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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2019, 03:42 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 354
Posted By Selfrepmom
School Information Email to Ex: ďOur...

School Information Email to Ex:

ďOur children go to XYZ Public School, located in the town of Fukkit. Their phone number is 111-222-3333. You are listed as the father on the contact list and are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2019, 02:10 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 354
Posted By Selfrepmom
In summary, my take on this: -You regularly...

In summary, my take on this:

-You regularly try to communicate/mother/whatever with your ex. If everything was hunky dory this might be ok. But your situation seems to be more high conflict, so...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2019, 01:56 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 354
Posted By Selfrepmom
Why are you doing him favours? You are not...

Why are you doing him favours? You are not together anymore. Stop mothering him and let him and/or his gf get the info for themselves.



Iím with Iona on this one. Who cares if itís your ex or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2019, 10:07 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 354
Posted By Selfrepmom
Why arenít you just instructing the...

Why arenít you just instructing the school/teacher to send dad this info directly? My boyfriendís daughters teacher emails him every week with updates etc. my daughterís school does the same with my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-19-2019, 03:39 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 354
Posted By Selfrepmom
My exís gf did. My daughterís school uses the...

My exís gf did. My daughterís school uses the SeeSaw app, so when she started school last year I gave my ex the sign in info. Lo and behold itís his gf that signed up for it. I think because she...
Forum: General Chat 09-13-2019, 07:46 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 975
Posted By Selfrepmom
I would say once it is clearly defined that you...

I would say once it is clearly defined that you are an item to slowly get into some details where necessary.

Just donít make the mistake I did and not say anything. I was in an abusive...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2019, 07:07 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 488
Posted By Selfrepmom
To answer your original question: It ramped...

To answer your original question:

It ramped up conflict for me big time. But Iíll take some short term conflict over long term peace of mind any day.

For the Fall expenses.... I would go after...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 03:12 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 430
Posted By Selfrepmom
I understand that especially in cases where...

I understand that especially in cases where someone is asking for arrears based on failure to update that it could get confusing on how far to go back, when updates were asked for etc.
Iím hoping...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 03:06 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 430
Posted By Selfrepmom
Yes she said arrears usually take more time...

Yes she said arrears usually take more time because the judge likes to look back and see why it wasnít paid to begin with, when the recipient began asking for payment, etc etc.
She said still ask...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 02:53 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 430
Posted By Selfrepmom
Update: Forked over $300 and spoke to a...

Update:

Forked over $300 and spoke to a lawyer to make sure I am on the right path.

After looking over my material she had no issue supporting my original thoughts to ask for an order to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 09:16 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 1,009
Posted By Selfrepmom
Except she didnít ďlooseĒ sole custody....

Except she didnít ďlooseĒ sole custody. Tunnelight has been going off in this forum for ages, talking like he went all the way to trial and a judge ordered custody stripped from mom and he ďwonĒ.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 07:09 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 1,009
Posted By Selfrepmom
Hey guys I think we found tunnelightís newest...

Hey guys I think we found tunnelightís newest account!
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-06-2019, 02:32 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 414
Posted By Selfrepmom
No pretending here. This had zero malicious...

No pretending here. This had zero malicious intent.

Because her dad for some reason refuses to keep some belongings for our daughter at his house, I quite often end up with duplicates of things...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-06-2019, 01:27 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 414
Posted By Selfrepmom
No, I donít think so. At least I hope not. He...

No, I donít think so. At least I hope not. He wasnít like that to me when we were together, which is part of the reason I got with him. My relationship previous to him was very abusive-verbally,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-06-2019, 12:28 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 414
Posted By Selfrepmom
I think thatís the point heís trying to make. ...

I think thatís the point heís trying to make.

ďOh look at me buying my daughter things. This backpack makes up for the hundreds of dollars I am shorting her every monthĒ

The other great one...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2019, 12:18 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 498
Posted By Selfrepmom
Ew ya I would say the 4 way between you guys and...

Ew ya I would say the 4 way between you guys and your partners is wildly inappropriate in the middle of litigation. Tell him to hit the road.

The only time that would be appropriate would be once...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-06-2019, 12:07 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 414
Posted By Selfrepmom
Dealing With A Nutbar

Good olí back to school drama. This literally is going to sound too ridiculous to be true, but I promise you it is.

Ex bought a backpack for our child a few weeks ago. Ok, cool, thanks for the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-30-2019, 08:37 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 430
Posted By Selfrepmom
Well jeez arenít we a bright ray of sunshine...

Well jeez arenít we a bright ray of sunshine today?

For the record:

1. I would LOVE to have a lawyer. Unfortunately I canít afford one, not even a little bit. I am putting myself through school...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-29-2019, 09:14 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 430
Posted By Selfrepmom
I feel like because it is such a small town the...

I feel like because it is such a small town the court clerks/trial coordinators just have never seen or heard of a situation where a summary judgement is used for CS. Pair that with the fact that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-28-2019, 03:54 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 430
Posted By Selfrepmom
Ya after talking to the trial coordinator I went...

Ya after talking to the trial coordinator I went back into FLICís office.... the lady who works the desk there has always been very nice and helpful. I explained the run around that the trial...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-28-2019, 03:26 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 430
Posted By Selfrepmom
Well Now Iím Confused

Went to the courthouse today to get my affidavit sworn to and book a motion date for a summary judgement.

First I went into the office where they file the applications etc to do my affidavit,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-26-2019, 10:56 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 215
Posted By Selfrepmom
Yes it took quite a while for me. You need to get...

Yes it took quite a while for me. You need to get a verification email (I think?). Tell them to check their junk mail too.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 07:15 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 533
Posted By Selfrepmom
Iíd be thinking these 3 days are an amazing...

Iíd be thinking these 3 days are an amazing opportunity to get your ducks in a row. Put the big girl pants on and take care of business
Forum: General Chat 08-20-2019, 04:52 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 597
Posted By Selfrepmom
Then reword it so it makes more sense to you, and...

Then reword it so it makes more sense to you, and include it in your next offer.

In your exís/his lawyerís eyes though, it probably already does make sense. Iím guessing the clause says...
Forum: General Chat 08-20-2019, 03:59 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 597
Posted By Selfrepmom
This one actually doesnít seem unreasonable.......

This one actually doesnít seem unreasonable.... My interpretation of it is that he knows that you have sole custody (and sole decision making powers) and wants to be able to make **emergency**...
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