are some magic card carrying, D&D playing nerds here.

It's been years since I've played either. But I find it frustrating that somehow it became cool to be a nerd now (I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-19-2019, 12:15 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 830
Posted By iona6656
https://media0.giphy.com/media/OyfI5ZHOCQcgM/giphy...

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What I anticipated there was that one parent might be more involved in the kids schooling and know the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-19-2019, 10:33 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 830
Posted By iona6656
I don't think it's bad- the idea of it is...

I don't think it's bad- the idea of it is reasonable. But if you have an ex that veers towards being unreasonable- you probably need a greater amount of details and super clear wording on how it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-19-2019, 10:17 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 180
Posted By iona6656
^^what they said. Janus- I'm not sure you...

^^what they said.

Janus- I'm not sure you can unilaterally get the child vaccinated....although. If you have shared custody- I don't think doctors look too closely at Custody and Access...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-19-2019, 10:08 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 830
Posted By iona6656
Rocksan- I like the wording- but I think it's...

Rocksan- I like the wording- but I think it's open to interpretation which is probably why evil-ex interpreted it to her liking.




What about something like the following


No more than...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2019, 06:03 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 554
Posted By iona6656
That actually sounds promising. Iím glad the...

That actually sounds promising. Iím glad the other side has shown some reasonableness- I guess that means you can actually save more in the end. And most importantly reach a resolution that it good...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-18-2019, 08:27 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 268
Posted By iona6656
One of the best things you can do when you start...

One of the best things you can do when you start questioning your lawyer's advice is to seek a second opinion. It will cost you. I sought a second opinion from 3 different lawyers- I paid an avg of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2019, 08:08 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 554
Posted By iona6656
Also- why the hell didn't either parent seek to...

Also- why the hell didn't either parent seek to remove the names- and sub initials to protect the kids' identities. Oh wait- probably because they're BOTH self absorbed pricks gladly trying to run...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2019, 07:49 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 554
Posted By iona6656
why are you attempting mediation? how much is it...

why are you attempting mediation? how much is it going to cost you- not only financially but time as well?

One thing I've learned is that if the other side is unreasonable- and more than that-...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-16-2019, 10:46 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 554
Posted By iona6656
100% agree with all of this. Iíve been...

100% agree with all of this.

Iíve been thinking a lot about how we - as a society- can start protecting women and children (and sometimes men too) better from violence during separation and in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-15-2019, 11:18 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 183
Posted By iona6656
Delays happen. Just make sure he is documenting...

Delays happen. Just make sure he is documenting everything. Print out the emails and responses to the lawyer. Note the date, and times he went to get the testing done, etc etc.

What he needs to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-13-2019, 09:34 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 160
Posted By iona6656
Separate Parenting from Equalization?

Hi guys- sorry to be spamming the board so much lately. But things are starting to ramp up for me- and I'm trying to strategize the best way to deal with my matter moving forward.



Here's...
Forum: Divorce Support 03-12-2019, 02:44 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 197
Posted By iona6656
First off- I'm sorry you're going through this-...

First off- I'm sorry you're going through this- and have been going through this. Especially if you're isolated away from friends or family.

The things you said do sound like emotional and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-12-2019, 02:27 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 385
Posted By iona6656
Get the CAS reports. Just because the files are...

Get the CAS reports. Just because the files are closed doesn't mean the reports are necessarily favourable. My ex learned this the hard way- he claimed in his pleadings and told the OCL that CAS...
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