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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 02:14 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 329
Posted By Janus
To be clear, I know there are some minor...

To be clear, I know there are some minor consequences, but by "actual consequences" I mean "consequences that provide some sort of deterrent value".

I'm willing to bet the BIL's wife didn't spend...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 01:45 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 329
Posted By Janus
You must live in a place where mothers face...

You must live in a place where mothers face actual consequences for false allegations. I would personally love to visit or move to this alternative universe, but I suspect it might violate my...
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 09:19 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 830
Posted By Janus
I noticed that one condition is that the trip...

I noticed that one condition is that the trip must take place outside of the home province. Presumably, this is to avoid the situation where one parent just grabs all of July for giggles by calling...
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 08:49 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 272
Posted By Janus
Hammerdad ranting is even more depressing than...

Hammerdad ranting is even more depressing than you think. If I was going to nominate somebody for the "unflappable award", he would be on the top of the list.
Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 08:14 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 131
Posted By Janus
I once owned a pair of moxes that I sold to some...

I once owned a pair of moxes that I sold to some sucker for ten bucks.

...

(doh)
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-19-2019, 02:59 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 830
Posted By Janus
Good catch on the itinerary clause. You're...

Good catch on the itinerary clause. You're right, that's another discretion clause. I should have noticed that because my ex tried to put one in and I explicitly took it out. That has saved me...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-19-2019, 12:27 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 830
Posted By Janus
I generally assume a certain level of...

I generally assume a certain level of maliciousness from the other parent. Discretion is the root of all evil.
Forum: Divorce Support 03-19-2019, 12:08 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 265
Posted By Janus
Honestly, I would have assumed the presence of...

Honestly, I would have assumed the presence of the camera. Nesting only works if you really get along. Otherwise, it is a plea for conflict from those who feel their life is insufficiently...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-19-2019, 12:00 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 180
Posted By Janus
This is admittedly anecdotal, but I have gone to...

This is admittedly anecdotal, but I have gone to multiple doctors for vaccinations, and nobody ever asked if my ex consented to any vaccinations. Probably because most doctors assume that consent is...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-19-2019, 11:52 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 830
Posted By Janus
Wow. That's really good. Almost separate...

Wow.

That's really good. Almost separate thread with a sticky good.

I would personally be ok dumping the schooling requirement, because such trips will almost always negatively impact...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-19-2019, 10:05 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 830
Posted By Janus
Which means that your partner's clause is...

Which means that your partner's clause is actually terrible.

I've said it before, flexibility has to be algorithmic. Otherwise you are setting yourself up for future fights.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-19-2019, 10:00 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 180
Posted By Janus
Why can't you unilaterally just get them...

Why can't you unilaterally just get them vaccinated?

I would send a message to the ex, saying that you intend to vaccinate them in one months time as per almost universal scientific consensus, and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-12-2019, 09:58 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 248
Posted By Janus
Why were the kids not living with you at this...

Why were the kids not living with you at this time?



How did she "take" him? Did she do this in writing? To this day I don't understand how so many mothers are able to get away with just...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-09-2019, 09:04 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 119
Posted By Janus
This is not your first rodeo, presumably you...

This is not your first rodeo, presumably you should have a better idea of how this works by now.

What is your goal here? Do you want sole custody, primary residential custody, or 50/50 shared...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-07-2019, 04:14 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 830
Posted By Janus
So, what is the new deadline when they miss the...

So, what is the new deadline when they miss the first deadline? Can they choose their two weeks on July 3rd, starting the following day? What happens if both parents miss the deadline? Who gets...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-07-2019, 04:10 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 830
Posted By Janus
I've never understood why any agreements would...

I've never understood why any agreements would ever say anything about new partners. Not the least because any such clause (unless it is related to spousal support) is almost completely...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-06-2019, 02:48 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 830
Posted By Janus
Yes, that is always the case. There are no...

Yes, that is always the case. There are no exceptions. The agreement is going to be used at the worst of times in the future. The absolute-epic-uncompromising lows of the future.

When you guys...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-06-2019, 08:53 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 246
Posted By Janus
What is the drawback of providing the tax info? ...

What is the drawback of providing the tax info?

I feel if you are going to be speaking to a judge, it is best to walk in with a track record of full transparency, even if said transparency was not...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-06-2019, 08:50 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 156
Posted By Janus
I think the formula that is used is: Parent...

I think the formula that is used is:

Parent A: CS for two kids
Parent B: CS for one kid

And then offset those two amounts.

I am in no way implying that the above is fair... but almost...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-03-2019, 04:46 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 533
Posted By Janus
https://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/court-challenges-...

https://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/court-challenges-program-1.3970103



That is where the "rebuttable" part comes into play.



There are parents that pursue sole custody to increase CS, or to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-03-2019, 02:04 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 944
Posted By Janus
Why is that a concern? Are you motivated by...

Why is that a concern? Are you motivated by money? What do you need from him beyond a stable schedule and money?

If he was motivated by money you might think he would be tempted to keep as much...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-03-2019, 01:51 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 533
Posted By Janus
They only act as intervenors in appelate or...

They only act as intervenors in appelate or supreme court cases, they won't help you personally with your case.

...unless you ask nicely, who knows?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-03-2019, 01:49 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 533
Posted By Janus
I guess if the Court Challenges Program is not...

I guess if the Court Challenges Program is not considered government funding, then you might be correct. Except, of course, it is funding that is supplied by the government.



If a black man...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-03-2019, 01:31 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 210
Posted By Janus
From now on, make sure your confrontations are in...

From now on, make sure your confrontations are in writing. Ask for her address in writing, get her refusal in writing. Reiterate in writing that you absolutely do not give her permission to move...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-03-2019, 01:26 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 247
Posted By Janus
I would not count on it. It is tough for a...

I would not count on it. It is tough for a custodial parent to lose custody, but denying access without a court order is a good first step down that road. At a minimum it would probably give your...
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