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Forum: Parenting Issues Today, 12:09 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 37
Posted By rockscan
Is she a part of your childís life? Does your...

Is she a part of your childís life? Does your child spend time with her? Then let her go and let your child show both their father and their step parent all of the things about their school and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 11:20 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 36
Posted By rockscan
If she wanted to challenge it she would have to...

If she wanted to challenge it she would have to appeal it and that would mean having to meet the conditions of an appeal.

I would tell her lawyer she had an opportunity to challenge the matter...
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 02:38 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 274
Posted By rockscan
As a reason for divorce? Are you serious? If...

As a reason for divorce? Are you serious?

If you and your spouse are unhappy and not destined for a happily ever after, marriage counseling wonít work. If you are worried about going to strip...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 02:36 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 125
Posted By rockscan
No fault divorce in Canada.

No fault divorce in Canada.
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 02:35 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 120
Posted By rockscan
Yes but is your son saying that because of...

Yes but is your son saying that because of bullying by his mom? Some kids feel obligated to keep a parent happy. Perhaps a deeper discussion needs to be had with him. Although he is 15 so he will be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:05 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 173
Posted By rockscan
File a motion to get it moving. My husbandís ex...

File a motion to get it moving. My husbandís ex pulled this stunt. Refused everything. Scheduled meetings and either left after saying her side or didnít show. He finally filed a motion and the judge...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-10-2019, 10:57 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 350
Posted By rockscan
She will have to demonstrate a material change...

She will have to demonstrate a material change which will not be easy to do.

Take a deep breath, remember you are dealing with a difficult person and remember your child.

Whenever she tries to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-09-2019, 02:40 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,479
Posted By rockscan
When he stops getting a reaction he will move on....

When he stops getting a reaction he will move on. As long as he is getting a response he will continue. That includes anything like please contact my lawyer. Until he provides the paperwork to your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-09-2019, 01:34 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,479
Posted By rockscan
Let him send you emails. Ignore them. If it isnt...

Let him send you emails. Ignore them. If it isnt someone you know or a list you are on, delete it. Or change your email address and let the people closest to you know.

You CAN ignore him.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-08-2019, 04:25 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 131
Posted By rockscan
I also say file a motion for support and request...

I also say file a motion for support and request full disclosure of his personal corporate bank accounts as well as copies of any applications for credit including a mortgage.

The reason why is...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-08-2019, 09:48 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 131
Posted By rockscan
Do a search on canlii for self employed income...

Do a search on canlii for self employed income and child support. He canít claim a lot of the expenses for child support calculation. If he files a return and filed an attachment showing income (I...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-07-2019, 05:13 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 150
Posted By rockscan
I thought you had said your ex enables her and...

I thought you had said your ex enables her and isnít doing anything about her behaviour?

I would tell her no if she asks. How she manages this problem is on her and truthfully, maybe an issue like...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-07-2019, 04:50 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 150
Posted By rockscan
I would say no. Do they not have duty counsel out...

I would say no. Do they not have duty counsel out there for minors or unemployed?
Forum: Financial Issues 11-07-2019, 04:03 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 150
Posted By rockscan
Donít trust all the information from a provincial...

Donít trust all the information from a provincial call center and honestly, your posts are confusing so they probably didnít understand it.

You arenít the first or the last parent to get demands...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-07-2019, 03:23 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 150
Posted By rockscan
Your previous thread was about paying for a child...

Your previous thread was about paying for a child who was not in school. Were you provided proof they are in school full time?

All of the other stuff is really not relevant to you. Your...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-07-2019, 02:33 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 150
Posted By rockscan
What does it matter to you what kid puts down on...

What does it matter to you what kid puts down on OSAP. It has no impact on what you pay. Kids portion of the expense is their responsibility and they can use loans to pay it. Having a lower income...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-07-2019, 02:30 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 150
Posted By rockscan
Child support is reported if the RECIPIENT...

Child support is reported if the RECIPIENT receives it. Meaning your ex is receiving cs and is applying for OSAP.

If your CHILD is applying they do not include it as income.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-07-2019, 01:15 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 150
Posted By rockscan
CS is not income. Spousal support is. For...

CS is not income. Spousal support is.

For OSAP the child puts in the income of the parent they live with primarily. That income comes from their taxes.

All the income does is determine how much...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-06-2019, 07:00 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 482
Posted By rockscan
He found it?

He found it?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2019, 02:30 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 383
Posted By rockscan
I am not against abuse victims or attempting to...

I am not against abuse victims or attempting to shame anyone. I was emotionally abused by my parents and my husband was emotionally abused by his ex. I have had years of therapy to identify what is...
Forum: Domestic Violence 11-06-2019, 01:54 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 209
Posted By rockscan
Are you kidding me? If your ex is abusive then...

Are you kidding me? If your ex is abusive then you should be leaving him now. Not waiting for new legislation.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2019, 01:51 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 383
Posted By rockscan
Not relevant to your case. Did they...

Not relevant to your case.



Did they press charges? If not, irrelevant.



You have an actual medical diagnosis yes? You have reported his actions to CAS and the police? You have left the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2019, 12:07 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 383
Posted By rockscan
Everyone says their divorce is high conflict and...

Everyone says their divorce is high conflict and (almost) everyone says their ex is abusive and/or unreasonable.

You can find a junk yard dog lawyer who fights tooth and nail for everything you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-05-2019, 05:18 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 179
Posted By rockscan
Unless he is a threat to your safety then ignore....

Unless he is a threat to your safety then ignore. As difficult as that seems, its not. You should know the people who normally contact you by email so dont open anything from anyone else. Or you can...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-05-2019, 12:07 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 179
Posted By rockscan
You need to put him on ignore and stop reading or...

You need to put him on ignore and stop reading or answering him.

You also need to have your lawyer file the paperwork to move to divorce. Heís not going to sign voluntarily. Stop expecting him to...
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