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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-14-2021, 04:07 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 333
Posted By Brampton33
I dealt with this in my proceedings. Ex was...

I dealt with this in my proceedings. Ex was adamant that it was for the best of the children for me to stay at 5/14. Think she was saying EOW + Wednesdays overnight.

That was the norm from...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-14-2021, 02:15 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 650
Posted By Brampton33
This has been discussed at nauseum with TrueBlue....

This has been discussed at nauseum with TrueBlue.

Child Support: She will get offset. However, there is a chance her income gets imputed at $150,000.

Spousal Support: She will receive for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-09-2021, 07:58 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 336
Posted By Brampton33
Correct, you will not convince me. The basis of...

Correct, you will not convince me. The basis of my posts is based on discussions with a number of reputable lawyers, as well as informed from reading historic posts on this forum. The bar to change...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-09-2021, 05:38 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 336
Posted By Brampton33
Most will tell you that a Final Order, made on...

Most will tell you that a Final Order, made on consent, is next to impossible to change unless there is a significant material change in circumstance. That is what keeps people true to their word on...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-08-2021, 03:46 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 336
Posted By Brampton33
Perhaps I am being nave, but when my litigation...

Perhaps I am being nave, but when my litigation ended, I thought that was it.

The application was filed back in the day and received a court file #. There was a continuing record. I have...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-02-2021, 02:10 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 442
Posted By Brampton33
Also, do not panic. Don't make any rash...

Also, do not panic. Don't make any rash decisions. Don't do any grand gestures thinking you will win her back, such as giving her the house, sole custody, or agreeing to any unreasonable supports. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-02-2021, 11:13 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,275
Posted By Brampton33
There are no mistakes when it comes to...

There are no mistakes when it comes to jurisdiction filing. There is always a reason. Nobody files in the wrong court saying "Ooops", especially a lawyer.

Could be any of the following reasons:...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-02-2021, 09:39 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 797
Posted By Brampton33
Family court is a place where anything goes and...

Family court is a place where anything goes and there are no repercussions. There are no reprimands other than potential costs awards after a trial. But for you to get costs, you have to actually...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-29-2021, 02:32 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 572
Posted By Brampton33
It has nothing to do with "harming" me, but...

It has nothing to do with "harming" me, but rather that she need not be privy to the other information other than Line 15000. My ex need not know the details of RRSPs or whether or not I got tax...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-28-2021, 09:08 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 572
Posted By Brampton33
Exchanging Annual Financial Info

Just wondering what people provide when they exchange their financial information on annual basis. For me, the information is used to calculate child support only.

Do people provide the Notice...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-25-2021, 01:33 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,427
Posted By Brampton33
CS IS easy. It is based on Line 15000 of his...

CS IS easy. It is based on Line 15000 of his last year's CRA Notice of Assessment. Go ahead....give it a try at this link: https://www.mysupportcalculator.ca/calculator
Go ahead. Its easy to...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-24-2021, 11:20 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,427
Posted By Brampton33
For the 501st time TrueBlue.... Child...

For the 501st time TrueBlue....

Child Support: You will receive offset which due to his salary will be a hefty chunk of change. There are many programs on the internet that can be used to...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-23-2021, 09:05 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,427
Posted By Brampton33
For the 500th time TrueBlue..... The house...

For the 500th time TrueBlue.....

The house will be sold. You cannot afford to buy it on your own. It will be sold.

You will receive offset CS as you share equal parenting. Given your ex's...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-22-2021, 09:50 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,427
Posted By Brampton33
No you don't. You are separated and have a...

No you don't. You are separated and have a boyfriend to help contribute to your livelihood, between the 2 of your salaries, you should be able to manage putting a roof over your heads, food on the...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-22-2021, 09:26 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,427
Posted By Brampton33
I am beginning to think that TrueBlue's situation...

I am beginning to think that TrueBlue's situation is not real and its just somebody posting ridiculous posts for a ruse.

If this not a ruse, TrueBlue's lawyer clearly sees free money and is not...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-21-2021, 01:25 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,427
Posted By Brampton33
He makes an insane amount of money, you do not. ...

He makes an insane amount of money, you do not. Your relationship with a man who makes $500k per year (if not more) has ended, and you now have a relationship with someone who does not make even...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-21-2021, 09:37 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 703
Posted By Brampton33
Paying private school for JK/SK is seriously...

Paying private school for JK/SK is seriously unnecessary. Its for those who have money to burn. At that age, kids learn the structure of the classroom and how to get along with people not within...
Forum: General Chat 06-08-2021, 02:44 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 607
Posted By Brampton33
If I can reflect on my time in Family Court, it...

If I can reflect on my time in Family Court, it would be this. The person resisting the change can drag feet without repercussion.

They will ask for extension upon extension. Postpone dates. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2021, 08:57 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 284
Posted By Brampton33
I may not have full knowledge of how this works...

I may not have full knowledge of how this works as it is not applicable to me, however I thought child support was treated on a case-by-case basis when dealing with salaries over $150,000. When it...
Forum: Divorce Support 05-31-2021, 11:29 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 788
Posted By Brampton33
For me, it was clear my ex was trying to gain an...

For me, it was clear my ex was trying to gain an "ally" in her corner to have a professional witness in her corner. Any time the counsellor did not appear to agree with my ex's views, she referred...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-26-2021, 01:44 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 523
Posted By Brampton33
Part of the tidal wave of change is that it is no...

Part of the tidal wave of change is that it is no longer a world where mother automatically gets sole custody and father gets EOW + Wednesdays. That is 1980s talk. In the cited case, the OCL worker...
Forum: General Chat 05-26-2021, 01:20 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 315
Posted By Brampton33
Just read up on collaborative family law. Sounds...

Just read up on collaborative family law. Sounds to me like its really no different than going to a mediator, except that the lawyers involved may be more in tune with family law and how the courts...
Forum: Reference 05-25-2021, 01:53 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 20,120
Posted By Brampton33
This thread is really helpful. Is it well-known...

This thread is really helpful. Is it well-known knowledge that any RESPs opened by extended family "belongs" to child(ren)? My ex is of the opinion that the RESP opened by her family members is...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-24-2021, 10:05 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,407
Posted By Brampton33
Not necessarily a petty behaviour, but more of a...

Not necessarily a petty behaviour, but more of a 'shake my head' moment in my divorce. Ex fought tooth and nail to severely limit my time with kids, which was the focus of our court proceedings. ...
Forum: Political Issues 05-13-2021, 09:13 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,667
Posted By Brampton33
There are better solutions than jailing parents...

There are better solutions than jailing parents for not paying support or taking away their licenses. How does that help? Just adds more animosity to already strained situations.

There are...
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