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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-15-2019, 11:58 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 468
Posted By tunnelight
Yeah I'm not very good in child support matters....

Yeah I'm not very good in child support matters. I mean otherwise I wouldn't be legitimately paying no child support right now :/ That's why you should ignore what I said and move forward with...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-15-2019, 11:42 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 610
Posted By tunnelight
A material change in circumstances can still take...

A material change in circumstances can still take place following a consent order.

Foot note:

You are right, OP should just continue being nice. Being nice to his ex will give him what he...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-15-2019, 10:05 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 162
Posted By tunnelight
By doing the same thing he's doing and going to...

By doing the same thing he's doing and going to therapy.

When my ex was trying to use alleged fears to withhold access, after I had done EVERYTHING the ex had asked of me, the judge accused her to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-15-2019, 09:53 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 176
Posted By tunnelight
Why do you have to be so difficult, quirky and in...

Why do you have to be so difficult, quirky and in particular with this corporate "3 year plan" B.S. ?? Ex and I went from 72/28 to 50/50 in a matter of one day.

Just let the man see his damn kid.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-15-2019, 09:43 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 123
Posted By tunnelight
Income requirements has always been the case. ...

Income requirements has always been the case. BUT, I have been able to speak to and receive assistance from duty counsel even when I was way overqualified. Some don't ask about income and just help...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-15-2019, 09:37 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 198
Posted By tunnelight
I wouldn't even get to the nitty witty in your...

I wouldn't even get to the nitty witty in your brief.

Persuant to the order of Justice Kilmore, dated Movember 25, The applicant and I agreed to share section 7 expenses given our equal incomes.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 11:27 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 610
Posted By tunnelight
Yes, you are correct. After 150k the tables...

Yes, you are correct. After 150k the tables don't apply. This is mainly for say a father who earns 5 million a year and would have to pay say $30,000 a month in child support. That child support...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-13-2019, 09:48 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 468
Posted By tunnelight
You seriously trying to impute income on a...

You seriously trying to impute income on a summary judgment? lol?

ps. my ex was also a selfrepmom who tried to impute income to me. she took the stand crying after my lawyer made my opening...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 07:41 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 610
Posted By tunnelight
It's not a rant. It's a statement of fact. It's...

It's not a rant. It's a statement of fact. It's indeed what most women do after separation, ever. If it's not through child support, then it's through spousal support. If it's neither of those then...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 07:25 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 610
Posted By tunnelight
Go back and read one of the very first things he...

Go back and read one of the very first things he said :

My ex has custody (given voluntarily due to bad advice) and I have visitation a couple of days every week.

He needs to go back and fix...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 07:17 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 610
Posted By tunnelight
I didn't read anything you wrote but here read...

I didn't read anything you wrote but here read what I'm about to write.

Yeah okay.. take a hike lady!
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 07:05 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 610
Posted By tunnelight
No need. He can just come here and ask. And the...

No need. He can just come here and ask. And the answer is simple.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 06:41 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 610
Posted By tunnelight
You clearly missed the point. If you, the...

You clearly missed the point.

If you, the females, the perceived child support recipients, are claiming that child support is to equalize life in both homes, then why does it have tendency to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-13-2019, 03:52 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 189
Posted By tunnelight
It's his home just as much as it is yours. You...

It's his home just as much as it is yours. You don't own the home.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-13-2019, 03:46 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 703
Posted By tunnelight
Great, be sure to only agree to supervise access...

Great, be sure to only agree to supervise access to the mother after the fact.

Not going to advise on how to address your child questions and concerns they may have as I am more than confident...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 03:37 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 610
Posted By tunnelight
So if there are dads who have to live on couches...

So if there are dads who have to live on couches to pay their CS, and if the ex's hadn't split up argument holds true, then would the child still have been raised in a home where dad would live on a...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2019, 03:31 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 610
Posted By tunnelight
You're in the worst possible bracket for taxes...

You're in the worst possible bracket for taxes and child support. But you know what, you're still making bank.

In all fairness, If your income is over 150K a year, then there really is no table...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-12-2019, 12:31 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 583
Posted By tunnelight
If you truly don't love him then I would just let...

If you truly don't love him then I would just let him know you want a simple divorce. Sell the home 50.50 and move on.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-11-2019, 11:36 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 583
Posted By tunnelight
How long has he known kids for? Do the kids see...

How long has he known kids for? Do the kids see him as a father figure? Will you have any interest in seeking child support from him? Will he have any interest in wanting to see the kids? Do the kids...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-11-2019, 11:16 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 583
Posted By tunnelight
Yes, looks like that was a copy paste error on my...

Yes, looks like that was a copy paste error on my part. Not sure what happened there.

I use this site on a cellphone.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-11-2019, 10:55 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 215
Posted By tunnelight
adjusted based on what criteria? I thought you...

adjusted based on what criteria? I thought you said it was supposed to end?

what was their reasoning in wanting an adjournment? What did the judge say when he/she ordered the adjournment?

So is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-11-2019, 12:59 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 583
Posted By tunnelight
Unfortunately, *This^ is not what the man has...

Unfortunately, *This^ is not what the man has said. *This^ is what you are making up and putting into the guys mouth and feeding into OP's head. Same type of crap that takes place at women shelter...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-11-2019, 12:31 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 583
Posted By tunnelight
The house belongs to both man and woman of a...

The house belongs to both man and woman of a marriage.

Children aren't "your" family, nor are they material property like the house is.

Children are family to both mother and father.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-10-2019, 09:56 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 583
Posted By tunnelight
Yes, you are. It doesn't in any way state "I am...

Yes, you are. It doesn't in any way state "I am doing cocaine." He clearly used the word "was" and is congradulating and supporting someone who broke free from this drug. He knows how hard it can be...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-10-2019, 12:48 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 215
Posted By tunnelight
What does "supposed to" mean ? Did the order...

What does "supposed to" mean ? Did the order specify that it would end in March 2019? Where does the date March come from?



What do you mean cancel? They don't show up to court? Do you still...
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