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Forum: Political Issues 05-09-2006, 11:00 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 7,279
Posted By Jenny
You start to throw fault into the whole divorce...

You start to throw fault into the whole divorce situation - who gets what, who did what and who didn't do this or that and an ugly time in our lives gets a whole lot uglier.

LV is right- means...
Forum: General Chat 05-09-2006, 10:13 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 6,010
Posted By Jenny
Well I think his choice of words is pretty clear....

Well I think his choice of words is pretty clear. His ego won't let him actually take responsibility for what he said. Only can comment on how we took it. At this point I feel he won't ever do it. I...
Forum: Political Issues 05-09-2006, 10:05 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 7,279
Posted By Jenny
For those of you who feel that adultery should be...

For those of you who feel that adultery should be punishable, I feel the need to ask you if you are ever planning on remarrying or resuming a sexual relationship with someone other then your spouse? ...
Forum: Political Issues 05-09-2006, 09:35 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 7,279
Posted By Jenny
Well had fault been a factor instead of...

Well had fault been a factor instead of compensation as well as income sharing I would have probably done better support wise. As it was I did do well.

I would imagine fault runs both ways. Your...
Forum: Political Issues 05-09-2006, 08:55 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 7,279
Posted By Jenny
We live in a secular society( thankfully!)...

We live in a secular society( thankfully!) adultery is not against the law.

Would you like to start stoning non virgins in the streets? How about people who work on Sundays? Should we choose to...
Forum: General Chat 05-09-2006, 04:12 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 6,010
Posted By Jenny
Well we don't see what he has done as an apology....

Well we don't see what he has done as an apology. The analogy I used was

" I'm sorry i punched you in the face' and "I'm sorry you were upset that I punched you in the face". I personally would...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-09-2006, 04:06 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 4,514
Posted By Jenny
AMEN!!! Do what is best for the child- put aside...

AMEN!!! Do what is best for the child- put aside how it will look for you in court.

I suppose some people can live with themselves and sleep at night knowing that they are ignoring kids being...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2006, 07:49 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,146
Posted By Jenny
you are the one in the drivers seat with your...

you are the one in the drivers seat with your lawyer. I think you need to have a talk with him about what you want from him. He seems like he wants an adversarial way of getting this divorce settled!...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2006, 06:45 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 4,514
Posted By Jenny
There have also been cases where women with...

There have also been cases where women with abusive partners haven't reported child abuse and have lost custody to foster care.

Thank you Grace for posting that.

Like I said earlier - you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2006, 05:39 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 4,514
Posted By Jenny
That was my point exactly. That you CAN'T wait...

That was my point exactly. That you CAN'T wait for rock solid proof.

If you have to you can always make an anonymous complaint as well, but again this isn't always taken as seriously. If it comes...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2006, 04:52 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 4,514
Posted By Jenny
Glad to hear this clarification. See I...

Glad to hear this clarification.



See I don't think that this is possible- since it is a suspicion about someone elses kids- not her own. - We can't grab kids off the street or family members...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-08-2006, 04:39 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,071
Posted By Jenny
Is the student returning for those last 4 months...

Is the student returning for those last 4 months each year? can she move to a smaller place? or does she need to keep that extra bedroom empty during the year. I think what LV is getting at is to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2006, 03:50 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 4,514
Posted By Jenny
It isn't her job to PROVE it. I believe it is her...

It isn't her job to PROVE it. I believe it is her job to REPORT it. I really don't think your advice is clear here.... I think she needs to report it even if it is closed after. CAS's job is to...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-08-2006, 02:55 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,596
Posted By Jenny
LMAO .... what is funny is when I was in...

LMAO ....

what is funny is when I was in highschool I used to watch court cases for fun on my days off.. isn't that disturbing? All criminal cases though... some strange stuff and some stranger...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2006, 02:12 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 4,514
Posted By Jenny
As a nurse I don't have to have rock solid proof-...

As a nurse I don't have to have rock solid proof- and really who ever does? It is CAS's job to sort this out.

LV- what do you consider rock solid proof? I wouldn't personally ever wait until I had...
Forum: General Chat 05-08-2006, 12:01 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 6,010
Posted By Jenny
What makes you assume FAMILY violence? I am...

What makes you assume FAMILY violence?

I am using it as an analogy since you either didn't get my various other comments/pm's on your "apologies" or you didn't change your response to them. Like...
Forum: General Chat 05-08-2006, 11:39 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 6,010
Posted By Jenny
Are you sure you are done - you said you were...

Are you sure you are done - you said you were done officially a couple of posts ago.:D
Forum: General Chat 05-08-2006, 11:34 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 6,010
Posted By Jenny
Well to take a lesson from you " I'm sorry you...

Well to take a lesson from you " I'm sorry you feel this way"

note the not actually apologizing for MY words but how YOU took them- that is intentional and something I am learning from you....
Forum: General Chat 05-08-2006, 11:14 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 6,010
Posted By Jenny
Well I also mentioned it could be us "leaving"...

Well I also mentioned it could be us "leaving" --Sean has mentioned he offered his resignation to Jeff - and that is what I am responding to.



I suppose some would see his words as apologies...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-08-2006, 11:07 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 4,514
Posted By Jenny
Grace is right. You have a responsibility to...

Grace is right.

You have a responsibility to report this. You can do it in a way that you don't come off as a vindictive ex "using the abuse card". But you MUST report it. Be factual and honest....
Forum: General Chat 05-08-2006, 10:59 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 6,010
Posted By Jenny
I'm sorry that I made you try to word something...

I'm sorry that I made you try to word something that seems like an apology again. It must be tough coming up with phrases that seem like you are apologizing or taking responsibility for your actions....
Forum: General Chat 05-08-2006, 10:42 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 6,010
Posted By Jenny
How about an apology? One that isn't phrased like...

How about an apology? One that isn't phrased like
" I'm sorry you took offense"
" I'm sorry you have a problem with me" "
"I'm sorry YOU feel that way"


I highly doubt Jeff will ask you to...
Forum: General Chat 05-08-2006, 10:35 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 6,010
Posted By Jenny
I would think that her concerns (that many of us...

I would think that her concerns (that many of us share) need to be addressed publicly - or she would have sent you a private message.....
Forum: General Chat 05-08-2006, 10:01 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 6,010
Posted By Jenny
Why a private message? Beltane has expressed her...

Why a private message? Beltane has expressed her concerns publicly and I am wondering why they need to be addressed privately?
Forum: Financial Issues 05-08-2006, 12:12 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,596
Posted By Jenny
I guess what i meant about my opinion about the...

I guess what i meant about my opinion about the courts imputing income at her previous wages was based on line 150 of the income tax - which if she was picking up extra shifts and working more then...
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