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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 04:36 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 292
Posted By rockscan
I never said he was noble. Im saying when his...

I never said he was noble. Im saying when his kids come at him saying he did nothing and stole from them and ruined their lives he can tell them he paid his share regardless of his situation or the...
Forum: Financial Issues Today, 04:24 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 34
Posted By rockscan
Do you have confirmation you will be paying ss? ...

Do you have confirmation you will be paying ss?

Do you have off-set with 50/50?

If you have a SS agreement, is there something in it to have your ex become self sufficient?

Donít sacrifice...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 02:03 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 292
Posted By rockscan
Janus, I have a hard time with this myself...

Janus, I have a hard time with this myself considering my husbandís ex makes double his income and his kids arenít suffering. However, having grown up without cs because my father was of the opinion...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 10:32 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 292
Posted By rockscan
This is my mantra and has been for a number of...

This is my mantra and has been for a number of years now. Thanks to a fantastic doctor I have been living this. Itís also a take on the courage to accept the things I cannot control idea.

My...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 03:38 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 292
Posted By rockscan
no child support due to shared parenting clause

Unlikely. Unless the orders were consent agreements not orders they are almost always cs. Its the right of the child and a judge will not agree to no support. Normally those situations are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 10:53 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 292
Posted By rockscan
It doesnít matter what your order says. The...

It doesnít matter what your order says. The prevailing case law on this is DBS at the Supreme Court. Regardless of what your order says, if your income changes you must update child support.

And...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:56 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 292
Posted By rockscan
no child support due to shared parenting clause

If your income goes up significantly then yes. If your incomes are similar then no.

You are currently out of work correct? And your incomes are similar? Thats more than likely why they did the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-21-2019, 02:13 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 167
Posted By rockscan
I think they can still file a response to it...

I think they can still file a response to it either late in court (Ive heard it) or in response to the next date. Not sure though.

Does your ex normally operate this way? You mentioned you had...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-21-2019, 09:24 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 167
Posted By rockscan
From what I understand, at the first appearance...

From what I understand, at the first appearance you can let them know you donít have all the required documents. But they can be ordered at the case conference. The timelines between the two depend...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-20-2019, 09:19 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 765
Posted By rockscan
The gf seems to be causing a lot of the problems....

The gf seems to be causing a lot of the problems. Responds to his messages, insists on her kids getting precedence over his, punishing his kids when theyíve done nothing wrong etc.

Sheís also...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 05:47 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 765
Posted By rockscan
Mom 2 two, stop defending yourself. ...

Mom 2 two, stop defending yourself.

Tunnellight, there is a history to this that you are missing. The judge did not say what you are saying and neither did ocl. Stop looking for things that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 02:15 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 765
Posted By rockscan
It hasnt deteriorated. Dad didnt make an effort...

It hasnt deteriorated. Dad didnt make an effort from the beginning. Now he is claiming deterioration as a reason to get sole custody. The OCL investigator even watched and noted that during a family...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2019, 12:52 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 765
Posted By rockscan
He canít claim a break down when heís the one who...

He canít claim a break down when heís the one who refused to make the effort. Go back and read OP other posts. The ex moved 30-40 mins away and he never participated in events/activities/appointments...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2019, 03:22 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 232
Posted By rockscan
Is this material change?

What was the result of the call to CAS?

The children may be too young to have a say to switch custody. From what I have read and people have said here, 16 seems to be the age they get a say.
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Forum: Financial Issues 06-17-2019, 01:55 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 174
Posted By rockscan
I would think that if you have proof he used...

I would think that if you have proof he used joint funds to renovate the cottage then that would be applicable. If this can proven then you *may* have an argument for not just the money to be paid...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2019, 12:45 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 191
Posted By rockscan
You can say that to them but they may be too...

You can say that to them but they may be too young.

You could tell your ex to have kid call you about camp and leave it at that. Donít attach ďIm not paying if you donít speak to meĒ. My husband...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2019, 11:43 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 191
Posted By rockscan
My husband went through the same thing with his...

My husband went through the same thing with his ex about the calling to pay for things. She used it as disrespect toward the childís feelings and that it was abusive. When she put it in her documents...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2019, 11:39 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 183
Posted By rockscan
Did she have a reaction? Is it against the...

Did she have a reaction?

Is it against the allergy protocol? Didnít he refuse to agree?

I think if she had a reaction I would use it to request a new supervisor since clearly neither one of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-16-2019, 07:45 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 728
Posted By rockscan
Sure send it to me and i will have a look

Sure send it to me and i will have a look
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-16-2019, 06:08 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 728
Posted By rockscan
You request all the things: 1. Arrears to be...

You request all the things:
1. Arrears to be fixed xyz.
2. Child support be terminated for kid xyz.
3. Child support for other kid(s) be set at xyz.
4. RESP documents be disclosed.
5. Full...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-15-2019, 11:38 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 142
Posted By rockscan
Assistant reached out late yesterday to advise it...

Assistant reached out late yesterday to advise it was adjourned.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-14-2019, 07:33 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 354
Posted By rockscan
I played flute clarinet and oboe all provided by...

I played flute clarinet and oboe all provided by the school. We shared the instruments which were cleaned after each use. We also signed them out to take them home and sometimes werenít available. I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-14-2019, 05:44 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 354
Posted By rockscan
I would consider it a section 7 but only IF its...

I would consider it a section 7 but only IF its necessary for her educational path. I took instrument music in school and it was provided by the school. Obviously things have changed in 30 years.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-14-2019, 12:30 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 264
Posted By rockscan
Why donít you work with them to pay it like a...

Why donít you work with them to pay it like a bill? Thats the easiest way and you know there will be no surprise.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-14-2019, 11:21 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 504
Posted By rockscan
Yes if they are living with you then you should...

Yes if they are living with you then you should be able to claim them.

Hopefully kid applied for every grant and subsidy as possible. And that they are paying a portion of the expenses too!
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