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Forum: Political Issues 08-01-2012, 03:32 PM
Replies: 301
Views: 52,961
Posted By cbarker78
How dare you!!!!! With all the other...

How dare you!!!!!

With all the other bullshit you spout, you're fairly easy to ignore.... but when you go and make a statement like this.... it gets my blood boiling.

Have you ever been in a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-26-2012, 12:26 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,301
Posted By cbarker78
Your son does not need you (or CP) to "come to...

Your son does not need you (or CP) to "come to the rescue"!!!!!

You want a really simple answer????

HE'S 15 YEARS OLD!!!

It is normal for teens to act out and push their limits - a lot ((not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2012, 03:48 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 4,210
Posted By cbarker78
All around that sounds like a really tough...

All around that sounds like a really tough situation!! Best wishes to her for a quick and peaceful resolution!!

Is there any local friend/family (even if it's his family) that can take the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-25-2012, 03:46 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,460
Posted By cbarker78
^ that.... sounds like you've mostly got...

^ that....

sounds like you've mostly got the relationship stuff figured out, and that's the hard part! Bravo for your ex and gf to be mature & civil with each other - that will be a very positive...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-25-2012, 03:10 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 4,976
Posted By cbarker78
Best wishes!! I agree with prior comments...

Best wishes!!

I agree with prior comments that he's being a total a$$ - and so is your ex! ;)

Hope it's all resolved peacefully and the kids are no longer pawns/messengers.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-25-2012, 02:50 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,460
Posted By cbarker78
with my stbx I became stepmom to his two...

with my stbx I became stepmom to his two daughters.... in the beginning we took things really slow and easy. He was responsible for them, with me in a supporting function.... I took the time to form...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-23-2012, 05:17 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,650
Posted By cbarker78
....but what does your order say about support??...

....but what does your order say about support?? I imagine it would typically have some sort of "end date" to it.....most do education, some do to a certain age.....how is yours worded??
Forum: Divorce Support 07-23-2012, 04:16 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 3,504
Posted By cbarker78
yes.... but that is an extremely GREY area!! ...

yes.... but that is an extremely GREY area!!

The ongoing question that professionals in these fields work with is 'when does one clients own rights outweigh the rights of others (i.e. their...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-23-2012, 04:12 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,650
Posted By cbarker78
.....what does your agreement/court order say?

.....what does your agreement/court order say?
Forum: Political Issues 07-23-2012, 11:34 AM
Replies: 134
Views: 23,646
Posted By cbarker78
I only agree with the high price of lawyers.......

I only agree with the high price of lawyers.... it's insane what this group charges!!!


and those who roll over and die are doing nothing to speed up the process of change ***note*** i am NOT...
Forum: General Chat 07-20-2012, 12:13 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,811
Posted By cbarker78
From the sounds of it, you're on the right...

From the sounds of it, you're on the right track!! Keep up the good work, keep working to improve yourself so that you are a mature & responsible person in your child's life!!

Take some time for...
Forum: General Chat 07-19-2012, 03:46 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,811
Posted By cbarker78
.....keep being calm and respectful!! Don't...

.....keep being calm and respectful!!

Don't lower to her behaviour... rather continue being the mature, responsible adult. Show the court that your child is your primary concern.....

Best...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-19-2012, 03:41 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,638
Posted By cbarker78
do you have 1 child under 6 - because a Child...

do you have 1 child under 6 - because a Child Care Subsidy would not show anywhere on her own personal taxes..... but the UCCB ((Universal Child Care Benefit)) is a payment of $100 per month to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-18-2012, 02:44 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,170
Posted By cbarker78
Best wishes!!! I'm not to far down the 401...

Best wishes!!!

I'm not to far down the 401 from you.... here there is a group called Family Services and it's a group of social workers who do counselling for all sorts of issues.... I used it and...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-16-2012, 01:53 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 2,766
Posted By cbarker78
A step parent paying CS for a non-biological...

A step parent paying CS for a non-biological child really isn't that far fetched.... you enter into a relationship with someone who has children, and you build your own (blended) family unit. As a...
Forum: Common Law Issues 07-12-2012, 02:31 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 6,829
Posted By cbarker78
yeah, I've seen that a lot too PH.... and maybe...

yeah, I've seen that a lot too PH.... and maybe it's partially because my stbx and I are being mature civil adults, I have a hard time figuring out why other adults with much more life experience can...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2012, 02:28 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,785
Posted By cbarker78
no advice, just best wishes for a speedy proper...

no advice, just best wishes for a speedy proper resolution

((hugs))
Forum: Common Law Issues 07-12-2012, 02:10 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 6,829
Posted By cbarker78
How about you do a little homework before making...

How about you do a little homework before making such a WRONG statement!!
PH and I are talking from direct, real life experience, and you have the NERVE to call us useless?!?!?!

Great, yet...
Forum: Common Law Issues 07-12-2012, 12:37 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 6,829
Posted By cbarker78
I live in a border town and cross often into the...

I live in a border town and cross often into the US with my girls.... I've never been asked about them..... even when I'm crossing the border with my boyfriend, there has never been any questions...
Forum: General Chat 07-11-2012, 04:10 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,060
Posted By cbarker78
my "treat" to myself is a glass of wine after the...

my "treat" to myself is a glass of wine after the girls go to bed..... it's my unwind time....
Forum: Financial Issues 07-11-2012, 11:10 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,220
Posted By cbarker78
When my dad would take us on vacation, my mom...

When my dad would take us on vacation, my mom would give my sister and I $20 each for our own spending money ((yes they were divorced, mom was CP, dad was EOW)) It was left up to us to spend it how...
Forum: General Chat 07-10-2012, 02:44 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 3,713
Posted By cbarker78
sorry... truly... it's just the way you had...

sorry... truly... it's just the way you had worded it I had to laugh... after the whole CM experience....LOL!!
Forum: General Chat 07-10-2012, 02:29 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 3,713
Posted By cbarker78
Canary Mom - a former(?) member who liked to say...

Canary Mom - a former(?) member who liked to say loudly and often that us lowly members were not lawyers therefore were not qualified to "assist in her matters"... she was also going to write a book...
Forum: General Chat 07-10-2012, 02:19 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 3,713
Posted By cbarker78
Oh no!! Another CM!!

Oh no!! Another CM!!
Forum: Financial Issues 07-10-2012, 02:17 PM
Replies: 63
Views: 6,082
Posted By cbarker78
not to sound mean or anything... but your other...

not to sound mean or anything... but your other option is to say "fuck it", let it go as a lesson learned, and move forward & build up the life you're living now......

....just saying...
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