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Forum: Parenting Issues 05-23-2019, 12:39 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 230
Posted By StillPaying
If your child has severe health issues which...

If your child has severe health issues which makes her a regular at the emergency room, then all of these are important issues which both parents should be involved with. Even if they're check up...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-23-2019, 10:20 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 921
Posted By StillPaying
Sounds like you're looking for fights and making...

Sounds like you're looking for fights and making this a lot harder than it needs to be. I would ask your parents to do exchanges if it's too much.
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-23-2019, 10:16 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 230
Posted By StillPaying
I'm with dad. Medical appointments are more...

I'm with dad. Medical appointments are more serious and should be attended by both parents. If it's dentist or some other simple appointment, then no need for everyone to attend.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-23-2019, 10:11 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 252
Posted By StillPaying
Assuming your ex is eligible for spousal, if you...

Assuming your ex is eligible for spousal, if you want to get out of this "liability" asap then your best bet would be to come to an agreement, either lump sum or fixed end date. If this goes to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-23-2019, 09:59 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 728
Posted By StillPaying
I was in a similar situation. File your motion...

I was in a similar situation. File your motion to change right away and then talk to FRO to let them know what's happening. You'll have to follow up after each court appearance, but this should...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-16-2019, 11:12 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 739
Posted By StillPaying
If you don't see it through the step child or...

If you don't see it through the step child or high access costs example, just go with common sense. Cs is set at a good portion of your income, higher income equals higher support. If you have 1...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-15-2019, 06:58 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 739
Posted By StillPaying
I'm assuming you guys would be ok with a cs...

I'm assuming you guys would be ok with a cs reduction if there were high travel costs for access, so I'm not sure what's different here. This is not a parent simply arguing the tables are too much;...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-15-2019, 02:47 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 739
Posted By StillPaying
I still think the OP has a good chance at this. ...

I still think the OP has a good chance at this.

When cs is ordered less than guideline amounts due to access travel costs (undue hardship), it doesn't matter if they have cable and a cell phone. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-15-2019, 10:09 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 739
Posted By StillPaying
I don't have case law, but it sounds like you're...

I don't have case law, but it sounds like you're doing the right thing. Compare both homes' standard of living and if you're lower, cs may be lowered as well. It's similar with stepkids getting...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-15-2019, 10:00 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 286
Posted By StillPaying
It sounds like the judge agrees your ex's imputed...

It sounds like the judge agrees your ex's imputed income is too low and that you should be able to bring a motion to get another interim order for increased cs before trial. I would get your motion...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-14-2019, 01:23 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 286
Posted By StillPaying
If it's urgent, you could do a 14b motion asking...

If it's urgent, you could do a 14b motion asking the same judge for permission to bring a motion earlier but it looks like you'll have to wait.

I'm not sure if contempt is the way to go. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-09-2019, 02:31 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 531
Posted By StillPaying
Once you get a case management judge, you'll see...

Once you get a case management judge, you'll see a lot more orders be made at sc/tmc's without consent needed.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-09-2019, 12:03 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 531
Posted By StillPaying
I would be pushing for trial which, depending on...

I would be pushing for trial which, depending on where you are, may be November. You already have an interim imputed income. Plus you're relying on evidence which would need to be cross examined. If...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-08-2019, 08:19 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 531
Posted By StillPaying
I agree with you. If you're going to trial, push...

I agree with you. If you're going to trial, push for $50k. However I would have an offer to settle at 30k to protect myself from cost as that seems to be your worst case scenario.

You can easily...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-08-2019, 11:11 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 531
Posted By StillPaying
Where did the $19k come from? My guess...

Where did the $19k come from?

My guess would be to ask for $50k imputation at trial using the affidavit, and give an offer to settle for $30k.

Although he'll have credibility issues, your...
Forum: General Chat 05-03-2019, 10:02 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 755
Posted By StillPaying
I agree, as that would be reasonable. When one...

I agree, as that would be reasonable. When one spouse takes off without notice, hides the child, and is not communicating then that would make the order made here reasonable as well.

Don't look...
Forum: General Chat 05-02-2019, 01:40 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 755
Posted By StillPaying
You can think everyone is in on it or you can...

You can think everyone is in on it or you can take it for what is said. The judge didn't overreach. He made an order that got everyone back and safe. How does she want 50/50 when she takes off and...
Forum: General Chat 05-02-2019, 11:02 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 755
Posted By StillPaying
I didn't read the whole thing, but definitely...

I didn't read the whole thing, but definitely disagree. My take away was that the dad did exactly what he should have done. If your ex takes off with your child with no warning, you go to the...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-27-2019, 03:13 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 347
Posted By StillPaying
CPPD would get deducted from your LTD payments,...

CPPD would get deducted from your LTD payments, so there wouldn't be extra income besides a small increase each year. However I agree that the review can open possibilities that you may not like. I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-26-2019, 11:35 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 783
Posted By StillPaying
I just wanted to confirm that this was just you...

I just wanted to confirm that this was just you and your lawyer's opinion and not fact or some secret sauce that proves everyone else was wrong about dv. You just hope the judge will agree with you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-25-2019, 12:33 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 783
Posted By StillPaying
The judge will believe you too, but that still...

The judge will believe you too, but that still doesn't change the outcome, and you didn't answer the question.



You came here to say everyone, including all other lawyers you spoke to, were...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-25-2019, 11:53 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 783
Posted By StillPaying
One thing people warn about is lawyers who tell...

One thing people warn about is lawyers who tell you what you want to hear in order to take your money. Perhaps your new expensive lawyer is doing that.

I'm curious how your new lawyer would...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-17-2019, 10:40 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,083
Posted By StillPaying
Based on what was said, I think most evidence...

Based on what was said, I think most evidence supports ex's position:

- always loved, cared for, been present and have great relationship with child
- said something horrible 2 years ago and have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-15-2019, 04:30 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,083
Posted By StillPaying
This is why your ex needs court, and why ex's in...

This is why your ex needs court, and why ex's in general don't control each other's homes. You're all over the place. You are ok with 50/50, but only when he has satisfied your feelings. However, he...
Forum: Divorce Support 04-15-2019, 02:14 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 564
Posted By StillPaying
An experienced headhunter maybe, or an expert in...

An experienced headhunter maybe, or an expert in whatever fields they're in. I'm not sure. I didn't have one so my trial judge could only impute full time minimum wage.
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