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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-27-2019, 06:45 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 281
Posted By Asphenaz
My humble advice is that itís time to move on. ...

My humble advice is that itís time to move on. As you said the matter is over.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2019, 10:13 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 157
Posted By Asphenaz
Ditto, and your trial may be postponed if another...

Ditto, and your trial may be postponed if another higher priority trial runs too long adding 6 months to a year more wait.
Forum: General Chat 02-19-2019, 10:08 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 616
Posted By Asphenaz
[QUOTE=kate331;233872]I need your thoughts,...

[QUOTE=kate331;233872]I need your thoughts, prayers, good vides etc as S(4) is in intense care sedated at our local childrenís hospital after a freak sledding accident./quote]

You got it!
Forum: Financial Issues 02-13-2019, 11:14 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 138
Posted By Asphenaz
If she moved out of the home, then the nesting...

If she moved out of the home, then the nesting agreement is no longer valid. I would calculate what you owe in CS and SS and start paying that. Move back into the home, which will help you...
Forum: General Chat 02-11-2019, 01:56 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 595
Posted By Asphenaz
In my case the EX did and still doesn't realize...

In my case the EX did and still doesn't realize it. She treated me poorly to ensure that I wouldn't turn out like other men in her life.

While I don't enjoy the solitude, I do enjoy being...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2019, 01:45 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 422
Posted By Asphenaz
Sounds to me that the onus would be on them to...

Sounds to me that the onus would be on them to prove that the payments were made. IE: request a receipt and bank statement showing regular payments.

They can claim they made the payments but you...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2019, 01:33 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 327
Posted By Asphenaz
If it's post separation, and this is your share...

If it's post separation, and this is your share of the equalization then it's yours.



Again post equalization, the interest is yours. If she buys a house with her money then yes, you will...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2019, 12:56 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 267
Posted By Asphenaz
Good way to view it, and good point.

Good way to view it, and good point.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2019, 12:40 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 535
Posted By Asphenaz
I don't think you're being petty. As many have...

I don't think you're being petty. As many have said, you don't have to reply or even address your ex's concerns. It's difficult to deal with an unreasonable ex, but don't punish your child...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2019, 11:08 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 120
Posted By Asphenaz
Form 31 - Notice of Contempt...

Form 31 - Notice of Contempt (http://ontariocourtforms.on.ca/static/media/uploads/courtforms/family/31/flr-31-e.pdf)

How to prepare an affidavit - Law Society of Ontario...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2019, 10:58 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 417
Posted By Asphenaz
2.5 years of negotiation... YES it's time to...

2.5 years of negotiation... YES it's time to change mediators. If he's payed CS up until a week ago, how was it originally calculated? Is there a drastic change in his income? If not, you could...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2019, 10:41 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 218
Posted By Asphenaz
One of the better pieces of advice from "The...

One of the better pieces of advice from "The List":



Your priority is your safety and the kids. Following that, you are looking at sorting out an SA (separation agreement), that will dictate...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-01-2019, 03:12 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 184
Posted By Asphenaz
Should I have it sent via registered mail, to...

Should I have it sent via registered mail, to have a record? Or just an email / letter would do?

Should I use the proper motion forms?



I have a lawyer on file already. She still has...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-01-2019, 11:38 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 184
Posted By Asphenaz
Ex might move - Can distance = material change?

Hello All,

Long story short, I had week about access for 3 years and after trial went to 2 out of 3 weekends and every wed night. This access has been going on for a year.

Both kids, D12...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-01-2019, 10:50 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 113
Posted By Asphenaz
At 18 he/she is no longer considered a child, so...

At 18 he/she is no longer considered a child, so it might carry some weight.
Personally, I don't think it would hurt to have it, but it probably won't carry that much weight on it's own.

It...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-01-2019, 10:28 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 341
Posted By Asphenaz
How will your daughters have a father, if you are...

How will your daughters have a father, if you are gone and buried? Or a mother in prison? What kind of bliss do you think they have now, wondering when mom will blow up next? Do you want them to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-01-2019, 10:09 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 399
Posted By Asphenaz
Divorce and separation, imho, are just a state of...

Divorce and separation, imho, are just a state of being, at the moment you are separated. So as Janus and Rockscan pointed out, you need legal advice on how much support to pay and how to gain a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-01-2019, 09:45 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 427
Posted By Asphenaz
It usually depends on the judge and how the...

It usually depends on the judge and how the report is written. In my area the judges take OCL report as 'gospel'.

I would be wary of discussing things with the assessor, especially before...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2019, 08:55 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,502
Posted By Asphenaz
The above is the answer to your question. Those...

The above is the answer to your question. Those without 50/50 had to deal with unreasonable ex's who spent money to fight for whatever gain.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2019, 01:39 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 295
Posted By Asphenaz
Another question to ask yourself is how will the...

Another question to ask yourself is how will the ex pay you back the arrears? Not if they can, but what options you have to get them.

Here is an article with examples on how to calculate your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2019, 12:13 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 166
Posted By Asphenaz
Don't be afraid to have them amend it, or to...

Don't be afraid to have them amend it, or to request they add a 'material change in circumstance' to the excepted issues.

In my minutes of settlement we agreed to mobility, passports, schooling...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2019, 11:26 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 182
Posted By Asphenaz
How long have they been living with you? ...

How long have they been living with you?

If your CS were court ordered, you need a new court order to change them. If it's a SA, then if you and the EX agree on the amendment in writing, then...
Forum: General Chat 01-28-2019, 11:15 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 790
Posted By Asphenaz
I do curb-side drop offs, EX will hide behind the...

I do curb-side drop offs, EX will hide behind the door / curtain while kids walk to the house. The kids think it's weird, I get a laugh out of it.
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-28-2019, 10:29 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 324
Posted By Asphenaz
I apologize if I gave wrong advice. My,...

I apologize if I gave wrong advice.

My, not legal, advice was to talk to someone and find out the numbers, and other pitfalls. Then decide if it's worth it.

Over 8 years, there are many...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-28-2019, 09:23 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 596
Posted By Asphenaz
This is just some food for thought. I'm am not...

This is just some food for thought. I'm am not commenting on whether the medication is required or not, nor if the EX is being reasonable or not.

Depending on your childrens age. I found this...
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