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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-16-2016, 03:37 PM
Replies: 78
Views: 2,691
Posted By calicodacat
I would be careful of reading too much into...

I would be careful of reading too much into responses. I said I think it is irresponsible of YOU, if you Ex was on here I would say the same thing to him if what you state is really what he is going...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-16-2016, 03:02 PM
Replies: 78
Views: 2,691
Posted By calicodacat
From my perspective it sounds like it is almost...

From my perspective it sounds like it is almost impossible that you win this case, specially if you he has good lawyer/s.

The fact your even going to court with it seems to me to be a tad...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-16-2016, 02:34 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,834
Posted By calicodacat
She has decided to file the necessary papers for...

She has decided to file the necessary papers for support, problem is, no income, no support. ATM he has moved in with his in-laws and plans to do work around the house for the next few months. He is...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-16-2016, 02:17 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,834
Posted By calicodacat
The simple tone of somebody's message, be it true...

The simple tone of somebody's message, be it true or false can make something insulting. There is no need for fear at all.

Getting back on point....
If a case was made to impute income could...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-14-2016, 03:28 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,834
Posted By calicodacat
I don't feel like anybody said anything that was...

I don't feel like anybody said anything that was out of line. It is their opinions and I respect that.

I have received advice on here that I didn't want to hear and it has helped. In this case,...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-14-2016, 01:20 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,834
Posted By calicodacat
Links, this says a good deal about your...

Links, this says a good deal about your personality..... You will enjoy saying I told you so when my relationship fails and you are hoping for the sake of being correct that when/if it does she takes...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-14-2016, 01:11 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,834
Posted By calicodacat
I do not ever talk bad about him nor do I about...

I do not ever talk bad about him nor do I about my Ex, I was expressing an opinion on a forum. I disagree, there was not an incredible level of disdain. After the crap he's put her through, the fact...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-13-2016, 02:47 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,834
Posted By calicodacat
Very well said Rocksan. She will need to make her...

Very well said Rocksan. She will need to make her decision and I will be there for her. I am willing to support her through the court process if that's what she chooses and of course we can always...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-13-2016, 01:13 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,834
Posted By calicodacat
You might be right on that one Arabian. His new...

You might be right on that one Arabian. His new GF loves D7 to death, I wouldn't put it past her to have just given him the money even though he hasn't paid anything into the house. Suspect that he...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-13-2016, 12:35 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,834
Posted By calicodacat
Are we to believe that 2000$ is all he got from...

Are we to believe that 2000$ is all he got from the proceeds of selling his house? Or is this what he feels is reasonable for a arrears payment for cs. At this point, based on Stripe's statement and...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-13-2016, 12:24 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,834
Posted By calicodacat
So the thread was about retro cs... and your...

So the thread was about retro cs... and your responses although interesting for debate are none the less not super helpful. I am a good sport though so gladly will answer.

Links... last I checked...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-12-2016, 02:40 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,834
Posted By calicodacat
Well... we all need a little push sometimes....

Well... we all need a little push sometimes. Because as a family we are struggling to keep our heads above water and any little bit will help. I believe that we all have a responsibility to care for...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-12-2016, 01:42 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,834
Posted By calicodacat
Retro-Active CS

New partner has 7 yr old daughter, we have been living together for 2.5 yrs ish now. Birth father has been on and off seeing her EOW.

During this 2.5 years he has been to jail 2x for DUI and...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-12-2016, 01:03 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 998
Posted By calicodacat
Yep had a photographer friend do an awesome brady...

Yep had a photographer friend do an awesome brady bunch picture this year... everybody loved it.

School photo's are even worse now that they take them in front of a green screen. Looks like a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-23-2016, 11:40 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,712
Posted By calicodacat
Indeed very well said Roie. I think the amount of...

Indeed very well said Roie. I think the amount of time and when, becomes a big factor in this case. If it's 1 hour a day after school till Mom comes home or is it all evening?
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-23-2016, 10:36 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,712
Posted By calicodacat
Taken from ......

Taken from ... https://www.ontario.ca/laws/statute/90c11

Leaving child unattended
(3) No person having charge of a child less than sixteen years of age shall leave the child without making...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-23-2016, 10:18 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,712
Posted By calicodacat
I believe they do talk about it at some point and...

I believe they do talk about it at some point and I completely agree! It is crazy to think that some politicians thought that this was reasonable.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-23-2016, 09:36 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,712
Posted By calicodacat
I am as far away from a helicopter parent as you...

I am as far away from a helicopter parent as you can get. My S9 takes transit on his own, cooks simple stuff on the stove and yes stays home for short periods of time on his own. GF's S12 is ok to...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-22-2016, 04:32 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 718
Posted By calicodacat
I think those numbers are pretty close. I have...

I think those numbers are pretty close. I have been paying 700$ per month in child support for almost 3 years. By my calculations she is actually taking home more money than I. I will enquire about...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-21-2016, 11:47 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 768
Posted By calicodacat
From my experience with D7, whos situation is...

From my experience with D7, whos situation is quite similar to yours but maybe slightly less pressure to stay home from Mom. It took a strong, kind and helpful teacher to really get her going and...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-21-2016, 11:22 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 488
Posted By calicodacat
CS is the easy part, there are table amounts and...

CS is the easy part, there are table amounts and one parent would then pay the difference (offset) to the other.

Spousal support is a whole other story. It is not granted on a needs only basis...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-21-2016, 10:25 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 768
Posted By calicodacat
One of the most difficult things after separation...

One of the most difficult things after separation for me was knowing I have very little control over how things go at the other parents, even if I feel that it is negative. The GF is always on me...
Forum: Introductions 09-21-2016, 10:11 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,786
Posted By calicodacat
Hi Flora, I think you will find that this is...

Hi Flora,

I think you will find that this is not uncommon in divorce, sad but true. Sounds like the kids are being brought into this wether dad fights or not so my suggestion to him is to get on...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-21-2016, 09:36 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,712
Posted By calicodacat
I agree... but being left alone at 13 with a...

I agree... but being left alone at 13 with a yonger sibling of 10 is questionable. The laws vary from Prov to Prov. You know your kids, is this reasonable? I for one would need to have a really good...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-21-2016, 09:21 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 718
Posted By calicodacat
Hi DD, The negotiations are out of court,...

Hi DD,

The negotiations are out of court, between her and I atm. I do not have copies of her past taxes, she took this in the separation. I have been pushing for all of her financials but so far...
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